Men will never understand what women want? Way to generalize!

I'd be willing to bet if a man were truly interested in a woman, he would LISTEN to her needs and pay attention to her desires.

Women are as different as snow flakes -- just like men. To assume we all want the same thing is asinine; therefore, each gender has to tune-in to their partners, individuate from past experiences, and be open to his or her predilections.




Wait a second.....there are different types of snowflakes????? "Grabs pen to take notes".

Yep! The raspberry ones are my favorite!

I agree. Women like confidence in a man but not overly confident that he is so wrapped up in himself and can't see others around him. lol I hear this a lot from guys, "why do women choose to date bad guys." What defines "bad?" There are some women that date losers and allow guys to treat them mean because they have low self esteem. It happens in relationships, male or female.

My problem was I always figured they were that way because of how hard life had been on them sooooooo stupid me was going to show them love for the first time in their lives and make it all better for them.

They want to be bad and play ya and they like it that way, is more the truth but I had to find it out the hard way.

Yup! You can tell when someone is actually interested, because they do pay attention and are able to figure out what we like, want and need. The men who keep saying they don't know what women want just aren't paying close enough attention.

Hi Emily!

Sooo true. And the funny thing people don't realize is the hottest females have self esteem problems. Sometimes the reason they are always dieting, exercising, getting facials, hair done, hair removal, tanning, etc... and so on is because after all of that, they still don't like or love themselves inside. Over compensation on appearance and projection is sometimes a great sign of inferiority complex at a personal level.

Hello everyone. I'm new to this but I thought I would share this. There's a book called "The Five Love Languages" by Chapman. It's a really great book. It talks about the different love languages that one has.

I agree with you. I remember there was a time that I let a guy put me down. There are ways that individuals can talk to each other and not put each other down. All that does is build up resentment. Love doesn't put others down.

It's a grand conspiracy to eliminate all the nice guys in the world thus only leaving the bad boys and criminals...makes sense, doesn't it? No, not really? Wonder why...

Hi Melody!!

What is a BAD guy? What does that even mean?

urghh another "good guys finish last syndrome".
and the guys that usually claim that they are the good guys are the biggest players.

this is true...

BUT .. I AM the biggest player ..... oh wait I'm only almost 7 foot on skates
Sorry couldn't resist

Hello and welcome from Centre of the Universe , CANADA

sooo you're 7'1" if you stand on a hockey puck with your skates on?
Sorry couldn't help myself..

Point taken HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAH oh yeah and don't forget to add my helmet to that height !!!!!!!! I know .. never mind

hey you,how ya doing

Because 99.999% of all women are demonic vampires in need of a blood-thirsty Edward Cullen lover that can dominate their drama-induced life.

DOH !!!

(My final answer, Regis... did I win the game show contest?)

Another "nice guy" thread, I think I'm going to lose my cookies...

...come visit me, I promise to treat you like crap, give you great sex, and then ditch you for somebody else in 3 weeks. LOL!!