Topic: What to do to get good responses?
AmandaRJ's photo
Fri 05/07/10 10:25 AM
Hi guys!
I would like to know what you think I should do to improve my profile.
Thanks!
xxx from Brazil

no photo
Fri 05/07/10 10:37 AM
Hello n welcome to mingle... Ur pics r so cute... Ur profile is good... Join forums n mingle...

no photo
Fri 05/07/10 10:42 AM
Hi,

Looked at your profile . It's interesting, but think lotta people just don't want to read quite so much info in one hit!

I would advise take out the doggy piccy....lovely tho it is!

Also refrain from references to PERVEs....a modern phrase frankly overused and surely anyone can disguise their tendency to perversion easily anyway. You seem perfectly able to spot anyone dodgey.

Hey , just my opinion think overall your profile stands up well.

Hope you find this feedback helpful.

:smile:

no photo
Fri 05/07/10 03:02 PM
Why do you advise that she take out the doggy pic? Just curious...

RiseUp's photo
Fri 05/07/10 10:58 PM
Hi, I am brand new here, and Not very skilled and setting up profiles on social networking sites let alone dating sites. But seeing your seems Fine.
You were thorough in your likes and dislikes, more open then I am in mine for sure.
I have a Yorkshire Terrier so the dog is cool.
Also the red hair is a plus! a Personal Weakness for me..LOl!!

As far as the "Perves", and dont waste my time...
I have noticed the phrase, "dont waste my time", used before.
While it is true, that time is valuable and for some dude to think he can just jump on a site and get sex, is a bit grandiose and deluded and more an embarrassment to himself. I mean to think any refined lady with class is going to jump to sexual overtures in a first post is self-deluded.
Now I understand why you need to be straight up from the beginning and set boundaries, and since there are some women with no class who lead men on sexually from the beginning. I see the need to be straight and blunt.
So as a suggestion, I would change the.."dont waste my time", (which can sound a bit arrogant to some, and a bit cocky) to.
"Dont embarass yourself or waste your time contacting me for sex, because you will find my stern rejection a blow to your self-delusion and inflated Ego"
anyway, nice profile. I have alot to learn about setting mine up as I just joined tonight. Bless you

no photo
Fri 05/07/10 11:30 PM
never met any one from brazil before.Your pics are cool, Id say keep the doggy pic and every thing else looks ok to me. see ya in the forumssmokin

AmandaRJ's photo
Sat 05/08/10 08:23 AM
Im curious about why I should take my dogs's pictures?

no photo
Sat 05/08/10 08:58 AM

Im curious about why I should take my dogs's pictures?


Perhaps he doesn't like the fact that they are on the bed? I think they're cute.

Best of luck, I'm sure you'll do great.

no photo
Sat 05/08/10 11:10 AM
Keep the dogs on the pic!! Us dog lovers will find U even more attractive!!!flowerforyou

Lpdon's photo
Sat 05/08/10 11:22 AM
Honestly, just be yourself and it will all work out.

Welcome! flowerforyou flowers

Lpdon's photo
Sat 05/08/10 11:24 AM

Im curious about why I should take my dogs's pictures?


I wouldn't take them down. They are obviously an important part of your life. I have two dogs and two cats and they are just like my children. If I could figure out who to get more pictures from my camera to my computer I would put them on my profile too.....

Lpdon's photo
Mon 05/10/10 12:55 AM
love flowerforyou flowers smitten :heart:

baker5keith's photo
Sun 05/23/10 07:27 PM
Beautiful