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      how do you deal with mooching relatives?
 
  do you feel sorry for them and help them out? or do you refuse to tolerate it at all?  | 
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      IF they do it ALL of the time, I DO NOT help them. They need to learn money management!
     
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      I don't mind helping anyone but if they don't try to help themselves along the way then I will back off and away from them.... 
    
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      I help once
 
  After that no way!! I worked way to hard to have what I have! If I can do it so can they!!   
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     I don't mind helping anyone but if they don't try to help themselves along the way then I will back off and away from them....   
  
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      I've done this with my sister.  But mine is a little different.  I co-signed for her to get a loan.  Now, I don't want to look at my credit score.  Thankfully she's making her payments now.
     
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      it helps when you have nothing for them to mooch.  
    
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     I don't mind helping anyone but if they don't try to help themselves along the way then I will back off and away from them....   
  
  
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      I don't have relatives like that but when I worked in da hood I got asked these two questions 10 times a day...Yo you got a square...lemme get a dollar 
    
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        Edited by
        bdpm
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        Fri 11/06/09 06:07 PM
       
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      I got lucky.  I cut most out before I landed on my career path, and for good reasons.
     
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     it helps when you have nothing for them to mooch.   
Yeap...the best way       
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     it helps when you have nothing for them to mooch.   
So true.   
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