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..paper or plastic... 
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I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice. Shyness is usually a turn off. Try not to be so shy. Don't over step your comfort zone, just try to be more outgoing a little at a time. Maybe start by going out to eat a bit more often. Maybe find some different places in your area to hangout. Join a club or two. Try new things. Switch up your routine a bit. Learn more about you. Become more comfortable with yourself. Just try not to be so shy. You don't necessarily have to change who you are, just try to be more outgoing. I don't agree that shyness is a turn off. When I meet one who is shy and quiet I figure he is doing the same thing I do at first. Getting comfortable with my surroundings, feeling out the energy of those around me, making eye contact and reading people... then when I am comfortable I will loosen up (or I have gotten a bad vibe and will leave) and get more involved. I think shyness is mysterious and much more attractive than one who comes off like gangbusters, obnoxious and comes on too strong. That's more "feeling the scene" than shyness. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL  By personality darling... by personality!  I am SO screwed.   Thanks for the sympathy flower, Tanya....lmao |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL By personality darling... by personality! I am SO screwed. Thanks for the sympathy flower, Tanya....lmao You are welcome sweets! Come to the Michigan Mingle Meet... and we'll break ya of the shyness!  
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practice on us in the forums  or as I said, in a strip club. There is no danger of rejection there if you got the cash!  danger of other things though  What? Boobs and butts? |
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I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice. Shyness is usually a turn off. Try not to be so shy. Don't over step your comfort zone, just try to be more outgoing a little at a time. Maybe start by going out to eat a bit more often. Maybe find some different places in your area to hangout. Join a club or two. Try new things. Switch up your routine a bit. Learn more about you. Become more comfortable with yourself. Just try not to be so shy. You don't necessarily have to change who you are, just try to be more outgoing. I don't agree that shyness is a turn off. When I meet one who is shy and quiet I figure he is doing the same thing I do at first. Getting comfortable with my surroundings, feeling out the energy of those around me, making eye contact and reading people... then when I am comfortable I will loosen up (or I have gotten a bad vibe and will leave) and get more involved. I think shyness is mysterious and much more attractive than one who comes off like gangbusters, obnoxious and comes on too strong. That's more "feeling the scene" than shyness. It's the same thing...the quiet one, sitting back, not talking. To the observer it is shyness... |
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practice on us in the forums or as I said, in a strip club. There is no danger of rejection there if you got the cash! danger of other things though What? Boobs and butts? could pop???? who knows. watch where ya sit too
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practice on us in the forums or as I said, in a strip club. There is no danger of rejection there if you got the cash! danger of other things though What? Boobs and butts? could pop???? who knows. watch where ya sit too I've been in stripclubs about 5-6 times in my life. It's a good booster for any guys who is shy. I took one of my friend who just couldn't even talk to a woman. After 3 beers and girls shoving their butts into his face, I actually had to hold him back not to jump on any girls outside.
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL By personality darling... by personality! I am SO screwed. Thanks for the sympathy flower, Tanya....lmao You are welcome sweets! Come to the Michigan Mingle Meet... and we'll break ya of the shyness! As of this moment, I plan on being there. But...I am only shy for a little while. I sit back and watch how things develop for a bit. I am fine once I know what I can get away with. |
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I've been in stripclubs about 5-6 times in my life. It's a good booster for any guys who is shy. I took one of my friend who just couldn't even talk to a woman. After 3 beers and girls shoving their butts into his face, I actually had to hold him back not to jump on any girls outside. I actually had a friend that was a stripper. She was a great friend too. I'm teasing about strippers. ya know...I've never understood people paying to see boobs though |
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I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice. Just say hi. It is quick, simple and painless 
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 Hi Everybody...
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Sun 12/27/09 08:43 PM
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I've been in stripclubs about 5-6 times in my life. It's a good booster for any guys who is shy. I took one of my friend who just couldn't even talk to a woman. After 3 beers and girls shoving their butts into his face, I actually had to hold him back not to jump on any girls outside. I actually had a friend that was a stripper. She was a great friend too. I'm teasing about strippers. ya know...I've never understood people paying to see boobs though Every man knows they gonna have to pay either way. The one that takes longer and more expensive - going on a date, with the 50/50 percent chance that he ever get to see her again after that.. The shortest "instant" with only a few dollars - strip clubs. Not to mention, I could blow away hundreds of dollars on dates, waste my gasoline, play nice guy games and try to please her and I might not even get to see boobs anyway. While strip clubs - you just walk right in with dollar bills. |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'm not buying it..you are neither ugly or shy. Maybe your not as shy here as in real life, but who isn't. I'm very shy in person, till I get to know people..believe it or not. |
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I've been in stripclubs about 5-6 times in my life. It's a good booster for any guys who is shy. I took one of my friend who just couldn't even talk to a woman. After 3 beers and girls shoving their butts into his face, I actually had to hold him back not to jump on any girls outside. I actually had a friend that was a stripper. She was a great friend too. I'm teasing about strippers. ya know...I've never understood people paying to see boobs though Me either. lol |
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I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice. Shyness is usually a turn off. Try not to be so shy. Don't over step your comfort zone, just try to be more outgoing a little at a time. Maybe start by going out to eat a bit more often. Maybe find some different places in your area to hangout. Join a club or two. Try new things. Switch up your routine a bit. Learn more about you. Become more comfortable with yourself. Just try not to be so shy. You don't necessarily have to change who you are, just try to be more outgoing. I don't agree that shyness is a turn off. When I meet one who is shy and quiet I figure he is doing the same thing I do at first. Getting comfortable with my surroundings, feeling out the energy of those around me, making eye contact and reading people... then when I am comfortable I will loosen up (or I have gotten a bad vibe and will leave) and get more involved. I think shyness is mysterious and much more attractive than one who comes off like gangbusters, obnoxious and comes on too strong. That's more "feeling the scene" than shyness. It's the same thing...the quiet one, sitting back, not talking. To the observer it is shyness... Yes, it's very easy to confuse shyness. I'm just saying shyness is sitting back quietly due to a lack of confidence, but there are many reasons why one would be quiet, mysterious, reserved, which can be attractive. Having a lack of confidence is not usually a turn on. |
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I am good looking. Just shy until I know someone. I don't do the bar scene. How do I meet women? Any advice. Not buying it. Hmmm, for someone so shy, you had no problem with telling us of your self perception of good looking. I don't think you are shy at all. A shy person wouldn't put themselves out there like this to draw attention. 
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Hi Everybody... I didn't say to "everyone" 
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Hi Everybody... I didn't say to "everyone" |
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To hell with the " handsome " shy dude. Tell me how an UGLY shy guy can attract women. THEN I'll be getting somewhere. LOL I'm not buying it..you are neither ugly or shy. Maybe your not as shy here as in real life, but who isn't. I'm very shy in person, till I get to know people..believe it or not. When I am around people that I don't know....I really don't say much of anything for a while. For how long depends on how quickly I get comfortable and how long it takes me to determine whether, when I Do decide to get involved in conversations, the folks involved will actually get the joke. I have had nights where I went out with my brother to a bar or something, and I didn't say much of anything to anyone for the entire night because I knew they weren't going to able to " get it ". That doesn't mean I'm not friendly to the people that talk to me. I'll respond and converse with them, but only to a point. I'll just be careful about what I say. |
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