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Topic: Sometime
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Mon 12/28/09 09:18 AM
I think the next time a man asks "Would you like to out sometime?", my answer will be "I'll answer that question sometime". Is he actually wanting a date? Is he just feeling the situation out to see what my response will be? Isn't "sometime" a little too vague?

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Mon 12/28/09 09:19 AM

I think the next time a man asks "Would you like to out sometime?", my answer will be "I'll answer that question sometime". Is he actually wanting a date? Is he just feeling the situation out to see what my response will be? Isn't "sometime" a little too vague?

laugh good question, reminded me of the movie, He's just not that into you. laugh

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Mon 12/28/09 09:20 AM
I met a guy like that recently. He'd tell me he wanted to go out, but waited me for me to make all the decisions. The second date never happened.

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Mon 12/28/09 09:26 AM
You are right, it is way too vague.

He should have just ask "Would you like to just have sex right here on the floor"

right to the point and not vague!!
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Mon 12/28/09 09:29 AM
Edited by Aries151 on Mon 12/28/09 09:29 AM
A lot of guys ask that, it means they're a little nervous.

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Mon 12/28/09 09:29 AM
Well that would be a lot easier for a yes on no answer...lol

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Mon 12/28/09 09:30 AM
It's just a simple question

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Mon 12/28/09 09:31 AM

A lot of guys ask that, it means they're a little nervous.


Is it really that hard to ask someone out for a certain time? "Lets go out sometime" is too vague.

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Mon 12/28/09 09:35 AM
Just no pleasing some women.

This is just an ice breaker, allowing discussion for when and where.

if this is really such a problem, saying no would definitely be the best.
This will save him from going on a date with a nutcase.whoa

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Mon 12/28/09 09:37 AM

I will not dignify that question with an answer:tongue:

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Mon 12/28/09 09:37 AM

I think the next time a man asks "Would you like to out sometime?", my answer will be "I'll answer that question sometime". Is he actually wanting a date? Is he just feeling the situation out to see what my response will be? Isn't "sometime" a little too vague?


Isn't this type a question meant as an icebreaker?.....smokin

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Mon 12/28/09 09:39 AM



Its a simple question now quit being a prude and answer:angry: laugh

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Mon 12/28/09 09:41 AM




Its a simple question now quit being a prude and answer:angry: laugh


and the answer is, sure sometime laugh

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Mon 12/28/09 09:41 AM


I will not dignify that question with an answer:tongue:


see my first reply aboveflowers

:laughing:

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Mon 12/28/09 09:41 AM
I never really thought about it... lol. Ya could always just ask them to Define "Sometime".

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Mon 12/28/09 09:42 AM
I guess if you haven't been out before, it could be an ice breaker. Though, I had been out with someone and he asked if we could go out again sometime. I asked him what he had in mind and when he wanted to go and all I got was "I dunno."

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Mon 12/28/09 09:42 AM


I think the next time a man asks "Would you like to out sometime?", my answer will be "I'll answer that question sometime". Is he actually wanting a date? Is he just feeling the situation out to see what my response will be? Isn't "sometime" a little too vague?


Isn't this type a question meant as an icebreaker?.....smokin


That's what I'M trying to figure out. It's confusing when I'm asked this and then there is no follow through on the guy's part. After all, he was the one that suggested it.

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Mon 12/28/09 09:43 AM



I think the next time a man asks "Would you like to out sometime?", my answer will be "I'll answer that question sometime". Is he actually wanting a date? Is he just feeling the situation out to see what my response will be? Isn't "sometime" a little too vague?


Isn't this type a question meant as an icebreaker?.....smokin


That's what I'M trying to figure out. It's confusing when I'm asked this and then there is no follow through on the guy's part. After all, he was the one that suggested it.


Tell him "Sure, what did you have in mind?" and see what he says.

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Mon 12/28/09 09:46 AM
Is it any different than when asked would you like to go out and the person asking receives, I'll letcha know as a response.

Some people are vague just in case things don't turn out well.

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Mon 12/28/09 09:48 AM



I think the next time a man asks "Would you like to out sometime?", my answer will be "I'll answer that question sometime". Is he actually wanting a date? Is he just feeling the situation out to see what my response will be? Isn't "sometime" a little too vague?


Isn't this type a question meant as an icebreaker?.....smokin


That's what I'M trying to figure out. It's confusing when I'm asked this and then there is no follow through on the guy's part. After all, he was the one that suggested it.


I would think if that questions was asked and the answer was yes then it would be followed by "Would you like to have dinner next Friday around 7:00" or whatever. I haven't dated in over 20 years so you might not want to listen to anything I say...laugh

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