She may be speaking for some, but certainly not all. I have male friends who are married. I have no issue with it and neither do they or their wives.

You would be suprized how many of my friends end up naked with me.

Actually this site is considered a Social Site as well even though many try to make it a Dating Site Only it is not and has never been just that.

This site was created for all no matter what sexually preference they have nor if they are here strictly for friendship as well.

But at times those that are here strictly for dating and sees others that are here and married or with someone they automatically assume they are here to cheat on their partner.

So if one does not make it clear within their profile who's fault is it but the one that created the profile. One always needs to make it very clear what they are here for from the beginning.

I have no problem with just having friends and have made several since I have been here that we are strictly friends only.

What bothers me are those that do have a partner and disrespects that bond and are actually on sites to find someone else.

Even though this site is for all it is still consider a Dating Site as well. So one must be very clear if they are not here for that as well.....

I'm here mostly for the forums and to spread sunshine.

His health issue permits him only to have lady friends. Going out with his use to be friends is out of the question. He use to enjoy a single malt Scoth with the best of them, but his diabetes has stopped him years ago. As far as sex goes, Viagra 100 mg works wonders for him but since he already takes 23 pills a day, he can't take any, what else is left to talk about with the guys, Frenship, music, chess, no with the guys its booze sports **** and ***.

Thank you for stating this. And personally speaking, If in a serious relationship., married or not, why are people seeking 'friends' of the opposite sex to begin with? Those to me are the little 'red flags' that another thread was posted about. As a society on the whole, things always happen that never were meant to, and people blame it on the heat of the moment, we had a few drinks, it was just a kiss, etc. Sounds very old fashioned yet marriages fall apart these days as soon as they're created because it's just so okay to have good friends with the opposite gender. Why aren't we putting the same energy we have for a new friendship into the ones we have made already? We're such a instant grad world, that as soon as things get a little hard...off we go to find someone who 'understands' us. We all goof around here, and call people our friends... most are in other states, and it's all on paper- as they used to say, yet friends really is a word, to me, that we know each other, have been through lifes times and made it through to the otherside. that's pretty hard to do on a computer. Close acquaintences would seem more appropriate. If it gets to phone calls more than a couple of times a year and regular meetings then it's friends. These are just my thoughts about it, and am not saying this is how it is. So when a person is on herewho is in a commited relationship and say they are looking for friends of the opposite...especially if they are new and haven't been on here for years....then i really wonder. It's not a judgement call I just wonder. Okay...thats my rant for today
(actually my 2nd- 3 more days and then 3 days off . will try to be quiet until then .

Thank you for stating this. And personally speaking, If in a serious relationship., married or not, why are people seeking 'friends' of the opposite sex to begin with? Those to me are the little 'red flags' that another thread was posted about. As a society on the whole, things always happen that never were meant to, and people blame it on the heat of the moment, we had a few drinks, it was just a kiss, etc. Sounds very old fashioned yet marriages fall apart these days as soon as they're created because it's just so okay to have good friends with the opposite gender. Why aren't we putting the same energy we have for a new friendship into the ones we have made already? We're such a instant grad world, that as soon as things get a little hard...off we go to find someone who 'understands' us. We all goof around here, and call people our friends... most are in other states, and it's all on paper- as they used to say, yet friends really is a word, to me, that we know each other, have been through lifes times and made it through to the otherside. that's pretty hard to do on a computer. Close acquaintences would seem more appropriate. If it gets to phone calls more than a couple of times a year and regular meetings then it's friends. These are just my thoughts about it, and am not saying this is how it is. So when a person is on herewho is in a commited relationship and say they are looking for friends of the opposite...especially if they are new and haven't been on here for years....then i really wonder. It's not a judgement call I just wonder. Okay...thats my rant for today
(actually my 2nd- 3 more days and then 3 days off . will try to be quiet until then .

This is from pink_lady's boyfriend Dan and i am posting only to say that this whole thing sounds like a load of BS.

Ok, i dont get this, just cos he cant drink scotch doesnt mean he cant spend time with friends!

Secondly, why r u talking about his private stuff like him taking viagra on a public site?

All seems a bit odd to me!

And, I concur.

I fail to see what the problem is; several women on here have indicated they wouldn't mind being friends with you. Obviously other women in real life wouldn't mind being friends with you. My suggestion is to find those people and strike up a conversation that leads to friendship- problem solved. You're never going to convince everyone to agree with you, so to keep trying is an utter waste of your time.