I'm too perfect

F, love this thread. I have spent alot of time taking a personal inventory and what I've discovered is, I have faults. I am responsible for either changing them or embracing them. I am a work in progress. I pretend to be strong so most won't see how sensitive I can be. It works for me. Makes me feel safe and feeling safe is important to me.

That said, I will work harder in the future to be more open. Let people see the real me. Not be afraid. Truly seeing ourselves for who we are to include our faults is a gift. We are human after all.

Hay Mechrissy2

That sum up my faults pretty well the only thing I would have to ad is I have been the loner type but I’m working on that.

I'm not sure if this is a fault, don't know what it is, but just knowing myself this one thing downright frightens me.

There are times, when I nothing can shock me, which should be shocking.

For example, there is a big and very bad accident on the side of the road and it wouldn't shock me at all, no matter how bad it is. I feel nothing. No surprise, no compassion.
I don't understand it..and it drives me crazy.

I have been an eye witness (seeing it happening and watching it) of 3 very bad accidents, one involving 3 kids being completely dismembered and torn apart. All 3 times I was only around 10-13 years old.

Ever since then, I have a hard time finding finding anything that would completely shock me (in the wrong way)and when others are in a state of disbelief and almost ready to scream about something horrible happened, you'll find me standing there or just passing by with absolute no emotions on my face.

What really scares me would be watching a replay of a video of me with my emotions at horrific events and seeing myself entirely calm and almost careless about it.


Others saw me before and noted it..they thought somehow I am in a total lack of empathy or maybe evil..that even scares me even more..because I can't fake being shocked and horrified.
And I know that other situations I would be the first one to raise my voice (cruel behavior, injustice etc) and I am very able to put myself into others' shoes, and yet there are truly horrifying events that won't even budge me. I watched the twin towers crumble down and I know how many thousands died and I just know deep down that if i would have been there around, you wouldn't even see me fleeing in horror or anything like that. This really troubles me.

Cross, all we can do is work on it. And keep trying.

There are very few things that I'm terribly passionate about, and rarely are they the things others care about...and I don't give a flying f u*K in a rolling doughnut!!!

And I really could give a rats azz if ya hate me...

i tend to view things from too many different perspectives.
and i keep the list of things to view SHORT.

noting wrong with that... i'll give all the attention you crave...lol

i like doing things my way... kinda makes me an a-hole, but, i'm used to it.

Good one! nothing wrong with a GoodWoman without faults.

I am fickle

I am always late LOL

I secretely fear commitment

I am over analytical

I can't accept failure at all

I am stubborn

I wear my emotions on my sleeve

I can not lie worth a damn

I can be shallow at moments

I am a dreamer

I loathe admitting I need help or depending on others

Im boring, just not to me. I think im an amazing guy, and loads of fun Dennis

Oh goodie, goodie.....This is that thread where we can throw up all the bad things about us.......You first.

I already went, I'm an a$$hole.... your turn

I talk with an accent.

How is that a fault? lol

California accent, so San Andreas fault.