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Topic: Red Flags/Pet Peeves/Turn-Offs
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Mon 01/17/11 03:46 PM
If you meet someone for the first time that you think you are attracted to, what would be a "Red Flag" or "Pet Peeve" about the person that would stop you from dating them or something? For me it is smoking, I met a girl in college that we seemed to hit it off but when we went out of the building she lite up and it was a total turn off for me. I was just curious what other people thought about their turn-off and whatever...

thewaterbearer's photo
Mon 01/17/11 03:48 PM
Being rude, talking about politics, big ego, selfishness.whoa

Okami04's photo
Mon 01/17/11 03:55 PM
Ego is awesome lol


I would have to say a turn off is someone who likes Jersey Shore haha I hope she sees this lol

thewaterbearer's photo
Mon 01/17/11 03:56 PM
Men acting like immature little boyswhoa

candorheart's photo
Mon 01/17/11 03:57 PM
i would have to say rotten teeth, poor grammer and farting in public...or spitting ...yep..that would do it for me.

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Mon 01/17/11 03:57 PM
Being rude

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Mon 01/17/11 03:58 PM
Arrogance and being attached to their phone.

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Mon 01/17/11 03:58 PM

i would have to say rotten teeth, poor grammer and farting in public...or spitting ...yep..that would do it for me.


Psst.. if you're going to give someone a hard time for poor grammar, at least spell grammar correctly. :wink:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 01/17/11 03:58 PM
If we can't get extra cheese on the pizza that's a deal breaker im out shocked shocked

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:05 PM
some one that says i love u in the first email or just says hey sexy or girl just one liners there more i just cant think of any right now

msharmony's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:08 PM
oh my, there is no absolute mind you, because adults should be able to speak openly and honestly(with respect) and compromise on things that are important to them


but


Id say the following things make me a bit uncomfortable when meeting people in person and keep me moving on to the next when checking profiles or pictures



1. Anyone over the age of thirty who still speaks as if they are in high school

2. Anyone whose age range stops at the age they were TEN YEARS ago or longer

3. Anyone whose regularly got a drink in their hand or who is either consistently serious or consistently goofy,,,


4. Anyone with kids they dont support.

5. Anyone who belittles the bible or God.

6. Anyone who has a bad family relationship with parents, siblings,, whatever

7. Anyone who looks like a walking art exhibit(tattoos, piercings, etc,,)

8. Anyone who 'doesnt like' kids

9. Cat persons,,lol

10. Clothes that dont fit(either too tight or DROOPING and too big)

11. Any extremely political folks who seem to have a passionate dislike of one party or another or one politician or another

12. Anyone whose screen name is an obvious sexual reference or body reference.

13. Those who make the gym their second home or second job. I dont like to share my romance with anyones obsessions..lol

14. Anyone who is a constant victim or perpetual bully.

15. ,,, I think thats it,, probably why Im still single , huh?
lol

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Mon 01/17/11 04:20 PM

oh my, there is no absolute mind you, because adults should be able to speak openly and honestly(with respect) and compromise on things that are important to them


but


Id say the following things make me a bit uncomfortable when meeting people in person and keep me moving on to the next when checking profiles or pictures



1. Anyone over the age of thirty who still speaks as if they are in high school

2. Anyone whose age range stops at the age they were TEN YEARS ago or longer

3. Anyone whose regularly got a drink in their hand or who is either consistently serious or consistently goofy,,,


4. Anyone with kids they dont support.

5. Anyone who belittles the bible or God.

6. Anyone who has a bad family relationship with parents, siblings,, whatever

7. Anyone who looks like a walking art exhibit(tattoos, piercings, etc,,)

8. Anyone who 'doesnt like' kids

9. Cat persons,,lol

10. Clothes that dont fit(either too tight or DROOPING and too big)

11. Any extremely political folks who seem to have a passionate dislike of one party or another or one politician or another

12. Anyone whose screen name is an obvious sexual reference or body reference.

13. Those who make the gym their second home or second job. I dont like to share my romance with anyones obsessions..lol

14. Anyone who is a constant victim or perpetual bully.

15. ,,, I think thats it,, probably why Im still single , huh?
lol
it is a pretty long list

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Mon 01/17/11 04:24 PM

If you meet someone for the first time that you think you are attracted to, what would be a "Red Flag" or "Pet Peeve" about the person that would stop you from dating them or something? For me it is smoking, I met a girl in college that we seemed to hit it off but when we went out of the building she lite up and it was a total turn off for me. I was just curious what other people thought about their turn-off and whatever...


For me Red Flags would be - if he didn't get my number, didn't take any initiative to makes plans - even just plans to call. Any sign that he will be difficult uncaring or a user

BTDT

redhead44613's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:25 PM
Bad teeth or they stink. This may sound weird but my sense of smell is super sensitive. I do my best to look an smell good, so should the person I'm dating.

newarkjw's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:29 PM

Bad teeth or they stink. This may sound weird but my sense of smell is super sensitive. I do my best to look an smell good, so should the person I'm dating.


Like Redd Foxx used to say "People wash your feet and azz".......smokin

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:32 PM
know what creeps me out ..you meet someone ...later that night sending you messages on facebook noway noway noway noway noway

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:33 PM
wanting oral sex on first date

stefy's photo
Mon 01/17/11 04:34 PM

Bad teeth or they stink. This may sound weird but my sense of smell is super sensitive. I do my best to look an smell good, so should the person I'm dating.

Smell is important to me too. Its a huge turn off when he smells bad. Oh and nails, they should be clean.

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Mon 01/17/11 04:54 PM
Someone who brags, lies about silly things, or talks about money

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Mon 01/17/11 04:57 PM
Showing disrespect to me or anyone else

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