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Topic: opening up and being honest on a date..
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Fri 12/11/09 08:56 PM
When you go on a date with someone at what point do you drop the bomb so to speak...about your past baggage...Do you wait a few dates when that special someone has attached herself or himself to you?? Or do you lay your cards out on the table...and let fate take its course?? Have fun with this one everyone:smile:

ledi180's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:57 PM
I have baggage, as much as the next person I guess, but I'm not sure why it needs to be a topic of conversation - especially on the first date flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Fri 12/11/09 08:59 PM
If I reach a point to go on a date with someone, it's after talking to someone for quite a while.. By that time we've usually discussed who we are and why, etc. So if it moves to a first date the last thing we need to discuss is past baggage....

tanyaann's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:00 PM
In the period of getting to know someone, I think it should come up naturally... however, if it is becoming serious or even a hint of seriousness... then I think things should be disclosed. Now I might be more adapt to lay things out before things become serious.

Quietman_2009's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:01 PM
I don't deal with baggage

I have the concierge do it for me

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:01 PM
What's a date???spock spock

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:02 PM
As soon as I am comfortable with them. It's an internal thing for me so I can't really say exactly when. Just whenever it comes out naturally. Most of my baggage is not a secret though.

It's either on my profile or it becomes obvious that I am a man hating biotch every Tuesday from 3 to 5 pm. happy

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:03 PM
I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh

fastlinnie's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:03 PM
We all have some. some people have more that others. but i just tell it like it is. they will find out sooner or lattersmokin

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:03 PM

I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh


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fastlinnie's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:04 PM

I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh
That!s the only way to beflowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:04 PM


I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh


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hush you. sit in your corner and look pretty laugh

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:05 PM



I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh


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hush you. sit in your corner and look pretty laugh



love love love Love it when you talk mean and give direct orders.laugh laugh

Etrain's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:06 PM
After sex is usually a good time:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Fri 12/11/09 09:07 PM

What's a date???spock spock
A date is whenever you get to know someone through friendship or otherwise..Coffee..dinner...ect

tanyaann's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:07 PM



I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh


slaphead slaphead slaphead


hush you. sit in your corner and look pretty laugh


Where's the duct tape? laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:08 PM




I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh


slaphead slaphead slaphead


hush you. sit in your corner and look pretty laugh


Where's the duct tape? laugh


I'm not even going to give him a choice in colors either....so there laugh

Ruth34611's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:09 PM

After sex is usually a good time:banana: :banana: :banana:


laugh laugh laugh

Goofball73's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:09 PM





I'm an open book and I talk a lot. So any date I have better get used to it quickly or it won't last laugh


slaphead slaphead slaphead


hush you. sit in your corner and look pretty laugh


Where's the duct tape? laugh


I'm not even going to give him a choice in colors either....so there laugh


Be gentle.laugh laugh laugh

johncarl's photo
Fri 12/11/09 09:09 PM
hey one date would be nice what is up with the lady's nowadays laugh ware is the ho ho ho thing.laugh laugh laugh

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