Topic: "Trust"
MLG40's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:10 AM

Have you ever meet one of these people that say from the start "If you can't trust me or what I say" just to find out that they can't be trusted with what thay say or do?

So how do you approach them about the word "trust" that they pointed out at first when you first became friends; or should you just stay away from them?

isaac_dede's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:13 AM
depends on the situation, trust is relative sometimes....I may trust my friends not to steal, but I'm not going to trust a friend who I know is a recovering achololic around my bottle of tequila....tempation varies depending on the situation...but that same friend i would trust with my life in combat.

no photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:18 AM
Edited by Kings_Knight on Fri 06/11/10 08:20 AM


Have you ever meet one of these people that say from the start "If you can't trust me or what I say" just to find out that they can't be trusted with what thay say or do?

So how do you approach them about the word "trust" that they pointed out at first when you first became friends; or should you just stay away from them?


If it's such a big deal that THEY bring it up first with NO prior discussion of the matter, it's enough to raise a HUGE red flag that, absent their statement, wouldn't have otherwise been needed. That's a clue they know something they don't want you to find out ...

As for the 'friends' thing ... ? How can y' be friends with a person you can't trust?

john_sickandtired's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:36 AM
Simple solution.....don't trust anyone. You really never know the person no matter what.

RafaelMorales's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:37 AM
I think is a waste of time, Just move on. It hurts more in the end when they disappoint you, After you refuse to listen to what your heart feels. I've met over the last two and a half years , nothing but B.S. Women. The one who pretents to be religious, the one who had more guy friends than women. The one who sents in her agent , does everything to please you for the first three months , then completely 360 on you. I even had had the bad taste of breaking up through a text msg. It read "I am not real to be in a relationship with you. But Why dint you just say it at the beginnig or when you first felt it. I have more respect for women who are honest about who they really are. Not some made up GF, that's in it to impress her friends or family or just cause they cant be by themself. I've met women that tell me openly I cant be without sex for more than three days. I'm like waoh ,so if im out of town on business .What do you think happens the monster has to be fed. Like women talk all this **** about men, men, if you arent there to open your legs we would cheat, if your girl friends like you forget it..your the scum of this earth,just cuase there waiting on a opportunity to jump on the same ride. Women these days dont know what they want. So how can you trust women, More and more there turning out bisexual or just playing games.I've lost all trust for now in women. They all lie about stupid **** to get there way. Just be honest if your ****ing half of the city , put it in a nice way When your on the date dont waste his time or yours why lifes way to short to play musical chairs. I belive theres better word for these types of individuals Promiscuos>>Not restricted to one sexual partner. Just say it before you start creating a false persona to try and make your self feel better, Men too it works both ways.Stay away!!

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 06/11/10 08:53 AM
I never trust anyone who says I can trust them!

I never ask for trust. I earn it! I have a lot of customers give me keys to their houses! I work hard to preserve the trust others do have in me.

People just suck!

guardian1angel4u's photo
Fri 06/11/10 09:09 AM
Your right we do put our trust in someone new straight away without checking them out via the PNC:wink: ....it is one of the biggest killers within a relationship but we do say that word a lot of time also in conversation like trust me I know the way, trust me you look absolutely gorgeous in that dress, trust is something to me that has to be earnt.

Peccy's photo
Fri 06/11/10 09:15 AM
When it comes down to it, I only totally trust 4 people. Angel, mother, father and brother. That's the circle, small as it may be.glasses