Topic: Have you ever...
Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:00 PM

Gosh it sounds like you got it bad today! I just wrote a little blurb to you even before I read this question, and my answer is for sure! Life is just too much sometimes but then it passes and suddenly the world is fantastic again, if you ever need to vent or just want a friend to bounce stuff off, send me a message!

Marek


Thank you Marek, and for the email, as well.

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Thu 01/07/10 03:02 PM
Sadly I've been there.

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:12 PM
yes luv I have and sometimes still do have such days...and it can suck.
Meditation my salvation, it is when I find peace in my mind, my heart and often laughter..even tears with an agenda.
Remember..there is much going on in the cosmos as of late that is affecting us all. If you'd like I can do your numbers,(numerology) maybe find out things you are supposed to be working on this year, maybe help get out of the slump. flowerforyou

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Thu 01/07/10 03:19 PM
Edited by Dancere on Thu 01/07/10 03:20 PM
I can't say that I have, I'm strung so differently as to genuinely love solitude and the feeling of separation.

I'm a loner, that can work a crowd ... and still love knowing I'm really ALWAYS all alone.

Some sorta ability to bond w/ a simultaneous handy detachment ...

I just listen as others describe loneliness, boredom, depression, etc., yet have NEVER 'felt' them myself! (Grief is a whole 'nother thing I've known well, all my life!)

Seems so odd, as I've lost my entire family very young, yet I remain very happy as a constant core trait.

I'm clueless how I actually do this and always account for it as having my 'supernatural connections'.

Astrology would say is because I'm an Aquarian? Dunno ...

Perhaps I get the angst out in a constance w/ music and art?

Still! Hard to hear that YOU are this down ...

Myra, I'm sending you love, care and hugs! ... flowerforyou

darkowl1's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:23 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.



well......................................................yeah.(winks) smooched

in the past, and i've gotten so uncaring about it, it's not phasing me anymore eitherlaugh laugh laugh

i'm on a new path now, and getting out of the cold as of monday....back to orlando. snow's more irritating than people at this pointnoway laugh laugh

Nicesmile69's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:27 PM
If you want to talk about things I'm willing to. I feel the same way that you do it sucks but its life

Dempcey's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:36 PM
Well sure, I don't think any of us in our right minds having some kind of sensitivity have tip toed through this life escaping such an emotion or feeling to some degree.

In fact I think it is a character builder: It's what we do about it when it crosses our paths that make us or break us.


centered's photo
Thu 01/07/10 03:39 PM
Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


You're not alone ... all of us have been in your shoes more
than enough times to count. Life's a roller-coaster, as they
say. Have any outdoor activities you enjoy, something you
haven't done in a while? Grab and friend and go to it.

If all else fails, go to the local ice cream shop and get a
double scoop - everyone is happy in an ice cream shop :)

TxsSun's photo
Thu 01/07/10 04:49 PM

everybody feels that way from time to time

but you can't allow that to become the defining thing of your life. you have to make a concious decision to not let it get you down and keep moving



Could not have been said better! :thumbsup:

kc0003's photo
Thu 01/07/10 05:01 PM
flowerforyou flowers flowerforyou

Meg8771's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:45 PM
Thank you everyone for your input. I appreciate all of your ideas and suggestions. Kate, I appreciate you more than you will ever know - you are my constant ray of sunshine, did you know that?

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 01/07/10 06:55 PM
Edited by DTHRomeo on Thu 01/07/10 06:55 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Yes i have and somehow i hoped i could get used to it

But the feeling still comes and goes

((((Hugs)))) flowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Thu 01/07/10 07:04 PM
flowerforyou

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Thu 01/07/10 08:13 PM
Nope, all people do is piss me off, so I prefer to be alone. I hope you feel better soon though.

Monier's photo
Thu 01/07/10 11:14 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


I've been feeling that way for the past week. Hang in there. flowerforyou

Drifters13's photo
Thu 01/07/10 11:23 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Yes. Everyday since I was about 15.

And yes I have just given it all up and walked. A few times. And I've lost some very good things in my life because of it.

Totage's photo
Thu 01/07/10 11:28 PM

Have you ever just come to the conclusion that you just want to chuck it all and give up? Have you ever felt lonely in a room full of people? Maybe no matter how many friends you have...you still feel alone? Sorry, I am just having one of those days.


Quite often. It helps to switch up my routine every now and then, talk to new people. Treat myself to a nice meal or something new.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/08/10 12:28 AM

everybody feels that way from time to time

I do often. I get tired of being sick all the time and having to have dialysis to keeo me alive and want to give up on it all and let the kidney failure take me down once and for all

but you can't allow that to become the defining thing of your life. you have to make a concious decision to not let it get you down and keep moving


Sure I do then I think of those that have it worse then I do and have to fight just to keep going. Therefore I figure if it is to be it is to be.

I have just about come to the conclusion I waited too long to find that one or by passed them up already. And have decided that being alone maybe were I will be if so then I will deal with it and be damn if it will take me down.noway


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Fri 01/08/10 08:57 AM

Kate, I appreciate you more than you will ever know - you are my constant ray of sunshine, did you know that?


Awww, shucks, Myra ... blushing

Well, then I better get busy and burn off all that cloud coverage and warm ya back up then!

I must have been studying rain patterns and fell asleep at the wheel, sawwy!

flowerforyou ... I'm sending you deluxe Springtime rays now, any better?

Babe, you've had a tough year; sometimes when all that crisis settles, the lull can seem to be a downer ...

:wink: ... Just enjoy this still moment, the hustle~bustle is usually waiting round the next corner.

Slight adjustment of the inner perspective will likely reveal:

drinker ...This is really an inner~sanctum holiday ... Enjoy it while ya can!!!

Meg8771's photo
Fri 01/08/10 09:02 AM
Thank you guys. Kate, the sun is definitely shining this morning, and I agree with your thoughts on the calm after the storm and the nerves setting in. Change is good, I love change...usually. It may just take a little time to get in the groove of everything. I am so grateful - there are many others out there who are having such a hard time just taking that next breath. I appreciate everyone's feedback. You all rock :heart: