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Topic: nationality counts?
Atlantis75's photo
Mon 12/14/09 12:28 PM





Basically she was a type of a woman, who hates counterquestions, she wants answers not questions. Basically many women treat guys like they are interviewing them and they must present some sort of a resume with a biography.

It's a problem with many women I noticed.

For many women it goes like this: she puts out her picture, lipstick big boobs and guys just submit to it and display an affection and crave and they shall never question her "authority".


I think you just generalized here. Just because I have big boobs and lipstick I certainly don't fall into that category. Nor do I want someone to submit to me. You should never judge anyone's personality based on their looks.frustrated


I generalized?

for many women(quoting myself from my response) means all women to you?



No, of course not all. The definition of many is : consisting of or amounting to a large but indefinite number. That to me is assuming a large number are all similar. I didn't use the word generalize to mean all. No offense intended...sorry.


flowerforyou

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Mon 12/14/09 12:30 PM
I'm thinking she was looking for a Kazakhstanian.

No biggie

Monier's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:03 PM

You know what I think? It's nothing to do with the nationality. She could might as well asked me "So why do you like vanilla ?"

And me instead of answering with a "yes" or "no", I would have asked "How do you know I like vanilla?"


Basically she was a type of a woman, who hates counterquestions, she wants answers not questions. Basically many women treat guys like they are interviewing them and they must present some sort of a resume with a biography.

It's a problem with many women I noticed.

For many women it goes like this: she puts out her picture, lipstick big boobs and guys just submit to it and display an affection and crave and they shall never question her "authority".



I love being questioned by a controlling woman. It's the 2nd half of what I get out of the dating scene: entertainment. It's so incredibly funny to watch the stages of it unfold.

1. Social Compatability (Does she like your job, friends and family?)
2. Agreeability (Will you argue with her? Do it and your done)
3. Sacrifice (Normally tested through a series of mind games ie will you take her phone call while your favorite tv show is on or favorite team is playing? How will you accomodate her?)

Pass those tests and if she's an extreme control freak she now thinks she can get away with anything.

I usually drop the intellectual bomb when she starts putting words in my mouth. That's my limit. Watching the panic is exciting.



XenomorphEyez's photo
Mon 12/14/09 02:36 PM
Is this your first bought with racism? As a person that nobody can tell what the heck I am, you'd be amazed what comes out of people's mouths when they think you are one of them and they feel they are free to say what they really want. Then you get to verbally ***** slap them and put the embarrassment smackdown on them.



It's a problem with many women I noticed.

For many women it goes like this: she puts out her picture, lipstick big boobs and guys just submit to it and display an affection and crave and they shall never question her "authority".

Yes you just described me. Thanks for ruining it. frustrated


Well

There are some nationalities I will not deal with

Those that.feel women are inferior are the worst!

Otherwise

I love my Italian men !!!:heart:


You haven't watched Jersey Shore have you???rofl I kid. As a NYer,, I know those are the exception and not the rule. My ex was sicilian and nothing like those asshats. It's a sad state when morons are revered and given a platform. They are too stupid to realize they are a joke and nobody is laughing with them but at them.

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Mon 12/14/09 02:56 PM


Ok, not here but somewhere else, nothing seriously particular and I don't care but after a woman asked me my nationality, she never replied again.

She asked me "what's your nationality?"

And I'm like "How do you know that I'm a different nationality? What gave it away"?

And she goes "you have that different look"

I'm like "I never thought that I got a look that says I'm a different nationality, but I guess I do"

So she goes like "so are you gonna tell me or what"

I'm like alright, I tell her, "I moved to the USA in '92, I was 17 from Hungary"

She immediately logged off. what

Maybe she thought that if she tried to pry for the simple question of your nationality she didn't want to bother with any other questions...kind of smart a$$ remarks...


Isaac, I have to agree with what you said. Secondly, OP, maybe it had nothing to do with you or your nationality, maybe her spouse or kids stepped in the room and she got caught. Maybe her power went out at her computer. Maybe her time was up at the library where she was using the computer. There are a whole lot of maybe's. But if it was because of your nationality, do you really care? Do you really want to be with that type of person? I know I wouldn't. Just be thankful you found out early on.

Just my opinion from one Hungarian to another. :wink:

Atlantis75's photo
Mon 12/14/09 03:04 PM


Just my opinion from one Hungarian to another. :wink:


ssssssssst! Don't reveal them that we control the world.laugh

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