Topic: I am looking for advice here..
Gazzatron's photo
Mon 10/05/09 03:37 PM
I wouldn't mind a moustache or a bit of stubble, but working in a hotel kitchen that is restricted lol. Thanks for the useful tips. I just need a bit of an ego in a way lol.

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Mon 10/05/09 03:38 PM


..first of all develop the attitude that you are the shizzle..lol,maybe look into contacts,grow a little more hair on top,throw in a mustache and maybe a little beard stubble to help the aged effect..and then walk around with confidence and an i don't give a shyt attitude..and they'll flock 2 ya..watch the movie ..Fast times at ridgemont high..and listen to what Damone says..o.k you might omit the last part.lol..but yet still a good movie and Pheobe is hotttttt!!!!!jmo..:laughing:


So you're telling him to be something he's not?

Gazzatron's photo
Tue 10/06/09 01:47 PM
I never saw it that way :O

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/06/09 01:49 PM
Wow

You think a lot

For such a young guy


Just

Jump in the pool

Let the water cover you up and swallow you

Laugh and giggle

Have fun!!!

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Tue 10/06/09 01:50 PM

I wouldn't mind a moustache or a bit of stubble, but working in a hotel kitchen that is restricted lol. Thanks for the useful tips. I just need a bit of an ego in a way lol.


Some women find the less egotistical man to be endearing. So consider that.

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Tue 10/06/09 01:52 PM


I wouldn't mind a moustache or a bit of stubble, but working in a hotel kitchen that is restricted lol. Thanks for the useful tips. I just need a bit of an ego in a way lol.


Some women find the less egotistical man to be endearing. So consider that.


Excellent point. I think that applies to most of us.

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Tue 10/06/09 01:53 PM
If I was young and blonde and lived in England, I'd stalk you....love love love

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Tue 10/06/09 01:57 PM
No need to change into someone you are not. You work, so that means you already interact with people. Go out with coworkers male and female. You will find yourself getting more chummy with someone from that group. It takes time and practise, but eventually you find someone who digs you for who you are not what you look like.

metalwing's photo
Tue 10/06/09 02:58 PM
Buy a Harley. Wear leather. Get a stick to beat the women off.

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 10/06/09 03:00 PM
^^^
that's what gets me going!!!!

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 10/06/09 03:17 PM

In the world of dating, I am a total amateur. The people I have tried relationships with before I have known in some context before getting to be with them.

I have a mild self-esteem issue, partly to do with my lack of a smile (but I am in the middle of trying to sort out my dental issues), and partly to do with the fact that if I go out any place, I find myself frequently on my own.

Ok, so I know people there, but approaching young women (those around my age group I would guess at, but there is no tangible way of meeting a complete stranger and knowing exactly how old they are, without asking), is something I find a rather daunting task, considering what people have said about me and my looks in the past (yes, quite a number of laughed off rejections).

I wonder if I could ask for what I might need to consider doing in order to change a few things?


Buy a motorcycle.

<---Look it worked for me!! laugh

Gazzatron's photo
Tue 10/06/09 03:20 PM
I really do like all this. Everyone is so, pro-active to helping. Its really giving me a new perspective on how I see it panning out now.

(Plus its giving me a perception on how to get rid of the 'ex-blues' so to speak)

Atlantis75's photo
Tue 10/06/09 03:25 PM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Tue 10/06/09 03:28 PM

I really do like all this. Everyone is so, pro-active to helping. Its really giving me a new perspective on how I see it panning out now.

(Plus its giving me a perception on how to get rid of the 'ex-blues' so to speak)


We're here to help.

Since we're in the same boat! laugh rofl rofl rofl

You're asking singles how to land a date or a significant other, which is fine, everyone has an idea and a recommendation, but again, I think we all should be asking the happily married ones and the ones who are dating. drinker

TexasScoundrel's photo
Tue 10/06/09 03:51 PM
I have a lot to say on this subject. But, I've already said it a couple of times. I am a successful dater. I date several women each month. If you aree interested in my advice send me an email through this site and I'll help you however I can.

Gazzatron's photo
Wed 10/07/09 04:27 PM


I really do like all this. Everyone is so, pro-active to helping. Its really giving me a new perspective on how I see it panning out now.

(Plus its giving me a perception on how to get rid of the 'ex-blues' so to speak)


We're here to help.

Since we're in the same boat! laugh rofl rofl rofl

You're asking singles how to land a date or a significant other, which is fine, everyone has an idea and a recommendation, but again, I think we all should be asking the happily married ones and the ones who are dating. drinker


How very true. I really never thought of it that way lmao.

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Wed 10/07/09 09:52 PM

In the world of dating, I am a total amateur. The people I have tried relationships with before I have known in some context before getting to be with them.

I have a mild self-esteem issue, partly to do with my lack of a smile (but I am in the middle of trying to sort out my dental issues), and partly to do with the fact that if I go out any place, I find myself frequently on my own.

Ok, so I know people there, but approaching young women (those around my age group I would guess at, but there is no tangible way of meeting a complete stranger and knowing exactly how old they are, without asking), is something I find a rather daunting task, considering what people have said about me and my looks in the past (yes, quite a number of laughed off rejections).

I wonder if I could ask for what I might need to consider doing in order to change a few things?


Self-confidence...without it you are lost to the dating world. Or you could do like I did and take up a horrific hobby and attract the few, that just so happen to live nowhere near me, which is pretty much the same as not even trying...

randerio's photo
Wed 10/07/09 10:21 PM
im not sure what he said but i just like him, i will look up what he said and will reply..

randerio's photo
Wed 10/07/09 10:23 PM

In the world of dating, I am a total amateur. The people I have tried relationships with before I have known in some context before getting to be with them.

I have a mild self-esteem issue, partly to do with my lack of a smile (but I am in the middle of trying to sort out my dental issues), and partly to do with the fact that if I go out any place, I find myself frequently on my own.

Ok, so I know people there, but approaching young women (those around my age group I would guess at, but there is no tangible way of meeting a complete stranger and knowing exactly how old they are, without asking), is something I find a rather daunting task, considering what people have said about me and my looks in the past (yes, quite a number of laughed off rejections).

I wonder if I could ask for what I might need to consider doing in order to change a few things?
you dont need to change much man, maybe grow like a fumanchu mustashe, that worked for me along time ago, anyway, good luck to you..

Bagosav's photo
Thu 10/08/09 12:11 AM
All you need to do is be yourself. Just be content with who you are. As long as you are content with who you are, everything else will follow and nothing else matters. If there is something that you would like to change about youself then go for it, but dont do it because people have said that is the norm. Do it because you want to to do it for yourself. Get involved in verious activities in your area, there are plenty of people to meet out there. Also, try signing up for acting classes if you think that you would like it. Acting classes are a great way to learn to open up and just go for it. I took acting classes when I was in high school, and trust me they get you out of your skin quick lol. Well, good luck to you in the dating world, and hakuna matata you will eventually find that someone!

CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 10/08/09 12:20 AM
Women like men who know how to laugh and have a sense of humour. Read some jokes, go to a comedy club or two, and get some ideas on how to make people laugh. If you already have a good sense of humour, you're off to a good start. Just one idea of thousands, but if you can joke around with people, you can open some doors. Cheers!