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Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women
dmckinnon's photo
Tue 03/19/13 10:02 AM

to find LOVE?


The same can be said for older men.

no photo
Tue 03/19/13 12:17 PM
It's true. Men are very visual, we like beautiful women. However, every man's idea of beautiful is different. Beautiful to me is a woman Iof any age) who has a good personality and feels beautiful or sexy no matter what her body type is. That is what beautiful means to me. If you project sexy, then you will be, whether you weigh 115 pounds or 300. Beautiful is an attitude. I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs. Respect yourself and a respectful man will find you.

dmckinnon's photo
Tue 03/19/13 12:42 PM

I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs.


Couldn't have said it better myself.

ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/20/13 11:10 AM

It's true. Men are very visual, we like beautiful women. However, every man's idea of beautiful is different. Beautiful to me is a woman Iof any age) who has a good personality and feels beautiful or sexy no matter what her body type is. That is what beautiful means to me. If you project sexy, then you will be, whether you weigh 115 pounds or 300. Beautiful is an attitude. I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs. Respect yourself and a respectful man will find you.

Well, I'll be honest here. I'm approaching 50 (not quite there yet but close) and I respect myself. I take care of my health and appearance, I feel attractive and sexy most of the time (we all have bad days, don't we?) and I'm even told frequently that I don't look my age, whatever that's supposed to mean. I'm articulate, intelligent, educated and sociable, with a wide variety of interests. I genuinely like men, whether as friends or as partners.

And I don't think of men as pigs. (Actually, it's the rare woman, I think, who truly paints men as a class with that broad a brush.) Y'all are human beings, just as women are, and as varied as we.

But I can't fall for just anyone. Whether for good or ill, you need more than just a Y chromosome and the appropriate anatomy if you want to flip my switch. It takes a certain type of personality, range of interests, set of attitudes and behavior to attract women. Some men I've encountered have managed to come across as though they think if I'm not falling all over them just because they're male, human and gave me the time of day then I'm somehow 'difficult' or 'defective'. Granted, there are probably women out there who don't understand why every man in the world isn't falling at their feet too, but I suspect most women are probably more accustomed to the idea of being choosy than most men are.

Yes, I realize I'm speaking in generalities, but it's just me thinking out loud.

oldsage's photo
Wed 03/20/13 11:15 AM


It's true. Men are very visual, we like beautiful women. However, every man's idea of beautiful is different. Beautiful to me is a woman Iof any age) who has a good personality and feels beautiful or sexy no matter what her body type is. That is what beautiful means to me. If you project sexy, then you will be, whether you weigh 115 pounds or 300. Beautiful is an attitude. I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs. Respect yourself and a respectful man will find you.

Well, I'll be honest here. I'm approaching 50 (not quite there yet but close) and I respect myself. I take care of my health and appearance, I feel attractive and sexy most of the time (we all have bad days, don't we?) and I'm even told frequently that I don't look my age, whatever that's supposed to mean. I'm articulate, intelligent, educated and sociable, with a wide variety of interests. I genuinely like men, whether as friends or as partners.

And I don't think of men as pigs. (Actually, it's the rare woman, I think, who truly paints men as a class with that broad a brush.) Y'all are human beings, just as women are, and as varied as we.

But I can't fall for just anyone. Whether for good or ill, you need more than just a Y chromosome and the appropriate anatomy if you want to flip my switch. It takes a certain type of personality, range of interests, set of attitudes and behavior to attract women. Some men I've encountered have managed to come across as though they think if I'm not falling all over them just because they're male, human and gave me the time of day then I'm somehow 'difficult' or 'defective'. Granted, there are probably women out there who don't understand why every man in the world isn't falling at their feet too, but I suspect most women are probably more accustomed to the idea of being choosy than most men are.

Yes, I realize I'm speaking in generalities, but it's just me thinking out loud.


Spoken like a TRUE LADY. VERY NICE ADDITION TO THE GROUP

ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/20/13 11:19 AM
Aww, thanks. *blush* You're a sweetie. I can tell from the things you post. :smile:

oldsage's photo
Wed 03/20/13 12:06 PM

Aww, thanks. *blush* You're a sweetie. I can tell from the things you post. :smile:


WRONG Bitter but seasoned old sage.

pitchfork slaphead :thumbsup:

ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/20/13 12:11 PM
That's okay... Sage is one of my favorite seasonings! :wink:

oldsage's photo
Wed 03/20/13 06:05 PM

That's okay... Sage is one of my favorite seasonings! :wink:



This SAGE is known to BITE BACK.
bigsmile pitchfork :laughing: slaphead :thumbsup: tongue2

ViaMusica's photo
Wed 03/20/13 06:48 PM
As long as the to-be-bitten get to specify where and how hard... :laughing:

oldsage's photo
Thu 03/21/13 04:41 AM
Edited by oldsage on Thu 03/21/13 04:43 AM

As long as the to-be-bitten get to specify where and how hard... :laughing:


I never bite "hard", just enough to excite the bitten.
pitchfork bigsmile drool rofl rofl flowers waving

A young thing like you MIGHT take advantage of an Old Sage, if I took you to my cave.

