Topic: Asking to call right away...
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Tue 01/19/10 01:25 PM




Women dont like to hear a sexy man voice? I'm just asking?


That's irrelevant. You're "sexy man voice" is someone else's "chalkboard scratching".


if nails on a chalkboard are what you hear... then that is not a "sexy man voice" now is it? There are forward people all over, you shouldnt be offended someone wants to talk to you. Even if its within the first day of chatting.






I think you missed what he meant. One woman could think your voice sounds sexy and the next could hate it.

I'm not offended by men who tell me to call them in the first email. I actually think it's kind of funny. Even more so when they get angry for not getting what they want. If a man is going to email women and tell them to call him right away, he shouldn't get offended when most say no.

I understand what you are trying to say... BUT, if its not a sexy voice to you, then its not "a sexy man voice". Which would fall outside of my previous statement. My voice could sound like angels singing the battle hymn republic... but you wouldnt know cuz you wouldnt let me call.. lol

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Tue 01/19/10 01:27 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Tue 01/19/10 01:28 PM
Telling someone you have a sexy voice doesn't mean much at all.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:28 PM
I'm a nice guy with a sexy voice, how come no one wants to love me??????!!!!!!!rant rant rant rant

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Tue 01/19/10 01:29 PM
rofl

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Tue 01/19/10 01:30 PM
Edited by AGoodGuy1026 on Tue 01/19/10 01:31 PM
op: when I was actively looking, I would e-mail a few times and then ask to talk on the phone...

but that is me, I am not the pen pal type, I think you get to know more about the person speaking on the phone... but I must say, if I were not interested, or she was not interested - I would never try to "convince" anyone to talk or IM.

also, I think IM is completely useless... so I would never IM...

and, yes -- it did work for me :)...

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Tue 01/19/10 01:30 PM
Even a couple interesting emails would be better than telling someone to call you in your first email. The trouble with that is rarely anyone (at least from what I've seen) will write more than a sentence or two.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:31 PM

op: when I was actively looking, I would e-mail a few times and then ask to talk on the phone...

but that is me, I am not the pen pal type, I think you get to know more about the person speaking on the phone... but I must say, if I were not interested, or she was not interested - I would never try to "convince" anyone to talk or IM.

also, I think IM is completely useless... so I would never IM...

and, yes -- it did work for me :)...

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A few times would be fine. However, that's not what I'm talking about.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:33 PM
oh, I totally agree with that... call in the first e-mail = problemo (red flag)...

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Tue 01/19/10 01:33 PM

Telling someone you have a sexy voice doesn't mean much at all.


it could... curiosity has been know to kill a few kitty cats.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:36 PM
When a guy wants to rush into talking on the phone, I figure all he wants is phone sex. Which is an utter waste of time and completely tacky.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:36 PM


Telling someone you have a sexy voice doesn't mean much at all.


it could... curiosity has been know to kill a few kitty cats.


I don't think I've ever been curious enough to call a complete stranger, who I know nothing about, just because he told me he had a sexy voice.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:39 PM


Telling someone you have a sexy voice doesn't mean much at all.


it could... curiosity has been know to kill a few kitty cats.


I'm not curious enough to find out what kind of voice a person has right off the bat. There is a safety issue as well. He could have the sexiest voice in the world, but he could be a stalker or something as well.

If I gave my number out to everyone, I'd have to call the phone company to block a lot of numbers or change my number constantly.

That is why I stay here and I don't give out my contact info until I have talked to someone on ere for a while

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Tue 01/19/10 01:41 PM
OOOhhhh, a strange man with a sexy voice by his own definition, that's so rare, I really have to get in on that, someone might snatch him up and then whatever will I do????? Call me!!!!!!!!

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Tue 01/19/10 01:42 PM
My voice has been compared to Barry White.Oh...yeah baby, do you like the way I sound?


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Tue 01/19/10 01:44 PM

OOOhhhh, a strange man with a sexy voice by his own definition, that's so rare, I really have to get in on that, someone might snatch him up and then whatever will I do????? Call me!!!!!!!!

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


On a par with "I'm the most unique person you'll ever meet," followed almost immediately by something about long walks on the beach....


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Tue 01/19/10 01:45 PM
I talked to a guy who made my flesh crawl- his voice was just that bad. Sounded like he had wads of cotton in his mouth and couldn't swallow. I hung up on him, it was so gross.

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Tue 01/19/10 01:48 PM


OOOhhhh, a strange man with a sexy voice by his own definition, that's so rare, I really have to get in on that, someone might snatch him up and then whatever will I do????? Call me!!!!!!!!

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


On a par with "I'm the most unique person you'll ever meet," followed almost immediately by something about long walks on the beach....




And-
I love to laugh, I try to laugh every day. (mental problems much?)
I'm comfortable in jeans, but can rock a little black dress as needed. (why do you need to "rock" a little black dress, and exactly how "little" is little anyway?)
And my ultimate favorite, I'm shy at first, but warm up quickly. (heat flashes? yeast infection? erm, ew)

I swear there should be a book of internet cliches not to use!grumble

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Tue 01/19/10 02:09 PM
What about the nudges? A nudge is not what I think of when I think of a kiss or a hug. They're touches. They're intimate.

Should someone really be kissing you without even saying hello and giving you their name?

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Tue 01/19/10 02:12 PM

What about the nudges? A nudge is not what I think of when I think of a kiss or a hug. They're touches. They're intimate.

Should someone really be kissing you without even saying hello and giving you their name?


Yeah, that's what I think too. So rude.

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Tue 01/19/10 02:17 PM


What about the nudges? A nudge is not what I think of when I think of a kiss or a hug. They're touches. They're intimate.

Should someone really be kissing you without even saying hello and giving you their name?


Yeah, that's what I think too. So rude.


I mean for all we know they're diseased! And what would you do to a person who you just met, introduced themselves with a funny nickname (*insert Playa69 cuz they think they're clever here*) and layed a big wet smooch on you in real life?

Knock their block off. Maybe hit them where the sun don't shine... That's right.
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