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I was 14 years in a relationship with a woman 30+ older than me and it is either taboo by ignorant people, or a joke/item of curiosity to those close to you. One thing is for sure EVERYONE who ever came into contact with us had a comment about it. It leaves no one that I've met indifferent.
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I think its smart. Young men can learn a lot about manners and class when they date a older woman. Not necessarily as not all older woman are polite and classy.  Nor are ALL young men in need of superficial education. |
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Topic:
What have you done lately?
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Congrats on ditching Facebook
I'm trying so hard to find peace, I hope I will find some inspiration here. Thanks! |
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Topic:
How Old Is too Old
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How about 32 years difference me 26 her 59 when we met
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I have a love life, I'm full of love, but no one to share it with, no one to take care of or surprise. I'm in need of laughter ... back and forth laughter,
Make me laugh please! |
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Nice Guys
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I'm nice with my friends, my family, my girlfriend, my neighbors, my colleagues ... and that's my limit.
Anyone suggesting I should be nicer is just abusive Any nice guys ever get screwed over? Present! So in time we realize that the real nice guys hide themselves more and more for self preservation, and people make a lot of noise about supposedly nice guys who in fact are just copying the real nice guys they have helped push to the side. Am I a frustrated nice guy or what? I stopped being an openly nice guy when I realized that tons of violent guys are getting the grade...just shows women don't really want a nice guy. |
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Topic:
Nice Guy vs. Nice Guy
Edited by
dconexion
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Tue 07/12/11 03:05 PM
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Topic:
Nice Guy vs. Nice Guy
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Nice guy is an in-the-gray kind of notion. Based on two uncertain concepts to start with:
- nice and - guy We might as well start debating what is a 'real man' or a guy next door, or even 'what is good' In any case my point is that there are always two interpretations to the generic character of people on the one hand the socialistic where the superficial opinion of others is the basis for evaluating, and then there's the individualistic where you actually look at the person to make a decision I think both have some validity, but I'm into the individualistic first. But then there's the ever put aside reality, where we are both. |
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Topic:
what is love
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"Love may be an undigested bit of beef, a blot of mustard, a crumb of cheese, a fragment of underdone potato." 
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Topic:
Is it just me
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My first post wasn't very clear, I hope this is better. No, beauty is an absolute. Except for a very small number of people, every man wants a thin wife. Each man might have a different definition of thin and fat, but they all want a thin wife. For some men, then means the woman has an extra 20-40 pounds, for some it means an extra 100 for some it means that she's underweight to some degree. Similarly, almost all women want a man who is muscular. They will differ on what is too little or too much musle, but they don't argue that muscular is better than flabby. Symmetry is also desired in the body and face of a prospective mate. A man with one eye that is twice the size of the other would have a hard time finding anyone who found him as handsome as he would be considered if both eyes were the same size. Angular features are desirable in a mate, but each person has their own taste as to how angular the features can be before they are less attractive. So beauty is a objective matter, but personal interpretation of beauty is based on personal preferences. If beauty is entirely subjective, why do we all agree that Axl_Rose40, msharmonyand, bugmouthga and TxsGal3333 are both stunningly beautiful?  Try this one...absolutes are relative...Einstein wins again I agree with most of the stereotype you present, but what do free thinking individuals such as ourselves have to do with what the majority or the generic 'thinks'. Free your mind and your *** will follow. |
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Topic:
what is love
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to my opinions and believe love is not real,its just emotions u all r feeling, Love is everything from where you learn to eat to survive to how you see your life as whole. It is the basis of your personality and makes up a great part of your mental activity. There cannot be a single definition of love. |
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Edited by
dconexion
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Wed 07/06/11 01:59 PM
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Hours and hours and hours of meaningful, insightful soul baring conversation.
Followed by hours and hours and hours of imaginative, selfless, intense sensual and erotic pleasure |
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There are many reasons people have low self esteem. And they are usually real.
I find a lot of people who boast having high self esteem are just comparing themselves to those who have low self esteem (get the math). When you talk to people with 'apparently' high self esteem, you find they are riding the coat tails of more advance theories and ideas on personal development. And, less evolved behaviors are imposed as evolved and sophisticated. AND A LOT of people use self confidence as a pretext for aggressivity and contempt. Human beings can evolve endlessly. Or, they can choose to simply follow the dominant discourse. Can you tell I have the attitude of a guy with low self esteem? Do I have low self esteem? 
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I don't have one because as of today, he dumped me. Oh well it's for the best.  glad you found some replacement bananas...
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Edited by
dconexion
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Tue 07/05/11 06:15 PM
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So how would you go about determining what's wrong with one's love life?
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In the hopes of getting some free romantic therapy, perhaps communing with my fellow minglers will bring out some answers to this daunting question. Please advise.
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Topic:
Why are you still Single?
Edited by
dconexion
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Sat 07/02/11 06:40 PM
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Because the longer I make it alone, the less motivation I have to 'settle' for less than what I really want in a partner,,,, I'm sure you have found some of what you are looking for in relationships. We often think we decide how a relationship will be, but relationships are organic creatures that have a mind of their own. Sorry if im a bit nosy. I've read many of your posts and I always like what you have to say. I was a bit touched by your thread. Don't give up. |
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Topic:
Why are you still Single?
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because I don't post humorous responses to serious questions.
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I'm a closet biotch... Do you provide support? Sure. Fall out of the closet. Someone surely will catch you. was that a biotchy response ? lol |
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