Topic: Do you appreciate a woman w/ some meat on her bones?
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Mon 01/24/11 05:40 AM

Oh man.! What the hell are we talkin about.! I would prefer dating a women with some meat on her bones, nothin wrong with that., but only if im in love with her.. To fall in love with someone i not only take the physical appearance factor but also her personality, way of thinking n other characters., many chubby women have special characters which are impressive, n those fit chicks show off attitude., so the point is nothin wrong with heavyset girlz. The thing that matters is love.



Chubby women are mean lol for real they are mad at the world cause there fat and they hate my guts so I return the favor lol

and I have met some offly disturbing confident fat girls

I like small attracting nice girls they are best hahaha

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Mon 01/24/11 05:43 AM



Actually Sociology 101 teaches us that it does work. The threat of public ridicule does make people change their behaviors.


Is it working here?

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Mon 01/24/11 05:43 AM


Oh man.! What the hell are we talkin about.! I would prefer dating a women with some meat on her bones, nothin wrong with that., but only if im in love with her.. To fall in love with someone i not only take the physical appearance factor but also her personality, way of thinking n other characters., many chubby women have special characters which are impressive, n those fit chicks show off attitude., so the point is nothin wrong with heavyset girlz. The thing that matters is love.



Chubby women are mean lol for real they are mad at the world cause there fat and they hate my guts so I return the favor lol

and I have met some offly disturbing confident fat girls

I like small attracting nice girls they are best hahaha


Ah, so you are mean to them, because you think they're mean in general? You're mad at them, because you assume they're mad at the world? huh

Ash36's photo
Mon 01/24/11 05:51 AM
Woe.! All guys have their different views on chubby girls, so why banging our heads.?

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Mon 01/24/11 06:11 AM




Actually Sociology 101 teaches us that it does work. The threat of public ridicule does make people change their behaviors.


Is it working here?


No but I wouldn't call the internet the real world. We don't really fear being made fun of on this site.

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Mon 01/24/11 06:23 AM
I don't know. If someone were to just ridicule me for something they didn't like in the "real world" that wouldn't have a positive impact and make me change. There are much better ways of going about things. But, since you say it works, how often does it work for you?

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Mon 01/24/11 06:32 AM
like em' small and easy to handle

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Mon 01/24/11 06:36 AM


Oh man.! What the hell are we talkin about.! I would prefer dating a women with some meat on her bones, nothin wrong with that., but only if im in love with her.. To fall in love with someone i not only take the physical appearance factor but also her personality, way of thinking n other characters., many chubby women have special characters which are impressive, n those fit chicks show off attitude., so the point is nothin wrong with heavyset girlz. The thing that matters is love.



Chubby women are mean lol for real they are mad at the world cause there fat and they hate my guts so I return the favor lol

and I have met some offly disturbing confident fat girls

I like small attracting nice girls they are best hahaha


It must be offensive to your sensibilities to meet a heavy girl who respects herself. In the words of President Bill Clinton: I feel your pain (bites lip).

I would have commented on how most chubby women prefer men who use proper spelling and grammar, but that just seemed too easy.

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Mon 01/24/11 06:46 AM



It must be offensive to your sensibilities to meet a heavy girl who respects herself. In the words of President Bill Clinton: I feel your pain (bites lip).

I would have commented on how most chubby women prefer men who use proper spelling and grammar, but that just seemed too easy.


I'm easy so I'll say it. We chubby women prefer someone who uses proper spelling and grammar.

(Waiting for the "Ruth's easy" comments to begin.)

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Mon 01/24/11 06:49 AM



Okami,

I don't think you are a bad guy.

I also think that you are not alone in your beliefs. There are probably many people reading this thread who agree with you, but they don't say it so directly because they know they will get hated on for it.


Like you, I value fitness. I'd also like to see more people get off their *** and exercise more, but I don't think that hating on fat people is constructive. I'm pretty sure you won't believe me - this will seem like a contradiction to you - but there is a way in which you can 'accept' people's flaws and also encourage them to be a better person at the same time.



I was in the military the way we encourage in the military is call names tell a person they are pathetic until they move their arses and get thins done

Some instructors in the fight world are the same lol




That may work in the military and your world/the fight world, but in regular life, that doesn't go over so well. Constantly putting down people is just going to make people look at you in a very negative way and that normally doesn't work well when you're trying to get people to change.



