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Topic: need help
masexyred Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 52	Mon 10/12/09 04:46 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time.

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Mon 10/12/09 04:46 PM
No. Why would you do that?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 10/12/09 04:47 PM


isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Mon 10/12/09 04:47 PM
no in less you have no confidence in yourself and you want to be treated like crap...then sure go ahead

GlamorousLyly Joined Sat 11/29/08 Posts: 942	Mon 10/12/09 04:47 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time. Hell NO !

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Mon 10/12/09 04:48 PM
Nope, that's when you get a job, kick his a$$ out, and provide for yourself.

Shyredneck4X4 Joined Sat 11/17/07 Posts: 429	Mon 10/12/09 04:49 PM
If someone cheated on me it would be all bets off. A relationship is based on trust in my mind and when the trust is gone no point to continue.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 10/12/09 04:49 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time. yes you do cause you just asked this question

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Mon 10/12/09 04:49 PM
Bluntly stated, that is using someone for money. We wouldn't want a guy to do that. The most important things in life can't be bought.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 10/12/09 04:49 PM
NOPE! Cheating is a deal breaker and no time together....why bother?

heartbreaker123 Joined Mon 11/10/08 Posts: 1081	Mon 10/12/09 04:52 PM
Nope, that's when you get a job, kick his a$$ out, and provide for yourself. i agree 10000 percent

darinlee Joined Sat 08/08/09 Posts: 659	Mon 10/12/09 05:13 PM
Bluntly stated, that is using someone for money. We wouldn't want a guy to do that. The most important things in life can't be bought. yeah,ive been used like that but i didnt cheat.either way thats not respectful of him or herself.learn to stand on your own two feet is what i say to that and such a question wouldnt arise!

silly Joined Wed 04/25/07 Posts: 2789	Mon 10/12/09 05:19 PM
Hell no,cheating and no time together that's just crazy.

njmom05 Joined Mon 04/23/07 Posts: 5867	Mon 10/12/09 05:20 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time. Why would you want to be with someone like that?

cottonelle Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 3594	Mon 10/12/09 05:25 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time. he better make some pretty good money to begin with and then i`d preffer him to cheat so he wouldnt be a pain in my ***...lol

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Mon 10/12/09 05:35 PM
You didn't mention any feelings. Do you love him enough to share his resources with these other women? Do you have the ability to give yourself the kind of life you desire? Jackie Kennedy knew her man cheated, but chose to stay with him anyway. Are you as strong as she was?

FearandLoathing Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 30121	Mon 10/12/09 06:14 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time. Sure, if you don't mind the fact that he is screwing another girl...probably devoting more time to the other girl, and shafting you except for putting a roof over your head...why not?

Socratease Joined Wed 07/30/08 Posts: 417	Mon 10/12/09 06:23 PM
A good provider is one that provides all needs for a healthy relation,not just one or two phases...being emotionally confident and trustful is far more important than financial imho.Its up to you tho,if u want to have a sugar daddy instead of a man that is honest with feelings and virtue....because last time i heard you can declare bankruptcy of cash and be fine after a while ,but not of emotion,because that takes longer and you lack "investment" opportunities

catseyes1 Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 1459	Mon 10/12/09 06:33 PM
if a guy is a good provider do u overlook everything else like cheating, no quality time. If he is a good provider? You ask if you can overlook everything else like cheating NO NO NO! And if he does not want to spend any quality time with you that should tell you something right there. Just because he is good provider doesn't make him a good lover.

TxsSun Joined Wed 05/20/09 Posts: 14582	Mon 10/12/09 06:54 PM
Forget the money honey...If he isn't making you feel worthy, then there is no point!!!!!