Yes! Go on, You have My undivided attention.

My biggest obstacle in dating is overcoming my social-phobic tendencies. Always been the loner

I can relate

My biggest fault is I am a perfectionist.

I can be a slob but if I get organized I can't find anything

I must have the last word - even if I am wrong I am right

I'm ok with that as long as I get some attention back.


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I can be very impatient and act like the queen of the world.

I don't need to talk about my faults.

Ask around. There are plenty of people who will be MORE than happy to point them out.

I can be a bit sensitive from time to time. blame it on my cycle lol

I'm an a$$hole. I say what I want when I want and I rarely spare anyone's feelings. Sometimes I'm even tougher on someone who I think is too sensitive because I think I'm helping to toughen them up. But really, I'm just an a$$hole.

Can flip out on people who try to toughen me up instead of accepting me for who I am

I'm not very patient.

I have issues surrounding my life in dealing with others medical problems (my children) causing financial strains.
I have issues with what others call air-headedness or ADD causing me to forget minor things sometimes.........these minor things can sometimes be enormous to others.
I am also a dreamer or idealist but live in an existential reality.
I suffer from anxiety from child abuse.

Interesting. Examining ones own faults. It is easier to blame things on someone else. I asked a dear friend what she thought were my faults. She went on for like an hour. Something about I never listen. Blah Blah Blah..............

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_biYsGMcs30

Excellent thread, Atlantis. I have the faults of having trouble admitting when I am wrong; A real big hangup on apologizing when I find out I am wrong and Being able to congratulate someone when they are right and I am wrong. Most of the faults I have most people were able to deal with when they went through Kindergarten. But thanks to dealing with people who are mostly insane has really helped me to take a look at my own faults. This one woman I really had trouble dealing with work has turned out to be a real friend. It is let me vent first with all this rage I built up over the night and then I will give report. Now it starts with you were by yourself all night and had to deal with all this hell. You poor thing. Now that I know we both have dragon tempers and would just rather kill something than to be nice to anyone we both just smile and retain our serenity. It is really nice to be around someone who is just as screwed up as I am.

on rare occasions i get a little sarcastic

Can be stubborn. Bad tendency to hold my emotions in.

I will ask for help once, and if I don't get it, just do it myself, even if it hurts me physically (that's probably why it took way longer to get my back healed up). It's also why I've ended up single for so long, as I don't see the point in being with someone who won't help when I ask for it. The guy has always gotten pissed after the fact, but didn't feel the need to stir off his azz in front of the TV at the time. And before anyone asks, yes, I help helped the guys when they asked.

I tend to be the quiet one in a group and have been told that I take the fun out of it because I won't get loud. Don't get me wrong, I'm usually enjoying myself, but have no interest in getting loud, idiotic, and annoying.

I confess that unless somthing really bothers me I'm likely to say it's fine .....even if it's not really.