I've had four guys in the last three weeks ask me this, and one guy asks me at least once a week.

Is this some sort of pop test or something? Is there some sort of element I'm missing? Because I usually only ever get a grunt out of them afterwards and no elaboration. And they certainly don't reciprocate.

I'm wondering if it goes beyond the job, basic living, freedom to do stuff sort of question? Do they want to hear "I'd like to have wicked, raunchy sex out in the woods, and have a picnic (wink, wink, nudge, nudge), while out there in the evening?"

What m I missing?

You're not missing anything...it's them

I don't want to offend you, but you asked what is it that men want. After looking at your profile I wonder who could ever fit in that mold, not the animals, but people hate to read all that stuff about what you don't want in a man written as if he is a machine. People can learn and adjust to many things, but jumping through hoops is not bearable. There are better ways of stating what we want.

Ill tell you what I want..what i really, really want....

What happened? It's a secret?

so tell me what you want what you really really want

OMG!!!

It's now stuck in my head! Curse you!!!

Possibly, hopefully. That's exactly what I want. I have no interest in the "games" that one puts up with only to at some point come along and decide they weren't really happy about it to begin with. That's 3-6 months of energy spent for absolutely nothing.

I'm willing to compromise, but it goes both ways, and I have yet to come across the compromising for me.

Okay. Wasn't sure, but certainly wondered.

hee...hee...hee....

Good income, beer, big azz tv, Nissan 370Z, hookers, hookers, and more hookers...more beer, condo, hookers, geek gadgts, more beer, and lastly.....Kristen Wiig.

It might work...........

While waiting for an incredible man that actually lives in my timezone to share an amazing love and life with...


I might temporarily settle for a hot man servant who cooks, cleans and rubs my feet after a long day at the office...

Hey! I can do that ... but what's in it for me ... ?

ummm ... the opportunity to fulfill your destiny as a man-servant?

Sounds like a trap to me.

who knows? i can't say i ever asked that question....it's too open ended it could mean anything n i would be confused too. and if they just grunted or something ...then they had a prob or some sort of chip on their shoulder.

so take care and i wish you the best :)

there are good people out there :)