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Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)
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cause nice guys finish last?
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 welcome and good luck |
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Welcome
Tammy 
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I do not remember reading on any of these sites where it is required to respond. It is possibly rude (this has been debated a million times), but you need to keep on plugging and not whine about it. Whining and venting will not help...
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Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :) rant on baby...we all feel that way at times... |
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 Welcome to the site, and watch out, they pick on nice guys in here. |
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Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :) Did you tell them you are a millionaire ?......  . I bet they will reply........  .
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 a nice guy? HERE? |
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 ha ha not whining really just thought it would be something to get people going! 
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ha ha not whining really just thought it would be something to get people going! not really....we're used to it...heh
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Edited by
MelodyGirl
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Wed 09/09/09 07:40 PM
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I use one other site that is more suited for dating; I consider this more of a social network for friends.
Do you honestly think if someone is looking for “the” one that he or she would be in one small niche of a site? With all the people in this world, the chances of finding the right one is near impossible anyway and to only use one dating tool diminishes a person’s chances even more. As someone else said, there are no rules to replying. Sometimes a nice “no thank you” receives a nasty reply – and tis better to just not respond. If a person doesn’t reply, you are probably not their type by attraction or commonalities. I have a 40% success rate in return emails when I initiate; I think that is about average. Welcome and good luck. |
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Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :) In fact , some people are not looking for anything special .They just want to have virtual fun 
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the only other one I go to is bookofmatches and I'm permanently banned from their forums (again)
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Wag More, Bark Less
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But I'm such a nice guy so why aren't the ladies falling all over me?
 
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Wow..harsh..no I think people try different things cause they get discouraged or no good replys or no replys at all..or you have to pay or something..I haven't dated a lot off the sites..I'm only on 2 that I know of..oh wait maybe 3..yahoo personals..anyhow when your done ranting..;)...hit me up on yahoo mess. At mspink1974
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Hmmm, interesting in sight...I understand your ranting, but have you really tried to email alot of people on here?
I am sure most people respond to their messages when they can get to them |
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Not on here. I'm new here :)
But I was on a different site for a little while. Emailed a number of people with almost 0 response (be nice  ). I need meet one terrific woman and we hung out for a few months but we were looking for 2 different things and decided to go our separate ways.
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Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :) Don't assume everyone is like that and you'll be ok. |
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