Maybe it's only me..don't know but somehow I'm not thrilled much about dating or finding someone or just having women responding to mails etc..just became too predictable and it's like a game I'm tired of going through talking about if I have any dogs or how to pronounce my first name and my favorite music.

Seriously, I'm not trying to offend anyone or make think that it's not worth to effort to try talking to me or mailing me or anyone else, I'm just saying that it' became such a routine now (2 years?) that I'm just exhausted running the same tape over and over.

It also made me less responsive and less excited to get a reply or just someone showing some interest towards me.

I remember back in the day I used to get excited about replies and seeing if anyone checked my profile etc.., now I feel numb to all this..not sure if it has to do with the time spent alone or the time spent on dating sites and getting the same replies or just not seeing much of hope getting anywhere with it, so I don't know.

If you have been for at least a year, on a dating site, don't you feel like it's more like a routine now and your expectations has winded down a lot ever since you first joined?

Exactly Fade. So the answer would be yes, and no, respectively.

Like today I was a jerk when my neighbor was blasting his music so loud that I used the remote to honk the horn on my car in the driveway next to their house until they turned it down. Kind of a jerk move, I admit.

To many times we run into people that feel they need to be someone they are not and its so hard to find the true them ... why cant they be themselves.... if they only new they would be loved for who they truly are... and thats my point of view.... on this subject...

I thought the instruction manual said things are closer than they appear? *insert blonde emoticon here*