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Topic: Would you as a modern woman date a man who dosent believe in
wisewarrior's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:16 PM
Would you as a modern woman date a man who dosent believe in casual sex

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:21 PM
of course. I don't think casual sex equates to being modern

michellelingelbach's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:29 PM
yes. modern woman doesn't mean tramp :)

no photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:36 PM
Casual sex as existed for always, before they kept it quiet and did not advertise doing it like we do today but it has always existed

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:46 PM

yes. modern woman doesn't mean tramp :)


Soooo...that's been my problem.frustrated frustrated laugh laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:51 PM


yes. modern woman doesn't mean tramp :)


Soooo...that's been my problem.frustrated frustrated laugh laugh


no...your problem is that you aren't kicking them in the butt often enough lol

GG2's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:53 PM
Definitely, thats the best kind of man to date!!

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:55 PM



yes. modern woman doesn't mean tramp :)


Soooo...that's been my problem.frustrated frustrated laugh laugh


no...your problem is that you aren't kicking them in the butt often enough lol


Yeah...you like that don't cha?....Oooooooo....kick you in your booty....you bad, booty girl....laugh laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:56 PM

Would you as a modern woman date a man who dosent believe in casual sex

heck yeah..you know where I can find one?!?!..lol

BABCHI's photo
Wed 11/11/09 02:59 PM
My kinda friend............

yellowrose10's photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:01 PM




yes. modern woman doesn't mean tramp :)


Soooo...that's been my problem.frustrated frustrated laugh laugh


no...your problem is that you aren't kicking them in the butt often enough lol


Yeah...you like that don't cha?....Oooooooo....kick you in your booty....you bad, booty girl....laugh laugh


love love love love love laugh

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:14 PM
Who says being a "modern day" woman means she has casual sex? You aren’t making a generalization, are you? :laughing:

I am very extroverted, and progressive in many ways; however, I do not have casual sex.

My views on dating, courtship, and marriage are traditional.

I will never live with a man before marriage because I would compromise my self-worth. If he is getting all the benefits of "marriage" (sex; emotional support; financial contributions; a partner in life; maid, etc) then what would inspire him to marry me?

I digress. oops

I love sex, and I love having sex with someone who is important in my life but casual sex just doesn't do it for me. I want substance as well. flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:30 PM
My ex, days after we broke up, tells me that she knows that I will have sex before she ever does. I ask her why she thinks that? Her reply? "I know men!"

rant rant rant


This pissed me off big time. She knew that I was a selective person, that I did not just go out and have sex. Heck. When we met, I never went at her like some rabid dog trying to tap it. And she comes back with that? Cause, she knows men?

I actually vowed to not have casual sex unless it was with someone that I wanted to be with, and wanted to be with me. Anyone can have "sex". And, while I love it, I don't want to just go out and get it from some chick that I meet in a bar or club. All I am doing is satisfying a physical need. And yeah, the sex would probably be good. But if there is nothing else there, then why should some random chick get my lovin? She shouldn't.

I realize I aint the hottest looking dude out there. But I know who I am, know what I am about, and know that I am somewhat attractive. But to me, if all she sees is a physical thing from me, then what is the point? Oh yeah. Having sex will bring us closer? Eh, not really. I will just bust a nut and then tell her to leave. And, that aint me.

Way I figure it...I will be single for a long time.:wink:

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:34 PM

My ex, days after we broke up, tells me that she knows that I will have sex before she ever does. I ask her why she thinks that? Her reply? "I know men!"

rant rant rant


This pissed me off big time. She knew that I was a selective person, that I did not just go out and have sex. Heck. When we met, I never went at her like some rabid dog trying to tap it. And she comes back with that? Cause, she knows men?

I actually vowed to not have casual sex unless it was with someone that I wanted to be with, and wanted to be with me. Anyone can have "sex". And, while I love it, I don't want to just go out and get it from some chick that I meet in a bar or club. All I am doing is satisfying a physical need. And yeah, the sex would probably be good. But if there is nothing else there, then why should some random chick get my lovin? She shouldn't.

I realize I aint the hottest looking dude out there. But I know who I am, know what I am about, and know that I am somewhat attractive. But to me, if all she sees is a physical thing from me, then what is the point? Oh yeah. Having sex will bring us closer? Eh, not really. I will just bust a nut and then tell her to leave. And, that aint me.

Way I figure it...I will be single for a long time.:wink:




I can't believe that whore said that to youlaugh

no photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:39 PM
I can't do casual sex, I get attached....

Goofball73's photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:42 PM


My ex, days after we broke up, tells me that she knows that I will have sex before she ever does. I ask her why she thinks that? Her reply? "I know men!"

rant rant rant


This pissed me off big time. She knew that I was a selective person, that I did not just go out and have sex. Heck. When we met, I never went at her like some rabid dog trying to tap it. And she comes back with that? Cause, she knows men?

I actually vowed to not have casual sex unless it was with someone that I wanted to be with, and wanted to be with me. Anyone can have "sex". And, while I love it, I don't want to just go out and get it from some chick that I meet in a bar or club. All I am doing is satisfying a physical need. And yeah, the sex would probably be good. But if there is nothing else there, then why should some random chick get my lovin? She shouldn't.

I realize I aint the hottest looking dude out there. But I know who I am, know what I am about, and know that I am somewhat attractive. But to me, if all she sees is a physical thing from me, then what is the point? Oh yeah. Having sex will bring us closer? Eh, not really. I will just bust a nut and then tell her to leave. And, that aint me.

Way I figure it...I will be single for a long time.:wink:




I can't believe that whore said that to youlaugh


:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: Yeah. I just tap it all.

Avellana's photo
Wed 11/11/09 03:45 PM

Would you as a modern woman date a man who dosent believe in casual sex


Yes, But out of curiosity, what type of sex do you believe in?
:wink:

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Wed 11/11/09 04:01 PM


Would you as a modern woman date a man who dosent believe in casual sex


Yes, But out of curiosity, what type of sex do you believe in?
:wink:

An assumption needs to be corrected here. You assume that modern men want casual sex. I do not think so.

Avellana's photo
Wed 11/11/09 05:24 PM
No assumption, it's a fact that many men and women do believe and are only interested in casual sex. Modern people take the option to live their life the way they want, no rules, whatever feels right for them. I'm all for that freedom of choice without being judged for it. However, personally, sex is linked to emotions, therefore i'm not casual with it.

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/11/09 05:27 PM

No assumption, it's a fact that many men and women do believe and are only interested in casual sex. Modern people take the option to live their life the way they want, no rules, whatever feels right for them. I'm all for that freedom of choice without being judged for it. However, personally, sex is linked to emotions, therefore i'm not casual with it.



I totally understand, I totally agree and I would totally LOVE to find the man who has honed his relationship skills beyond JUST the bedroom. Intimacy with substance is much better than the 'casual' kind... to me.

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