It work perfectly I think, seriously the military is the real world it work

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Mon 01/24/11 06:51 AM


It must be offensive to your sensibilities to meet a heavy girl who respects herself. In the words of President Bill Clinton: I feel your pain (bites lip).
I would have commented on how most chubby women prefer men who use proper spelling and grammar, but that just seemed too easy.

I'm easy so I'll say it. We chubby women prefer someone who uses proper spelling and grammar.
(Waiting for the "Ruth's easy" comments to begin.)

Ruth, you are so..pleasy :-)

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Mon 01/24/11 06:53 AM



Oh man.! What the hell are we talkin about.! I would prefer dating a women with some meat on her bones, nothin wrong with that., but only if im in love with her.. To fall in love with someone i not only take the physical appearance factor but also her personality, way of thinking n other characters., many chubby women have special characters which are impressive, n those fit chicks show off attitude., so the point is nothin wrong with heavyset girlz. The thing that matters is love.



Chubby women are mean lol for real they are mad at the world cause there fat and they hate my guts so I return the favor lol

and I have met some offly disturbing confident fat girls

I like small attracting nice girls they are best hahaha


It must be offensive to your sensibilities to meet a heavy girl who respects herself. In the words of President Bill Clinton: I feel your pain (bites lip).

I would have commented on how most chubby women prefer men who use proper spelling and grammar, but that just seemed too easy.


Okay forum police these fast responses you use hyphens a shorten things out and type fast

so no worries your bigger guy and the only thing you can ridicule me on is my grammar and spelling really bro

sounds kinda lame to me

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Mon 01/24/11 06:55 AM
H~E~L~L~ YEAH!!!!! :banana: :banana: :banana:

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Mon 01/24/11 06:56 AM




Okami,

I don't think you are a bad guy.

I also think that you are not alone in your beliefs. There are probably many people reading this thread who agree with you, but they don't say it so directly because they know they will get hated on for it.


Like you, I value fitness. I'd also like to see more people get off their *** and exercise more, but I don't think that hating on fat people is constructive. I'm pretty sure you won't believe me - this will seem like a contradiction to you - but there is a way in which you can 'accept' people's flaws and also encourage them to be a better person at the same time.



I was in the military the way we encourage in the military is call names tell a person they are pathetic until they move their arses and get thins done

Some instructors in the fight world are the same lol




That may work in the military and your world/the fight world, but in regular life, that doesn't go over so well. Constantly putting down people is just going to make people look at you in a very negative way and that normally doesn't work well when you're trying to get people to change.



It work perfectly I think, seriously the military is the real world it work



The military is certainly much different than the real world. But, if it works in the real world for you, great.

However, in another post, you say you're mean to chubby people because they're mean and they are angry at the world. So, which is it? You're calling them names and telling them they're pathetic because that's what you learned in the military, or you're doing so because they're mean and hate the world?

By the way, none of the people I know who are in the military call people names and tell them they're pathetic as a way of encouragement.

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Mon 01/24/11 07:05 AM

Okay forum police these fast responses you use hyphens a shorten things out and type fast

so no worries your bigger guy and the only thing you can ridicule me on is my grammar and spelling really bro

sounds kinda lame to me


Not bad, but Avant-garde poetry belongs in the Poems & Creative Writing forum.

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Mon 01/24/11 07:06 AM

H~E~L~L~ YEAH!!!!! :banana: :banana: :banana:


That's the punch line to a joke...laugh

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Mon 01/24/11 07:08 AM


H~E~L~L~ YEAH!!!!! :banana: :banana: :banana:


That's the punch line to a joke...laugh



NO JOKE, I LUV EM THICK bigsmile

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Mon 01/24/11 07:13 AM



H~E~L~L~ YEAH!!!!! :banana: :banana: :banana:


That's the punch line to a joke...laugh



NO JOKE, I LUV EM THICK bigsmile


flowerforyou

Ash36's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:14 AM
Well spelling n grammer has nothing to do with this topic, that sorts out okami's prob., n posting coment on people cant change thier views on chubby girls.
So no offense

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Mon 01/24/11 07:19 AM

Well spelling n grammer has nothing to do with this topic, that sorts out okami's prob., n posting coment on people cant change thier views on chubby girls.
So no offense


We are discussing preferences that people have in choosing their relationships. That's about as on-topic as you can get.