Toodygirl5's photo
Sat 03/23/13 05:58 PM

I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs. Respect yourself and a respectful man will find you.


shocked Not true of All women!

no photo
Sun 04/14/13 06:45 PM

Hard to find love!!??

love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact



That is a really beautiful thing you said. You've learned, you've grown, you've arrived... That is how love comes to you. BRAVO :smile:




LW2

no photo
Sun 04/14/13 07:24 PM
who ever heard of being your self? Forget the stereo types and enjoy who you are.

metalwing's photo
Sun 04/14/13 08:01 PM


It's true. Men are very visual, we like beautiful women. However, every man's idea of beautiful is different. Beautiful to me is a woman Iof any age) who has a good personality and feels beautiful or sexy no matter what her body type is. That is what beautiful means to me. If you project sexy, then you will be, whether you weigh 115 pounds or 300. Beautiful is an attitude. I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs. Respect yourself and a respectful man will find you.

Well, I'll be honest here. I'm approaching 50 (not quite there yet but close) and I respect myself. I take care of my health and appearance, I feel attractive and sexy most of the time (we all have bad days, don't we?) and I'm even told frequently that I don't look my age, whatever that's supposed to mean. I'm articulate, intelligent, educated and sociable, with a wide variety of interests. I genuinely like men, whether as friends or as partners.

And I don't think of men as pigs. (Actually, it's the rare woman, I think, who truly paints men as a class with that broad a brush.) Y'all are human beings, just as women are, and as varied as we.

But I can't fall for just anyone. Whether for good or ill, you need more than just a Y chromosome and the appropriate anatomy if you want to flip my switch. It takes a certain type of personality, range of interests, set of attitudes and behavior to attract women. Some men I've encountered have managed to come across as though they think if I'm not falling all over them just because they're male, human and gave me the time of day then I'm somehow 'difficult' or 'defective'. Granted, there are probably women out there who don't understand why every man in the world isn't falling at their feet too, but I suspect most women are probably more accustomed to the idea of being choosy than most men are.

Yes, I realize I'm speaking in generalities, but it's just me thinking out loud.


Pigs aren't so bad!

Sharris's photo
Sun 04/14/13 08:37 PM



It's true. Men are very visual, we like beautiful women. However, every man's idea of beautiful is different. Beautiful to me is a woman Iof any age) who has a good personality and feels beautiful or sexy no matter what her body type is. That is what beautiful means to me. If you project sexy, then you will be, whether you weigh 115 pounds or 300. Beautiful is an attitude. I hear so many women say "where are all the nice guys?" Well, you put us in the "friend box" or decided you like bad guys instead and then complain to your friend that men are pigs. Respect yourself and a respectful man will find you.

Well, I'll be honest here. I'm approaching 50 (not quite there yet but close) and I respect myself. I take care of my health and appearance, I feel attractive and sexy most of the time (we all have bad days, don't we?) and I'm even told frequently that I don't look my age, whatever that's supposed to mean. I'm articulate, intelligent, educated and sociable, with a wide variety of interests. I genuinely like men, whether as friends or as partners.

And I don't think of men as pigs. (Actually, it's the rare woman, I think, who truly paints men as a class with that broad a brush.) Y'all are human beings, just as women are, and as varied as we.

But I can't fall for just anyone. Whether for good or ill, you need more than just a Y chromosome and the appropriate anatomy if you want to flip my switch. It takes a certain type of personality, range of interests, set of attitudes and behavior to attract women. Some men I've encountered have managed to come across as though they think if I'm not falling all over them just because they're male, human and gave me the time of day then I'm somehow 'difficult' or 'defective'. Granted, there are probably women out there who don't understand why every man in the world isn't falling at their feet too, but I suspect most women are probably more accustomed to the idea of being choosy than most men are.

Yes, I realize I'm speaking in generalities, but it's just me thinking out loud.


Pigs aren't so bad!

when they fly

johann9's photo
Thu 04/18/13 12:57 AM
I turned 66 in March and met a lovely lady 7 months ago who looks younger than me but is 77 and we still act like 2 teenagers and enjoying a really relationship so i don't have to look for a barbie doll i get all the exitement from my partner.

johann9's photo
Thu 04/18/13 12:57 AM
I turned 66 in March and met a lovely lady 7 months ago who looks younger than me but is 77 and we still act like 2 teenagers and enjoying a really relationship so i don't have to look for a barbie doll i get all the exitement from my partner.

Mike's photo
Thu 04/18/13 04:42 AM
I , for one, age 50,love women age 50-60, and dont get turned on by the younger ladies.Older ladies have a certain quality about them you cant get with younger women.They dont beat around the bush. They are direct. Very sexy!!!

davidjdavid's photo
Sun 07/07/13 11:25 AM
NOT ALL HUMANOIDS ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME.'THE DATING OF MATURE WOMEN IS FANTASTIC,AS IT GIVES EACH A CHANCE TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES FREELY.FOR ME ITS NOT GIFTS OR $$MONEY$$ THATS DESPICABLE.IN FACT I MIGHT BE EATING OUT OF YOUR HAND ;)!! SO WOMEN WHO WISH TO FIND THEMSELVES AGAIN,FEEL FREE TO SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND GET OUT THERE.HEY IF YOU GOT IT FLAUNT IT! WE ONLY LIVE ONCE!!!

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