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Fri 07/23/10 01:25 PM

I think to be truly well balanced people we need ample amounts of physical activity, nutrition, sleep and intellectual stimulation. And just think, all these can be accomplished in bed.:wink:
Sounds like a healthy program :thumbsup:

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Fri 07/23/10 11:21 AM
Did I kill the topic ?
I'm sorry !

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Fri 07/23/10 11:20 AM


I was living on old love. Need new love. I think the only love I feel is narcissist because I'm so alone. At least I have that to keep me going.


sending a little love your way! :heart:

drinker
Thanks :-) now you've got me singing 'Give a Little Bit`

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Fri 07/23/10 11:12 AM

HA!

Amature.....

So, you actually wait to make it to the bed? Hell no! I sleep there and I aint getting stuck trying to sleep in the wet spot. You do that stuff on the coffee table. Up against the mirror in the foyer. On the hood of the car in the garage. On the lil Tykes play set in the back yard....sneaking it in in public is a blast. you get a shot of adreniline with the endorphines.

That penguin walk and those carpet burns are badges of honor and the older you get..the prouder you should be of them. (hell, I get those just from masturbation....but,I don't hold everyone to my standards)

Poor job performance????....hahahahaha f**k work. Having marathon power sex is the ONLY excuse that I have ever used that management didnt say "you need to stop doing that" or "you need to decide if your job or getting laid all weekend is more important" Try it...next time you are late or go in looking rough...tell em...I was up till 4 a.m. screwing my brains out...I may do it again tonight too. They might shake thier heads...but they always grin and wish that thier partner still wanted to hit it like that..every last one of em.

Allow me to close by saying...if you would rather be sleeping than screwing.....good night and pleasant dreams....send your old ladies and girl friends my way...you can go to work all perky with a spring in your step while they waddle off with thier hair messed up, and smeared makeup while they look for a cigarette and a sore throat lozenge.
I agree, winning the teams marathon event is a great feeling:banana:

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Thu 07/22/10 06:46 PM


Could someone give me a condensed version of what he said?ohwell


I doubt anyone really read it..:wink:


it was funny and obviously subtle since you got a roar out of the populace

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Thu 07/22/10 06:18 PM

I get a lot of enjoyment from people not being able to read between the lines. The "rage" is amazing! :banana:
I hear ya!

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Thu 07/22/10 06:15 PM
hmmm how mechanical

the idea is to embellish and enrich the experience, same as sex ads something to love, love ads something to sex

so all the quirks you name become very manageable when you are so happy to be with someone, doesn<t that morning cuddle make all the pain go away...until you do it and it starts hurting again

spock

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Thu 07/22/10 05:45 PM
Edited by dconexion on Thu 07/22/10 05:46 PM

laugh Do you wanna eat my taco?:wink:
oh thats crude...laugh

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Thu 07/22/10 05:42 PM

smokin
doesn't have any effect, I got lost in a pot field at 8...the buzz has been permanent ever since

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Thu 07/22/10 04:40 PM
I was living on old love. Need new love. I think the only love I feel is narcissist because I'm so alone. At least I have that to keep me going.

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Thu 07/22/10 02:26 PM

Love is great, but sex is going to be a big part of that. It's not going to be everything but, love without sex is going to be like a close friendship, rather than an actual relationship. I'm not interested in a sexless relationship.
That would be hard to do for a scorpio

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Thu 07/22/10 02:24 PM
or pehaps a complex harmony ?

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Thu 07/22/10 02:17 PM

flowerforyou flowerforyou

This topic is for sexually mature people who are looking for a relationship based on Love (notice the big L); who have variations and nuances in their feelings, not ambiguity.

I wanna live, I wanna give.

I feel love in my gut, not my pants.

Love is more important than sex ? Let's see what that stirs up !
when you are speaking about the love between a man and a woman as a couple- then love and sex are one and the same. this is hard to explain - u just have to feel itsmitten
That is my point, as a couple we learn to communicate in different ways whether sensually, verbally, with body language, by the way we do things for one another....they are all satisfying to me and all refer to one another in a harmonious complexity

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Thu 07/22/10 12:40 PM
Edited by dconexion on Thu 07/22/10 12:44 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY mbcasey

Rejoice you are still young...and you are ALIVE

A classic, we spend most of our youth destroying our health trying to prepare for the future thinking we don't have enough, and then spend the rest of our life trying to get our youth back and wondering about what we could have done.

Be careful, I talk a lot but am no better, been depressed since I was 7, realized it at 26, started taking care of it at 33, so it's a struggle, but it's worth it, I'm worth it.

The hardest is fighting off negative thoughts which are stimulated by all the aggression in life, but I'm going to win.

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Thu 07/22/10 12:32 PM
I will forgo your message, not by lack of interest but because there is something important that must be said...

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Wed 07/21/10 11:17 AM
oh yes, and meditation, focusing away from your thoughts, even if you just stare at the blackness of your closed eyes

I found at one point that gently brutalizing myself to sleep was helpful, telling myself that I'm here to sleep not f++k around. After 4- 5 times it works. But you have to be motivated to do that.

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Wed 07/21/10 11:13 AM


I'm having some trouble with depression and fear. I've not been sleeping well and definitely not dealing well during the day.

Recommendations for natural help? Vitamins? Herbal? I've been on Zoloft(yuck), and Paxil(that's tough crap to come off of). I want to try something natural, along with diet and exercise changes. I'm taking St. Johns Wort, just started tonight.
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Try melatonin for sleep. It is natural and not expensive at all.

Good luck!!
The new thing is warm milk, excellent for seratonin stimulation
Personaly I still go for a 'good night' herbal tea mix, always does the trick

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Wed 07/21/10 10:30 AM
Hello, new to the topic but I see many familiar faces, glad I'm not the only one with an interest for the subject.

My depression was aggravated by years of accumulating frustrations that I could not resolve. Kept getting more and more depressed.

I've bean recovering for 5 years now. I wonder sometimes if I will be recovering all my life and if this in between state is till the end.

In between exuberant passion and sustained nihilism. I feel comfortable here, I'm stable, I believe in my therapy but feel a bit lost without any ambition. Just living day to day trying to keep my darker thoughts at bay.

I have spent over 20 years trying to be someone else. So I'm trying to get back to who I want to be.

In a world where people rely on appearances and the first thing said to form their said 'judgment' it's hard to be a person with avowed layers. (this is the part where I feel sorry for myself)

Anyway just hoping to find some echo in here

Cheers

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Wed 07/21/10 09:50 AM
So a young boy begs his parents for the new talking robot friend. He gets the robot and on the first night, hes at the table with his dad, and the robot is there, so dad says:

your mom tells me youve been reading those porno mags again !

boy: no dad, I swear I didn't

so the robot rolls over to the little boy and slaps him upside the head (sorry for the violence)

dad: you see, I didn't tell lies when I was your age.

The robot rolls to the dad, WACK upside the head

So the mother in the kitchen starts to laugh and says out loud:

Isn't that your son !

The robot goes to the mom...wack!

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Sat 07/17/10 06:33 PM

Love is extremely important because it provides the basis for the relationship.

Sex is important too.

I don't know that I would want to be without sex in the relationship.

It is it a great expression of love too.
isn't it, I think love and relationships are like multiple conversations going on at once, if you listen to only one voice you miss out the rest