no,
no one has the authority to change anyone else.

They have to do that for themselves.

Humm ya know ya could look at it this way. Being online is much better for her then hanging out at the bars.

Now I will admit that one has to be very careful whom they talk to. And if they do happen to actually meet someone to play it safe and meet in a public place.

But actually whether you met them here at the store or where every you don't know them till you've really spent time with them.

So if she is online then is she is with her son ain't he home with her?

OKAY You Seem Pretty Wise Should I Beat My Sister Up Or Wait Till She Become An Online Whore Like My Cousin Who Sleep With Online Guys And Bring Them Around Her Babies No Telling WHo They R And One Guy Who Flew Out 2c Her Wouldnt Even Leave!

That happens in real life too...I fail to see the comparison. The only difference is online is far more difficult than the real-life counterpart. You just being here is counter-productive to your own cause, 'do as I say, not as I do'? Never really makes any sense.

Your cousin's problem sounds more like a codependency issue than anything, and those are usually created early in childhood.

Hummmmm lmao well I could take that the wrong way. I mean such a broad statement. Hummm I have been on this site for 3 years and I have not became and internet ho yet.

But honestly your sister has to live her own life as you do yours. I will admit if she is bringing several guys around her kid that is wrong in my eyes. But...........again it is not my life it is hers to do with as she choose.

I have 2 kids that are grown 25 & 27 even I don't get into their business. Now I will grant ya my granddaughter lives with her mom. My son parties hardy hey he can do what ever he wants to I do not tell either of my kids how to live their lives. But then my granddaughter is not around him partying either.

I have a younger sister that is 14 years younger and a brother that is 4 years older. And to this day we three have never had an argument nor even a cross word. And yes we all live in the same town. The only reason most likely that is true is due we have never tried to tell the others how to live or they did wrong. Instead if one needs us we will be there. We all have to make our own mistakes within life. And yeah at time they will be some hard knocks. But in the end the only one that has to live with the regrets of what we did or did not do is ourselves.

It takes a lot to be ready for something serious.

I'm not looking for anything!!!!!!!

I dont pretend to be

I'm not lonely etc.

I come here to throw my two cents into everything............

and run like a mother!!!!!!!!!!

Love it when people do this "soft whine" thing.

Meeting online is just another way to meet people.

You should just want her to be HAPPY.

Hard concept.

And, I wasn't looking for anything on here. Basically, just friends. And then, I got a message from a guy on here, and now he and I have been dating for almost two months. :>

I dont think meeting people online is a vain attempt at finding something real. I look at it like this; Every girl I've met in "the real world" has not been the right one for me, for some reason or another, but all because they werent out for the same kindof relationship that I've been ready for for years.

Thats why I'm on this site, so maybe I can meet someone who's at that same stage as I am and looking for more than just sex, or more than just a date or a friend. I think that puts me one step ahead, so to speak, and I met someone on here who sounds really great, we got our first date saturday and I'm really excited about it. I have no doubt it will be fantastic.

I'm well aware that no one is perfect, either, I'm not perfect. I'm far from perfect in fact. I have many flaws, as well as everyone else does on this earth, but there is a quote I always remember, I don't remember where I got it from but I really like it.

"Like people for who they are, but love them for their flaws." Your flaws are what make you unique.

Amen

I just wanna get laid!!

I didn't see that on your profile?

Exactly.

So let me get this straight, OP, you made an account on a dating site just to get your sister to stop using dating sites? That makes no sense; you could give her your opinion without making an account on here. She probably won't listen to you, but you could give it. Also, does your bf know you're on here? Is he okay with that? Many men don't like the idea of their gf being on a dating site, so will you leave if he tells you to?

You have to read between the fine print.

No i started the statement so she can see What people r really here from she read everything on here...I Made One Just 2 Have Something 2 Do/Have Fun... N My Bf Knows N If He Think This Will Pose A Problem N Our Relationship Then I Will Leave Its Not a Big Deal 2 Me He Has My PW But We Got Trust N Trust is All We Need But No1 Reall.

No i started the statement so she can see What people r really here from she read everything on here...I Made One Just 2 Have Something 2 Do/Have Fun... N My Bf Knows N If He Think This Will Pose A Problem N Our Relationship Then I Will Leave Its Not a Big Deal 2 Me He Has My PW But We Got Trust N Trust is All We Need But No1 Reall.

Jesus Christ, will you quit using lazy English...I can't be bothered to decipher code this late at night...