***raises hand***


Yes I've been cheated on and no I don't have trust issues. I trust myself to handle whatever happens.


If you are going to make every guy that comes along pay for the sins of the one who cheated then you shouldn't be entering into a relationship my dear...it will be doomed from the start because they will never be good enough or trustworthy enough to heal the wound in you.

I wish you the very best...it starts with you and you are worth it.

and thats prolly why you cant get a longterm gf haha

and i wouldnt be surprised if you had an STD or why you dont have a gf? lol

trust is a hard thing but u have to belevei in your self i,ve learnt through a freind of mine that ex hubby n my ex boyfreinds all had low self esteem n us women how have low selfesteeem r like magnets for these un faith ful guys its noy us as aperson trust me i know i,m 40 now n i,m loving myself just for being me stand proud ladies n walk tall we rall beautiful women inside n out forget the cheaters n liairs . lifes to short yer shore it hurts to be gutted n crushed n treated like crap but we get up stronger than before. Every women is speacial insisde n out . I must say to though i,ve seen alot of women do it to men to so have a think next time a guy treats u like crap or cheats on u or lies to u sit think how it makes u feel n then next time think how i guy feels . Guys r humans to we all have a beating heart6 n legs n arms sometimes i think this world is to busy extracting revenge on every one its a vicouse circle stay out of it ladies n love who u r u don,t need aman to tell u how sexy u look or how beautiful or smart or what ever u know it yourself look inside yourself u will find your one n only true lober n gfreind n its u then u can find the best love in hte world . thats just my opinoin. i,ve been to hell n now climbing to the heavens each n every day. go for it ladies u r all beautiful creatures of nature

You mean all fake looking women have STD's?

Why can't women just be who they are instead of trying to be who they think we want them to be???

Good point for men and women.

yeah my only experiences with actually meeting women off a dating site, they either weren't the age they said they were, their pics were way old, said they were into stuff they werent.... it all comes out in the end so just be honest. Heck I've been separated 3yrs but still get lots of grief because I'm not divorced yet. oh well, I'm not going to lie about it...

There's lots of side stuff with divorce - sometimes takes longer.

Hey, don't let a 3 year seperation get you down. I've also been seperated for 3 years (July 2007)& I probably never will get a divorce for my own reasons.