Interesting post, Thorb. Diva, like many words in our collective lexicon, may have once had a positive connotation, but thanks to some spoiled, selfish egotistical female music "stars" and some dating service members, it now has a very negative connotation, like princess, prima donna, etc. Some people don't mind these types, but as for me, life's too short to walk on egg shells or bow down to a diva.

whoa this topic has sure evolved ...iw ill just say my piece lol and hope i dont offend anyone.

i have nothing against BBW...you know for the longest time i had no idea what that term meant lol. but it's a label in itself and in a way shows how society is.

now myself i have been blessed in the past to be with someone and i didnt care what others thought of her, she was beautiful to me and i made sure she knew it.

when it comes down to it...a person is a person...feelings and everything....a human being. we all deserve respect and love (to love and be loved) and to laugh and live!

so yeah a whole lotta love and respect

we are the same when laying down

By the way, about the height thing . . . we are all the same height when lying down.

we are the same when laying down

Err ahh nope...we ain't.

A woman with an A cup is shorter than a woman with a D cup...men who have 29" waists are shorter than the 44" waists...and i won't digress here in to other things that are taller...

Let me clarify this before I go on with my post: I loves me some BBWs.

However, the term BBW is thrown around WAY too much. Some women think just because they're fat, they qualify as BBW. Big does not = beautiful. There are a lot of BUW, just like there are skinny or average ugly women too.

But you cruise on the mutual matches for awhile you will see "I'm a BBW and proud of it!" And I have to think "Well you're 2/3 right..." I have nothing against women who are thick and beautiful, but BBW is kind of like every guy calling himself "hung" if he's over 4 inches.