Topic: I dnt date white guys because
Teditis's photo
Sat 03/13/10 12:36 PM
Edited by Teditis on Sat 03/13/10 01:10 PM
That's a tough situation kissable; do life your way on one hand... (potentially) lose friends on the other. I feel for ya'flowers It's sad to hear that your friends think that way, but I'm not gonna' comment on the quality of your friends. I do agree w/ Harmony's statement about dating ppl BASED vs. REGARDLESS of race, I've done both and the "regardless" option went much smoother. But don't sneak around, that's never good. And remember that whatever you choose right now can be amended as you go... you'll always remain kissable on this site. winking

Duffy's photo
Sat 03/13/10 12:40 PM
nope. don't tell ur friends.
flowerforyou
open a polka club, and let them shoot at accordians.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/13/10 12:51 PM
you are the one dating the person, not your friends. Date who you are attracted to and if your friends don't agree, then that is their problem, not yours. I bet they wouldn't like it if you told them who to date smokin

sorry but they don't sound like real friends to me. Now if the guy was abusive or into something he should be into, then that is different. If that was the case then I would speak my mind to my friend. Other than that....not my business

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Sat 03/13/10 01:07 PM

Date who you want, if you follow the path of what your friends or family wants you to do you will be miserable. Do what makes you happy and if you lose friends over it...they weren't very good friends in the first place.


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Tessa02's photo
Sat 03/13/10 02:34 PM
My problem is the other way around. I've been seeing a black guy mostly FWB since December. He's the one who wants to keep it quiet to protect me. It's not working out this way. I'm beginning to think he doesn't want his friends knowing he's seeing a white gal.shocked

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 03/13/10 02:38 PM

as i said before. friends r important.

some guy from NY just sent me a scathing email about hitting on this woman who is complaining about liking certain types and her friends are against it. futhermore he called me a biach.

as i said. friends are important. don't tell them what you are doing, and keep your cards close to your chest.flowerforyou


If my friends are keeping me from what makes me happy...they are not all that important. Not to mention if I had racist friends...they wouldn't be my friends. Preschool or not, I don't really give a ****, I can make a hell of a lot more friends without a bunch with a narrow-minded point of view chastising me for my decisions.

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Sat 03/13/10 04:03 PM

My problem is the other way around. I've been seeing a black guy mostly FWB since December. He's the one who wants to keep it quiet to protect me. It's not working out this way. I'm beginning to think he doesn't want his friends knowing he's seeing a white gal.shocked


To protect you from what? huh I live in Beckley, every black guy I see has a white woman, I don't see what he thinks he's protecting you from. 9 times out of 10 all his friends have white women too, so I think he's making lame excuses....

Shasta1's photo
Sat 03/13/10 04:14 PM
Good friends are hard to find. At your age, you will find in 5-10 years, you'e more than likely not going to have the same friends. I have a couple of really good friends all my life and we've each traveled our own paths to meet and greet every few years. We talk on the phone much more than that. And I've had many friends over this lifetime never to be seen or heard from again. They were just there during that time frame of my life, during that growth spurt. Please don't let the women that say they are your friends make such life altering decisions about -your- life. You could meet a guy, you both really click, everything ...would you turn him down because 'the girls' will disown you? Are you going to spend your life with them or a man? (mate). Just food for thought.

Duffy's photo
Sat 03/13/10 04:16 PM
shasta l...so right.flowerforyou

kissablekiss's photo
Sat 03/13/10 04:51 PM
I made my decision . you guys are right if they dnt wanna see me happy thats thier problem .am goin with the white guys .

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Sat 03/13/10 04:58 PM

I made my decision . you guys are right if they dnt wanna see me happy thats thier problem .am goin with the white guys .


Good for you!!!!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

whynot788's photo
Sat 03/13/10 05:00 PM
You go ahead and do that girl.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 03/13/10 05:01 PM
I wouldn't rethink the guys I'm attracted to. I'd rethink my friends

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Sat 03/13/10 05:02 PM

I wouldn't rethink the guys I'm attracted to. I'd rethink my friends


I agree.

chevylover1965's photo
Sat 03/13/10 05:03 PM
i dont date white guy's either ! scared

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Sat 03/13/10 05:05 PM
You know what they say, once you go white..., oh wait a minute... nevermind! slaphead

kissablekiss's photo
Sat 03/13/10 05:13 PM

You know what they say, once you go white..., oh wait a minute... nevermind! slaphead
Tibble lol .

FETTS61's photo
Sat 03/13/10 05:14 PM

i dont date white guy's either ! scared


im so crushed, Chevytears laugh laugh

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Sat 03/13/10 05:14 PM

I like white guys ,everytime i mention a white guy name my friends make up their faces and acting like am stupid to even think that way .so i always put it off.


I KNOW JUST WHAT YA MEAN GIRLFRIEND!!!!


Just like ME,,,,I ONLY DATE WOMEN WHO ARE TRANSPARENT!!noway








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OK,,HOW THIS,,,,,I ONLY DATE WOMEN WHO HAVE ALREADY SHOWN ME THEIR HEART,,,,,BEFORE I EVER THINK TO "SEE" THEIR COLOR....:heart:

chevylover1965's photo
Sat 03/13/10 05:14 PM
darlin' if dating out of your race make's you happy ????
then do it ......
friends come and go ......
but your happens is all that matter's ! flowerforyou