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Topic: Why is it so hard for a older women
davidjdavid's photo
Sun 07/07/13 11:25 AM
NOT ALL HUMANOIDS ARE LOOKING FOR THE SAME.'THE DATING OF MATURE WOMEN IS FANTASTIC,AS IT GIVES EACH A CHANCE TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES FREELY.FOR ME ITS NOT GIFTS OR $$MONEY$$ THATS DESPICABLE.IN FACT I MIGHT BE EATING OUT OF YOUR HAND ;)!! SO WOMEN WHO WISH TO FIND THEMSELVES AGAIN,FEEL FREE TO SPREAD YOUR WINGS AND GET OUT THERE.HEY IF YOU GOT IT FLAUNT IT! WE ONLY LIVE ONCE!!!

Terriann1's photo
Sun 07/07/13 11:33 AM

Hard to find love!!??

Well. It wasn't hard for Me at all

please women don't get all shook up and mad and start blasting me with harsh words. The following is only my opinion

I repeat: ONLY MY OPINION!!!!! (ya might agree-ya might not)


I notice a lot of man bashing. Alot of bitterness because of past relationships

throw it away!!! Bashing? Why?? It doesnt make sense to me. One women does it and others flock like seagulls. The bitterness? It's unattractive and men are really turned off by it. They come out and say it but noone listens

love is found by people who love themselves and are happy and show it to the world. Men are attracted to women who they see are strong -threw their baggage away and march on with confidence-a sense of humor-and their feminitity in tact

this goes for men too!

I know I'm no authority on the subject but there really is love for everyone out there ya know

maybe stop wanting this and stop wanting that and giving every guy a fair chance?

Even the "nice" ones that are always getting a bad rap?:heart:

REMEMBER: this is just my most humble of opinions

Very well put I totally agree with your opinoin (spelled wrong)Leave the past in the past on move on to the future! Noone wants to listen to it. :smile:

davidjdavid's photo
Sun 07/07/13 01:21 PM
ALL GUYS HAVE LITERALLY DIFFERENT PERSECTIVES AND REASONS FOR THIS PURPORTED CONNECTION.SOME OF THESE ARE EVEN ISSUES THAT ARE DEEP. AND ON THE FEMALE SIDE AS WELL,SOME OLDER GALS THINK ITS A LAST DITCH EFFORT AT BEING DOTED ON BY YOUNGER HANDSOME GUYS,BEFORE SHALL I SAY 'HANGIN IT UP'..INSECURITIES,AND ACCEPTANCE THAT FRINGES ON SKIN DEEP AND IMMATURE ADOLESCENCE. FOR MYSELF THATS NOT THE CASE,LIKE A FIRST KISS OR 'PUPPY LOVE,I HAD AN EXPERIENCE WITH A MUCH-MUCH OLDER CLASSY GAL WHEN I WAS 19 (SHE WAS 49).AND THAT HAS STUCK AS MY PREFFERENCE EVER SINCE PERMANENTLY:)..IS THIS A CRIME NOPE,IS IT WEIRD OR SILLY NOPE? TRUE LOVE CAN BE HAD PROVIDED THE CHEMISTRY IS PRESENT LIKE ANY OTHER MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP.IN FACT A LOT MORE CLASSY AND BEAUTIFUL IF YOU ASK ME.. WHATS YOUR REASONS?WRITE ME!! davidjdavid

vivian2981's photo
Thu 07/11/13 06:20 AM
SOME OLDER GALS THINK ITS A LAST DITCH EFFORT AT BEING DOTED ON BY YOUNGER HANDSOME GUYS,BEFORE SHALL I SAY 'HANGIN IT UP'..


Last ditch effort??? Hummm I'll have to remember that..

metalwing's photo
Thu 07/11/13 01:00 PM

SOME OLDER GALS THINK ITS A LAST DITCH EFFORT AT BEING DOTED ON BY YOUNGER HANDSOME GUYS,BEFORE SHALL I SAY 'HANGIN IT UP'..


Last ditch effort??? Hummm I'll have to remember that..


Leave him his teeth Viv!

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 07/11/13 01:28 PM
Some Younger women can not find love or even a decent date. Plenty of Older women can date if they choose to do so.:tongue:

navygirl's photo
Sun 07/14/13 09:11 AM

SOME OLDER GALS THINK ITS A LAST DITCH EFFORT AT BEING DOTED ON BY YOUNGER HANDSOME GUYS,BEFORE SHALL I SAY 'HANGIN IT UP'..


