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Topic: Would..... YOU
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Sat 12/05/09 08:50 AM

Pardon my confusion, but isn't an LDR one where you DON'T move to be near them? Doesn't it become a just-plain Relationship if you move?

If you mean would I give serious consideration to dropping everything and move to be near someone I've only known from a great distance, I'd have to say a brain tumor or aneurysm would be required first. The degree of childish belief in the magic of love required is beyond my aged abilities.

I WOULD move heaven, earth, AND give up my favorite parking spot to be with someone I already loved, if I could. I have a personal limit though, of a severely handicapped child, who I would NOT give up being near for any mere lover.


I hear you......I am in the same situation and of course children come first, before being able to traipse off into the sunset chasing after an elusive dream. I think that LDR would have to turn into much more before I would ever consider making any life changes. That's why I haven't dated anyone long distance...it just didn't seem fair to them as they would have to the be the one doing all the traveling.

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Sat 12/05/09 08:51 AM
Hell no

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Sat 12/05/09 09:30 AM
No way would not even consider it!

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Sat 12/05/09 10:05 AM
On the internet or on the phone.. people are whatever they want to pretend to be.
But you don't really know someone till you have lived with them for a long time, or at least dated for a really really long time.
I moved here fairly recently to be close to my family, and I bought my home, paid for!! won't be done with the remodel for a couple of years.
But the only situation I have ran into so far with women online is....the are in debt over their eyebrows and screaming out for a lifeline.

I have had to work so hard all of my life, saved forever and paid cash for my home, WHY THE HEii WOULD I EVEN CONSIDER MOVING IN WITH A GAL AND MAKE HER HOUSE PAYMENTS!! THEN WHEN I"M BROKE..AND OR SHE LOSES INTEREST.. I'M THE ONE THAT WOULD BECOME HOMELESS AND MY LIFE SAVINGS BURNED UP.

So NO!!

Only a normal, near or fairly nearby dating relationship here

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