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Wed 09/10/25 10:53 PM
Just 9?...lol I had a scammer earlier that had the same picture for almost 20. I got a message and I just asked which name do you want to be called, then posted the links to the other accounts...I have not heard back...lol
But then there is a lady in Texas that has too many accounts to count. I think she is a real person but she makes like 5 accounts a day.

Then on top of that, I just found out that even when you hit the X, they will still come back.


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Tue 09/09/25 02:51 PM

If you persist, you may get successful. Unfortunately, you have to be vigilant. My guesstimate is that some 25 to 50 percent here are scammers.

I would say those are the scammer numbers in the forum here, if you are in the searching profiles part then I would guess it is closer to 80%-90% scammers...

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Tue 09/09/25 02:40 PM
I think that about 90% of the profiles on here are fake, it is like they just slap it together doing quantity over quality...

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Mon 09/08/25 02:58 PM

I'm curious about everyone's thoughts on this. I'm 24 and recently started talking to someone who's 34. We click really well same humor, similar goals, great conversations but I'm wondering if the 10-year difference will become an issue down the line.

My friends are split. Some say it's nothing, others think we might be at different life stages. He's more established in his career while I'm still figuring things out. But honestly, he doesn't make me feel immature or anything like that.

I've also dated guys my age who acted like they were still 18, so maybe maturity matters more than the number?

What's been your experience with age gaps? Did it work out or did you run into problems you didn't expect? At what point does the gap become too much?

Looking forward to hearing your stories!


As long as you just focus on the two of you and don't listen to others (even their jokes) then it will cut down on the problems. Just do what makes you happy.
I have dated older and younger, it usually is not a problem until it starts to turn into a parent/child type relationship (unless that is what you are into...lol) but that can happen with any age. I know of some that the wives are my age with the husbands that are about 15 years younger that have been together for a long time now.
Good Luck

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Mon 09/08/25 02:39 PM

Why the African Community here isn't recognised.

You want your own segregated area on this website (that does not sound good) or are you talking about your own profile getting ignored?

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Sat 09/06/25 09:50 PM
To me, the money issue needs to be talked about some time before moving in together. Otherwise you can just wait until a close topic comes around, like if she talks about buying a new car or something else expensive that she says she wants but can not afford.

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Thu 09/04/25 06:34 PM
With the new search radius (that does not work), I just X'ed out the profiles that I did not want to see again (too far away or whatever). It takes a while but then you will have a manageable amount of profiles, which also makes it easier to see the profiles with the same pictures but different cities...lol

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Thu 09/04/25 01:11 PM
The Search feature is having a couple of problems. The latest one I noticed was the "Hopped Country" part does not stay with just that extra country. I had the hopped country set as Mexico and it was putting Canada in the search as well. It should be an easy fix.

But something that I think has been going on for a longer time is profiles coming back after I click the 'X' on them. At first I just figured it was scammers with multiple profiles. But I had a profile that I had opened in a separate window to view the profile. I clicked the 'X' on it and then went to the next page where I seen the same profile picture. I thought I would open it up in its own window so I could see if it was any different that the other one I had just X'ed. Everything was the same, like a scammer was copy and pasting it...but then I looked at the web address line...it was the same. This was not a multiple profile but a profile that should have been removed from the search that was not.
There are a bunch of reoccurring profile pics that I have seen, which I just figured was scammers but now I am wondering how many of those are glitches from bad programming on the website.

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Tue 09/02/25 10:51 PM

When, in the paleolithic, I was working for a living, somebody said "there are people with 20 years of experience and people who have one year of experience, repeated 20 times."

I think I had a marriage like that. We were both military so it was like one of us was always out of the country for long stretches of time...lol

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Tue 09/02/25 12:48 AM
Age is just a number, it does not mean that a person has actually matured to that level. Then you have a few young ones who seem to have matured too fast (talking about there mental state). But that does not mean that an immature old person should be in a relationship with a matured young person, there is just too much differences with their experiences and the life they have lived.
So I will still agree to a point that age is just a number, but it is a number that I use +/- 10 years of my number (and I use their actual number and not the one they were told they might look like in a dimly lit bar...lol)

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Tue 09/02/25 12:36 AM


hi I'm new here

All the way from "Ohio Colorado".....