Last ditch effort??? Hummm I'll have to remember that..


Last ditch effort? I would rather end my life than to date a younger man because I was desperate. I do have some dignity. I have found that guys my age go through the mid life crisis and suddenly they feel the best way to handle it is date younger; that is what I found here. I am not one to judge but I accept at my age I am no longer desirable so rather than be bitter; I just focus my energies on other activities and keep myself so busy that I don't have time to date or think about dating. Some think its cowardly to approach it that way but I think its the most logical way to deal with this.

vivian2981's photo
Sun 07/14/13 09:37 AM


SOME OLDER GALS THINK ITS A LAST DITCH EFFORT AT BEING DOTED ON BY YOUNGER HANDSOME GUYS,BEFORE SHALL I SAY 'HANGIN IT UP'..


Last ditch effort??? Hummm I'll have to remember that..


Leave him his teeth Viv!


tongue2

mobileman72's photo
Mon 07/15/13 11:39 AM
Very well put. Thank you very much

koko2079's photo
Mon 07/15/13 09:09 PM
I don;t think it's a matter of being hard to find love at our age., it's just that we are wiser and more selective!

mowildflower's photo
Tue 07/16/13 03:19 AM

I don't think it's a matter of being hard to find love As we get older, it's just that we are wiser and more selective!


Well said, I don't believe the fancy lies, I know myself, like who I am and what I stand for. Therefore, I don't waste my time with people who are full of themselves.

justlooking4you2's photo
Sun 08/25/13 07:34 AM
YEP THIS SAYS IT ALL.....KNIT; DO GARDEN; STAY AT HOME; EAT POP CORN; I WATCH MY DAUGHTERS KIDS AND BABY SIT WHICH TAKES UP ALL OF MY TIME; I GO OUT WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS; HAVE LUNCH WITH MY GIRLFRIENDS AND COFFEE; I KNIT AND SEW............ALL BORING NO ENERGY; PASSION; AFFECTION; BEING SENSUAL TO ATTRACT A MAN. DAVE

Sharris's photo
Mon 08/26/13 04:52 AM



SOME OLDER GALS THINK ITS A LAST DITCH EFFORT AT BEING DOTED ON BY YOUNGER HANDSOME GUYS,BEFORE SHALL I SAY 'HANGIN IT UP'..


Last ditch effort??? Hummm I'll have to remember that..


Leave him his teeth Viv!


tongue2

I'd say this deserves LOL

navygirl's photo
Mon 08/26/13 10:24 AM

Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.


Yep, this is my thought too. :thumbsup:

oldsage's photo
Mon 08/26/13 10:59 AM


Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.


Yep, this is my thought too. :thumbsup:


What 90+?? I think attitude is more important than age.

I know some at 80+ can still enjoy a good date.

So to me it is a personal choice & attitude.

Guarantee there are 60+ that can still curl a guys toes, IF they want to. THANK GOD for them.

blushing blushing bigsmile :banana: flowers surprised :thumbsup:

vivian2981's photo
Mon 08/26/13 11:36 AM
Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.


rofl rofl rofl
I'm not even going to go see who said this...whoever it was doesn't know a dayum thing about some women!whoa

metalwing's photo
Mon 08/26/13 03:16 PM

Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.



rofl rofl rofl
I'm not even going to go see who said this...whoever it was doesn't know a dayum thing about some women!whoa


Especially Vivian!!!!laugh

vivian2981's photo
Mon 08/26/13 07:54 PM


Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.



rofl rofl rofl
I'm not even going to go see who said this...whoever it was doesn't know a dayum thing about some women!whoa


Especially Vivian!!!!laugh


Hush !!laugh

oldsage's photo
Mon 08/26/13 08:10 PM



Got news for you ladies. You hit a certain age and its all over.



rofl rofl rofl
I'm not even going to go see who said this...whoever it was doesn't know a dayum thing about some women!whoa


Especially Vivian!!!!laugh


Hush !!laugh


AMENslaphead tongue2 :thumbsup:

BlkmatureMan57's photo
Mon 08/26/13 08:32 PM
Finding love is like having a older car.You got to take good care of the car and he or she will just keep running better and better.Now would you trade or get rid of a very nice running car for a bigger or better car?No way not after I done put all I have in it and she just keep getting me where I want to go.I know what I have already.
Some people just wants to upgrade to bigger and better thangs.

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