Topic: lack of single/never married/no children -women
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Sat 09/11/10 10:27 AM
It is rare as one gets older, but not impossible to find.

I am single, never married and no children. If you don't count my 4-legged children with tails!!!:heart:

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Sat 09/11/10 11:31 AM


Same here, only it's getting harder and harder to find even a younger one who doesn't have kids.


Try doing your fishing in another spot. A collage bar prehaps?


I'm not near any colleges as far as I know, and I don't drink, so I would have no interest in anyone who was in a bar, anyway....


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Sat 09/11/10 12:03 PM

Nope, because I am one of them!


Me too; I am proud to be one of them.

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Sat 09/11/10 12:05 PM


Don't you think?


I'll say it right here because it needs to be said -- there are no women on dating sites who don't have kids and don't want kids. None. Ever. Period. The end. Oh, except for the four of them who are 81,993,037,936,209,663.8 miles away from me.




Oh, and you are so wrong. Never had kids and never wanted them. Wanted my career more.

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Sat 09/11/10 12:07 PM
I blame all the horney men...

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Sat 09/11/10 12:30 PM

I'm not near any colleges as far as I know, and I don't drink, so I would have no interest in anyone who was in a bar, anyway....


ok.

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Sat 09/11/10 01:02 PM



Don't you think?


I'll say it right here because it needs to be said -- there are no women on dating sites who don't have kids and don't want kids. None. Ever. Period. The end. Oh, except for the four of them who are 81,993,037,936,209,663.8 miles away from me.




Oh, and you are so wrong. Never had kids and never wanted them. Wanted my career more.


I've been reading stories about the Yeti all my life but I've never seen one. I think the Tooth Fairy has more credible documentation than the Childfree Woman does!

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Sat 09/11/10 01:54 PM
Single, never married, no kids here. 'Cept for the critters.

While I wouldn't date a younger guy, I can't quite say I've seen many childless men older then 20. They seem to be playing sperm donor frequently enough.

I will admit, I float back and forth on having kids. It's not a major thing for me, so it probably won't happen, but I do think, if I had the money to do so (with regards to not having to work at all, and free to stay home and raise the kid), and after I traveled and enjoyed myself on the money, I might consider it then.

irisheyes79's photo
Sun 09/12/10 09:41 PM

Don't you think?
yea hard to find

navygirl's photo
Wed 09/15/10 06:34 AM




Don't you think?


I'll say it right here because it needs to be said -- there are no women on dating sites who don't have kids and don't want kids. None. Ever. Period. The end. Oh, except for the four of them who are 81,993,037,936,209,663.8 miles away from me.




Oh, and you are so wrong. Never had kids and never wanted them. Wanted my career more.


I've been reading stories about the Yeti all my life but I've never seen one. I think the Tooth Fairy has more credible documentation than the Childfree Woman does!



Contrary to what you think; not every woman thinks she needs to have children to complete her life. Growing up I heard countless women tell me how their lives were ruined by having children; my mom being one of them; so I chose not to be one of them and enjoyed my career in the military. What I find rare is men my age that don't want children. They seem to think having a child in their 50s will be the answer to their midlife crisis rather than wisely saving for their retirement. So much for being wiser as you get older.

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Wed 09/15/10 06:51 AM
Can't claim the never married part but....no kids here and no chance for them either! drinker

Seakolony's photo
Wed 09/15/10 06:54 AM

Don't you think?

Nope my sister is one of them.......

Riding_Dubz's photo
Wed 09/15/10 07:31 AM
I enjoy dating women with 9 kids gives her something to talk about noway noway noway noway noway

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Wed 09/15/10 08:45 AM

I enjoy dating women with 9 kids gives her something to talk about noway noway noway noway noway


On the other hand, women I dated with many kids (4) they refused to introduce me or talk about them at all..so it made me feel weird.

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Wed 09/15/10 02:45 PM

I enjoy dating women with 9 kids gives her something to talk about noway noway noway noway noway
laugh huh

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Wed 09/15/10 04:48 PM
You are getting older. The older you get teh fewer of those type of women there are out there.

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Thu 09/16/10 02:28 PM
think

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Thu 09/16/10 03:18 PM


Contrary to what you think; not every woman thinks she needs to have children to complete her life. Growing up I heard countless women tell me how their lives were ruined by having children; my mom being one of them; so I chose not to be one of them and enjoyed my career in the military. What I find rare is men my age that don't want children. They seem to think having a child in their 50s will be the answer to their midlife crisis rather than wisely saving for their retirement. So much for being wiser as you get older.


Funny enough, I've been noticing that as well with older guys. And considering the amount of folks ending up taking care of their grandchildren, I think I'll be slipping into dealing with that eventually. I don't wish to date men with children at any age, be they kids or grandkids.


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Thu 09/16/10 03:33 PM

Contrary to what you think; not every woman thinks she needs to have children to complete her life.


Intuitively, I would assume that's true. Experientially, however, I have only seen one who truly had no desire whatsoever to have kids.

I will say I've met dozens (literally) who claimed to have no interest in kids, but they always changed their minds as soon as they felt comfortable enough to spring it on me. My first hunch is that they must have been lying when they initially told me they didn't want kids. My second hunch is I've seen this often enough to develop the idea that this is, if not a universal, then the next closest thing to it.


Growing up I heard countless women tell me how their lives were ruined by having children; my mom being one of them; so I chose not to be one of them and enjoyed my career in the military. What I find rare is men my age that don't want children. They seem to think having a child in their 50s will be the answer to their midlife crisis rather than wisely saving for their retirement. So much for being wiser as you get older.


I can't fathom that, either. Of course, I can't understand why anybody, of any age, would want to have a kid, but that's just me.





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Thu 09/16/10 03:47 PM


Contrary to what you think; not every woman thinks she needs to have children to complete her life.


Intuitively, I would assume that's true. Experientially, however, I have only seen one who truly had no desire whatsoever to have kids.

I will say I've met dozens (literally) who claimed to have no interest in kids, but they always changed their minds as soon as they felt comfortable enough to spring it on me. My first hunch is that they must have been lying when they initially told me they didn't want kids. My second hunch is I've seen this often enough to develop the idea that this is, if not a universal, then the next closest thing to it.


Growing up I heard countless women tell me how their lives were ruined by having children; my mom being one of them; so I chose not to be one of them and enjoyed my career in the military. What I find rare is men my age that don't want children. They seem to think having a child in their 50s will be the answer to their midlife crisis rather than wisely saving for their retirement. So much for being wiser as you get older.


I can't fathom that, either. Of course, I can't understand why anybody, of any age, would want to have a kid, but that's just me.

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