100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: Nice guys! | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
They finish last because they don't exist.
That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates  What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Wow!!!
That was great!! Wish I couldve said it like that!!! |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I wish nice guys would stay nice
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I disagree!!!!
nice guys always allow their lovers to "finish" first hence, A truly "Nice" guy finishes last...... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I disagree!!!! nice guys always allow their lovers to "finish" first hence, A truly "Nice" guy finishes last......  I agree
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Like those types " Nice guys finish last"
What exactly makes them nice? I have always wondered  that OOhhh, how do you get color with your words? That is very cool 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Couldn't have said it better Myka
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I can act like a nice guy!
   
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I completely agree with what Myka said, but there really are nice guys out there. It seems like most girls that i know tend to date douche bags. They might not be the hottest out there, or they might not have an assload of money, but they know how to treat women. Trust me, we're out here, you just have to put in the effort to find us.
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
ldyblu2009
on
Wed 09/02/09 02:02 PM
|
|
why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Sexy people never have that problem
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
well are out here but we are just tired of getting our hearts broken all the time
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
i know that feeling all to well had mine broken too
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
well are out here but we are just tired of getting our hearts broken all the time Someone needs a hug 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
They finish last because they don't exist. That's like asking why the Easter Bunny doesn't get any dates What's nice to you? Is it the same thing that would be considered nice to someone else? What is NICE? Nice looking? Nice in bed? Nice to your kids? Can we please grow our vocabulary and find some other words besides nice? And can we please stop using as an excuse as to why we are not successful in the dating world? If you want to know the secret I will tell you... but you have to ACTUALLY LISTEN.... The secret is confidence, not being a "nice guy" or a "bad boy" as every man has a unique blend of both. The key is to find a woman who is compatible with your unique blend. The confidence part comes into play when you get shot down but don't give up because you are happy with who you are. If you don't like you then why should we? It's an excuse for why they can't get the woman they want, if they'd go after what they could have, it wouldn't be a problem, but usually those women are "less than their standards."
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Bingo!!! we have a winner. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
why is it when you find someone your interested in and you say hi and they just blow you off. do you continue to be nice or blow them off too. i find it hard to be nice sometimes. but i do anyway. If you're interested in someone and they're not into you, you're supposed to leave them alone. How would you feel if it was reversed? Would you want someone you're not into still bothering you? Um, no. Bingo!!! we have a winner. Glad someone agrees. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
myka, as always your SO correct you made my willy grow
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 so true Myka.. Calleigh.. It'd be even nicer if the "listening, reading and getting it" actually transpired before posting in a "no more" nice guy thread, how nice they are... 
|
|
|
|
|
