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| Topic: Men Tell Stories ~ Women Keep Secrets | |
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A fair amount of truth here. Men tell stories because it's their way of communicating, letting us into their world, their heads, their hearts. It's how they let us get to know them. Women want to share their secrets. They can't untill they feel safe and know their secrests are safe. Telling their secrets is giving their heart. The way a mans story makes her feel determines if she tells her secrets. My thoughts.... |
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Women keep secrets............
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not talking about gossip..smartass
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It's true
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Women keep secrets............ and obviously we're doing a good job of it  afterall we caught you unaware 
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mmmm I'll give it some thought
... very difficult to put love in a box, especially when you make implications with words like 'because' I like the general idea of it but it's too definite and love is vast and untamable But you get 100% for the logical validity of your reasoning regardless of the content And I look forward to hearing more 
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mmmm I'll give it some thought ... very difficult to put love in a box, especially when you make implications with words like 'because' I like the general idea of it but it's too definite and love is vast and untamable But you get 100% for the logical validity of your reasoning regardless of the content And I look forward to hearing more not if its a heart shaped box... |
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love and people can not be boxed and labled...was, is not my intention
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I was talking about rationalizing the ralationship between men and women
logic is a box I have my own theory it's based on the fact that women are more sollicited by men than men are by women would you say this is a safe premise ? |
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Edited by
Ladylid2012
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Sat 01/15/11 04:21 PM
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I rationalize nothing, I'm the least logical person I know.
My thoughts come from intuition and experience, nothing more.. Yes, I agree with your premise |
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I don't want to anoy you but
you're reasoning was very logical even though your assertions were based on your experience and feelings maybe you have hidden aptitudes In any case I appreciated your idea and will be thinking about this tonight |
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Women keep secrets............ Quoted for truth...gypsy. 
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Hah! Women hold secrets about as well as a pinata with a bat smashed through it....
The difference between men and women.... yeah, guys tell stories....then they forget them Women will tell those same stories for as long as it serves thier purposes......which can be a short time or a long time... Cause women have memories based on convenience....if it aint convenient for thier arguement...they wont remember it. |
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I don't want to anoy you but you're reasoning was very logical even though your assertions were based on your experience and feelings maybe you have hidden aptitudes In any case I appreciated your idea and will be thinking about this tonight I'm not annoyed... I don't debate, just put my thioughts and allow others to do the same. |
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Edited by
Gwendolyn2009
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Sat 01/15/11 05:18 PM
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A fair amount of truth here. Men tell stories because it's their way of communicating, letting us into their world, their heads, their hearts. It's how they let us get to know them. Women want to share their secrets. They can't untill they feel safe and know their secrests are safe. Telling their secrets is giving their heart. The way a mans story makes her feel determines if she tells her secrets. My thoughts.... I sometimes wonder if I am different from most women and someone forgot to give me the How to be a Woman book. What types of secrets? I am a storyteller,and in my stories, the woman who I am is "exposed." When I was still seeking men to date, my profile was a series of stories about my experiences. Some people tell who they are, but I prefer to show who I am. When I used to frequent chat rooms, a man had written on his profile that men can get naked and it means nothing, but when a man talks, he is baring his soul. He said women bare their souls easily and openly, but when one gets naked for the first time, she is showing trust and is truly baring herself (in more ways than one). I told him it was a hackneyed, BS concept. He was not pleased. So, which is it? I don't think we can make such generalizations about men or women. |
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ok, I see I'll need to change the verbiage for the male's to get it.
females LOVE to tell secrets about others, see.. that would be gossip, girls seem to like that. The secrets they hold in their hearts about themselves are the ones they hold back on. so, seems Jeff, freak and krupa..your hanging out with the biotches who like gossip and spill their guts about others... |
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A fair amount of truth here. Men tell stories because it's their way of communicating, letting us into their world, their heads, their hearts. It's how they let us get to know them. Women want to share their secrets. They can't untill they feel safe and know their secrests are safe. Telling their secrets is giving their heart. The way a mans story makes her feel determines if she tells her secrets. My thoughts.... I sometimes wonder if I am different from most women and someone forgot to give me the How to be a Woman book. What types of secrets? I am a storyteller,and in my stories, the woman who I am is "exposed." When I was still seeking men to date, my profile was a series of stories about my experiences. Some people tell who they are, but I prefer to show who I am. When I used to frequent chat rooms, a man had written on his profile that men can get naked and it means nothing, but when a man talks, he is baring his soul. He said women bare their souls easily and openly, but when one gets naked for the first time, she is showing trust and is truly baring herself (in more ways than one). I told him it was a hackneyed, BS concept. He was not pleased. So, which is it? I don't think we can make such generalizations about men or women. Got no idea what hackneyed means but it sounds like some one fed you a lame @$$ed line of bull schitt. |
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ok, I see I'll need to change the verbiage for the male's to get it. females LOVE to tell secrets about others, see.. that would be gossip, girls seem to like that. The secrets they hold in their hearts about themselves are the ones they hold back on. so, seems Jeff, freak and krupa..your hanging out with the biotches who like gossip and spill their guts about others... What? How dare you say that kind of schitt..... I have no idea what you have been drinking but you just stepped across a line with me. Have a good life. Never speak my name again. |
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Krupa wrote:
Got no idea what hackneyed means but it sounds like some one fed you a lame @$$ed line of bull schitt. That was my point! The OP wrote: ok, I see I'll need to change the verbiage for the male's to get it. females LOVE to tell secrets about others, see.. that would be gossip, girls seem to like that. The secrets they hold in their hearts about themselves are the ones they hold back on. so, seems Jeff, freak and krupa..your hanging out with the biotches who like gossip and spill their guts about others... Actually, you needed to change the verbiage so I could get it, and I am not a male. OP, with all due respect, it seems that you are generalizing about women not only in the telling of secrets, but in other aspects, as well. MANY women like to gossip, but so do MANY men. Everyone gossips at one time or other or in one form or another. In fact, my sister called me this morning and we "gossiped" about her husband for about 1/2 hour. At least, she spilled her gut about someone else, so by your definition, it qualifies as gossip. I gossip, but I am not a "biotch," or not because I gossip. Let's not start calling names and being judgmental. |
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"Let's not start calling names and being judgmental."
Nice thought but, that ship has sailed and just gotten torpedoed..... There comes a time to shed blood.....when some one is due an @$$ kicking....you send them back to thier trailer wearing thier @$$ for a hat. |
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