if you pay my out of state tuition :p

sorry sweetie, but i am a broke-as$ cougar

^_^

personal tastes are varied and numerous

be glad you dont waste time out of your life with those who dont want to be with you,,,,its a blessing,,,


no sweat off my brow if a man doesnt like relgion or big busted women or ethnic hair,,,,,so long as I eventually meet the one who DOES,,,,than I havent wasted my time or anyone elses

I'm glad I actually read this before I ended up posting. Saves me a lot of time.

Just like with anything else, it's about preference. Some men like skinny women, some like bigger women.

Who dat say dey don't lub dem some BBW wimmens ... ? Ah lub ALL y'all li'l wimmens, BBW or not ...

I agree. And it's the same for women. I am not attracted to large men or bearded men. Just me. Doesn't me they aren't great people, I'm just not physically attracted in a romantic sense.

So what? You are beautiful no matter what.

I think ALL ladies are beautiful in your unique ways!!! So just find the guy that accepts U as who and what U are!!!!

Personally, I have had very few experiences where someone treated me differently because of my weight. And the majority of those instances were most likely me overreacting or being overly sensitive to something that was said. (ie. "she's such a beautiful girl if only she would lose some weight!" Why should this bother me? I take the first part and ignore the remainder!!! lol) Of course you will always be able to find people that disregard you because you do not fit the "perfect image" but for the most part, I have found people react more to personality and attitude than looks in general. If someone can't love me for who I am, including the few extra pounds, then I don't need them in my life. It means more to me to be who I am and be recognized for being a wonderful person, friend, lover, daughter, Aunt and etc. than to fit into someone's "perfect image". My favorite saying in regards to this is...."I may be fat, but you're an ugly person and I can lose weight!"

simple preferences just like some people need to date a non smoker

Ugh. Tell me about it.

Humm just saying would they not be settling if they went for a larger woman and they really did not appeal to them due to that fact...


I'm a full figured woman and honestly if they prefer a smaller woman no matter what, that is where I would want them to be....

I have been much smaller in my years but this is where I'm now.

So myself I would rather have someone that wants me the way I'm now not what they would rather be with....

Hell I'm picky as well and have my preference I won't settle why should guys......

Hate to say it but to me when others bash the opposite sex they should look within first. Gain confidence that way you feel good with yourself when that happens one will not try to find reasons with others why they don't see another as a potential partner. Instead they will see that they just don't match for they don't have the appeal that other person is looking for.

We are our own person and must seek out what makes us happy within. When you find another that has those same feelings toward you then and only then will the magic occur.

I'd much rather be with a happy BBW than a bitchy 'Twiggy' type ... yeah, I know, there are bitchy BBWs too, but it's all about attitude, no matter the body ... people with a positive attitude are just nicer to be with ...

I am going to agree with king. It seems to me that bigger girls have a lot more self confidence even if they don't really feel that way they show it. being a BBW myself i can understand. You have to ignore the ignorant people. just because we are "overweight" does not mean we are unhealthy trust me i have to go to the doctor's every month and im healthier then most women who are the weight that i am "supposed" to be. yeah it might take it's toll on us in the long run but be happy with who you are now, and if you are not happy with who you are you can always change yourself to fit your "standards" never change for someone else's "standards" there is always someone for everyone out there. What i get tired of is people telling me that i have a pretty face but my body not so much. [you wouldn't believe how much i have heard that] and i have even dated someone who has told me that, but once they got to know me it didn't really matter anymore. Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and don't follow society's "standards" of what they think we are supposed to be or look like. you will never be happy if you do that. Love yourself for who you are and personally i'd rather be "fluffy" than to be a bean pole.

I think it's a very bias statement to say bigger women have more confidence. Honestly I think they have just had to grow a tougher skin because of the way they are treated sometimes.

i didn't say that they have more i said it seems that way. and you are right it is because of our "tough" skin exterior we have had to build up.

I think curvy women are especially more beautiful so dont let anyone tell u diff i saw ur pic and wow i think ur very pretty and u have alot to offer a guy whomever that lucky guy is

I agree with ya girl just like some think just because they are bigger they are jolly. NOT..............

It all comes down to how one feels about whom they are and happy with who they are... regardless of size........

And chicks wonder why dorks go for sluts. It's cause they are the only ones who will not touch your PS3, 360, PSP, and other assorted gadgets. Just have to hide the porn from them.