I don't know if that profile is real but google says "The City of Ohio is located in Gunnison County in the State of Colorado." There are a lot of towns named after states.

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Tue 08/26/25 12:17 PM
What would you like to talk about?

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Sat 08/23/25 08:21 PM
I spent 2.5 years in Germany and a year in Korea, traveled around from there visiting other countries and I liked the cultures. When I was younger, I thought about moving back to one or the other (more so back to Korea). But after settling down in the states I have too many roots here now to move again.

But if I did have to move and those were my only two options then I would probably go with Asia.

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Sat 08/23/25 08:11 PM
If a Vehicle is dependable and gets you around safely intown then it is ok. IMO However there are people who only want to Date someone with a very new Nice vehicle.


Maybe more people should look for a partner that has an older vehicle. It shows that they can commit, they are not going to just go trade it in for a younger model with less mileage in a few years...lol

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Fri 08/22/25 04:06 PM
I was curious if we all had the same ideas of the "Looking For" options meanings. I usually do not label things like this and I know a lot of other people seem to have different ideas on what things mean Since I never seen a definitions section on this site what meanings the site holds to their labels, I thought I would ask here to see if there was any differences.

"Intimate encounter"= Hook-ups or one night stand type of things...

"Activity partner"= Some one you can go do stuff with, like hit up a farmers market or something? I am not sure on this one (one of the reasons I asked here).

"Friendship"= Just friends, don't expect anything else...but this is a dating site so it might turn into something else later...

"Dating"= Just the casual, nothing serious type of thing. Getting to know each other style of dating.

"Relationship"= This is more committed than just dating, you are part of each others lives. This is definite couples status even if you are not living together yet.

"Marriage"= This is probably the only one that everyone will agree on, getting married. Although some might have a different way of getting there, skip right over all the dating and relationship stuff and go straight to marriage, while others see marriage and a way down the road thing like a common law marriage set up with a long engagement time.


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Mon 08/18/25 04:50 PM
I usually run Firefox for most websites, recently the pop up blocker stopped working so I was suggested a different one from the Community here which works great so far. But I like using Microsoft Edge for other things like streaming and stuff. I was using the uBlock pop-up blockers and everything was fine, but in the last few days it seems to have stopped working also. So I thought I would ask on here what pop-up blockers do you use that actually work? I already tried to just download a few but none of them worked either. I figured that if I am having the problem then others are also. Thanks

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Fri 08/15/25 07:53 PM
I lived in Germany for about 2 1/2 years and Korea for a year. Both places were great and easy to travel around and visit the neighboring countries also. Some places need more time than just a visit to see enough of it.

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Wed 08/13/25 02:59 PM
The AdBlocker Ultimate works great. Now the problem is there are no ads to annoy me and make me leave the site so I might stay on here too long...lol

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Tue 08/12/25 09:07 PM
I use Firefox with AdBlocker Ultimate. What ads?

I just enabled AdBlocker Ultimate so I will see if that helps... Thanks

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Tue 08/12/25 02:22 PM
This is a free site so I understand that the ads are needed to pay for it, but when it says watch the ad to get 12 hours of ad free time and then you get another ad about 5 minutes later it does get annoying.

But the first ad that pops up after getting on this site, the one that is right after those beginning pop-ups never shows up. I click the button to watch it and nothing happens so I have to refresh the page to get around it. That is a glitch that seems to happen every time.

I also noticed that some ads work better than others. Like most of the 5 second ads seem to go right through without a problem. While only about half of the 15 second ads seem to work. The 30 second ADOBE ad though I have never been able to get it to work, it either locks up in the beginning and does not play or it gets about half way and then freezes up. Which I do find funny that a computer program company can not get their ad to work on this website...that really makes me want their product...lol

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