Topic: Why on so many dating sites?
Quietman_2009's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:10 PM

Not on here. I'm new here :)
But I was on a different site for a little while. Emailed a number of people with almost 0 response (be nice :smile: ). I need meet one terrific woman and we hung out for a few months but we were looking for 2 different things and decided to go our separate ways.


well there's your problem

all the good ones are here

JustAGuy2112's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:13 PM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)


Annnnnddddd....the sound of indifference is deafening...lmao


TJN's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:16 PM
You shouldn't try to wrap your head around things. That tends to lead to expensive hospital staysnoway

And from what I've gathered most women get a lot of emails every day so maybe some haven't gotten to your mail yet.

mz_sugie's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:16 PM
Hang in there sweetie. Someday she will be there.

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Wed 09/09/09 08:16 PM
Just claim that U have a chocolate penis that ejaculates $$$ & your e-mail box will blow up like a trunk full of C4.laugh drinker

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:18 PM

Just claim that U have a chocolate penis that ejaculates $$$ & your e-mail box will blow up like a trunk full of C4.laugh drinker


but I don't like chocolate! :laughing:

Otherwise ... brilliant! :thumbsup:

RKISIT's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:19 PM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)
its like what my grandpa told me"wondering why people do what they do is kind like people wondering why your wondering about it":smile:

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Wed 09/09/09 08:20 PM


Just claim that U have a chocolate penis that ejaculates $$$ & your e-mail box will blow up like a trunk full of C4.laugh drinker


but I don't like chocolate! :laughing:

Otherwise ... brilliant! :thumbsup:


I don't like chocolate either.laugh

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Wed 09/09/09 08:21 PM


Just claim that U have a chocolate penis that ejaculates $$$ & your e-mail box will blow up like a trunk full of C4.laugh drinker


but I don't like chocolate! :laughing:

Otherwise ... brilliant! :thumbsup:

:wink: flowers

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Wed 09/09/09 08:22 PM

shocked a nice guy?


HERE?

pitchfork :laughing: pitchfork

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Wed 09/09/09 10:21 PM
Mingle has the best forums of any other site.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 09/09/09 10:25 PM

But I'm such a nice guy so why aren't the ladies falling all over me?:cry:

....if you can't beat a dead horse, beatcher meat.

longhairbiker's photo
Wed 09/09/09 10:30 PM

But I'm such a nice guy so why aren't the ladies falling all over me?:cry:

.....actually looks like he's doing both in that picture. I'm a nice guy! Whack! Stroke! I'm a nice guy! Whack! Stroke!

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 09/09/09 10:32 PM

I use one other site that is more suited for dating; I consider this more of a social network for friends.

Do you honestly think if someone is looking for “the” one that he or she would be in one small niche of a site? With all the people in this world, the chances of finding the right one is near impossible anyway and to only use one dating tool diminishes a person’s chances even more.

As someone else said, there are no rules to replying. Sometimes a nice “no thank you” receives a nasty reply – and tis better to just not respond.

If a person doesn’t reply, you are probably not their type by attraction or commonalities.

I have a 40% success rate in return emails when I initiate; I think that is about average.

Welcome and good luck.



thank you Melody... I was too tired to say it and you said it perfectly... drinker

Rockmybobbysocks's photo
Wed 09/09/09 10:38 PM
because one is never enough.

and the hilarious thing about it is those who are on like POF and other sites... i talk to them there too..

like stalking. LoL

except friendly like :p

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Wed 09/09/09 10:50 PM

because one is never enough.

and the hilarious thing about it is those who are on like POF and other sites... i talk to them there too..

like stalking. LoL

except friendly like :p


It's the only right way to stalk.:wink:

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Thu 09/10/09 05:38 AM


But I'm such a nice guy so why aren't the ladies falling all over me?:cry:

.....actually looks like he's doing both in that picture. I'm a nice guy! Whack! Stroke! I'm a nice guy! Whack! Stroke!

OMG!that is freakin hilarious.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 09/10/09 05:41 AM

Just claim that U have a chocolate penis that ejaculates $$$ & your e-mail box will blow up like a trunk full of C4.laugh drinker


LMAO!!!

Where can I get one of those!!!


LMAO!!!!!!!

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Thu 09/10/09 05:46 AM


Just claim that U have a chocolate penis that ejaculates $$$ & your e-mail box will blow up like a trunk full of C4.laugh drinker


LMAO!!!

Where can I get one of those!!!


LMAO!!!!!!!

flowers :laughing:

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Thu 09/10/09 06:52 AM

Here is a question I can't wrap my head around. I find there are a lot of people who are on multiple "dating sites" that say they are looking for a "nice, funny down to earth guy..." but if you email them they never respond. Now I know not everyone is going to respond to your emails but geesh ever think the reason you might be having a hard time finding a "good guy" is because you won't give anyone a chance? Anyways it's late and I felt like ranting :)


I've gotten to where I incorporate the "Law of Opposites" when I read profiles.

"Looks don't matter, it's what's on the inside that counts" means "Looks do matter and I'm not going to write you back unless you're perfect."

"Don't be afraid to contact me, I don't bite" means "I don't write back either."

"I love sports" means "I don't know the first thing about sports."

People write what they think they need to write in order to be noticed and accepted. The problem is that everyone has reached this same deceptive conclusion, so they all end up writing the same deceptive profile....over and over and over....did you know that 93.2% of all people on dating sites are "laid back and easy going"? They're thinking about making it mandatory....