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Wed 04/01/26 11:19 AM

rofl
was just re-reading the topic title laugh

cuz older womens have better stories than younger ones laugh
I think they call that "More Experienced"...lol

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Tue 03/31/26 08:41 PM
I was thinking of the site itself putting up a page of what not to say, but that would require a website that actually cares about the members...lol

You go to pg 50? I just hit the Recent Posts and that is as far as I go...lol I did try to hunt down the oldest thread, like the General section said there was over 2000 pages but most of them were blank. So I was just hitting random numbers until I found close to the end. There might be older in there but I did not feel like searching more.

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Tue 03/31/26 02:59 PM

nope.. she never got to read it cuz as soon as I hit 'reply' I got zapped.. and why I feel THAT is why the stupid bots nixed me..

Ok, then it sounds like you know what you did. Too bad others do not and might fall victim of the overzealous bots wanting to ban people...lol Maybe there should be a page of example of what you can not say on here...lol


if someone got bent outta shape cuz of something I wrote 20 yrs ago.. man.. that's way too long ta hold a grudge laugh but I AM aware the convo's of 20 yrs ago no longer exist.. just using that as an example.. whoa

It does look like the threads get erased about the 19.5 year mark so 20 years ago is safe...lol At least that is what I seen in my quick search og the general section...
https://mingle2.com/forum/forum/1?page=2003


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Mon 03/30/26 06:37 PM
Did she get to read it or was it blocked? If she read it them she should know if it was borderline or not. But with all these people pulling up old threads it might have been something you said years ago that goes against standards now...lol

They need a posting meter, like those meters that tell you the strength of your password but this one meters how close you are to getting banned for your words...lol

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Mon 03/30/26 03:58 PM
I would guess my mind still thinks I am in my late 20's with some of the dumb stuff I still do...lol

People have made it too easy to report someone even without cause, and their is no repercussions when they do report just out of spite or what ever. Maybe someone was mad because you had too high of a post count...lol

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Mon 03/30/26 02:12 PM

What's the nudge all about? I'm new so I don't know what to do when someone nudges me? I'm not sure what my response should be. Thoughts?
It is about the same as the likes on here. You can like a bunch of people on here, but your picture might be blurred out and only a couple of letters of your name will show. So it might be hard for the person that you like to know who you are.
Nudges are about the same but the other person can see your profile and can respond. But you only get like 5 a day.

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Mon 03/30/26 02:08 PM
you called me "mama", assumed you meant OLD.. or.. is that a freudian slip?? spock lol

what does someone have to say?? seems I got booted already.. now if I can only find the post that got me booted and made me re-invent meself.. we'd BOTH know laugh
Being a mama is not old, there are kids out there not even teen agers that are mothers...Mtv made a bunch of shows about it even...lol. I was a grandpa at 42.

I have not been booted from here yet, but I have had comments deleted...I guess you can not make a religion joke on here...lol

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Sun 03/29/26 06:57 PM

pfffft.. that was the "tame" mama-bear.. (wait.. are you calling me OLD???) surprised .. ya don't wanna see t'other one noway lol

Is mama-bear another name for being old? I did not know that one, just protective. So if that is the tame version, what does someone have to say on here to get the full version? Not that I am going to say it, but I might want to grab some popcorn and watch if someone else does bring it up (you know us guys like putting our foot in our mouths...lol)

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Sun 03/29/26 03:59 PM

GRB.. wasn't trying to overstep.. his comments simply rubbed me the wrong way and well.. I AM opinionated if ya hadn't noticed laugh

I did assume you'd fluff it off (as you typically have done in the past) but it just irked me a tad too much NOT to say anything.. although truefully, I DID stop myself from answering sooner several times lol..

anywho.. I appreciate you not yelling at me LOL
Zena aka Zee bigsmile (I'm in cog-knee-toe lol)
LOL...Let it out, speak your mind...lol No one should yell at you for doing what you think is right (might get a teasing for for going 'mama-bear' or something though...lol) I try and bite my tongue online because some people just like to troll online so it is hard to tell if they are being real or just looking for a reaction. My cork in the mouth joke might not have been the best joke but I figured I would get one of the ladies here to get me with a good comeback but that did not happen so oh well...lol

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Sun 03/29/26 12:25 PM


To gravelridgeboy
you need to read your response with your mother or daughter or any woman in mind. I think the cork belongs in your mouth and you should not be on this site. even with all its issues in bringing peple together to find something more. At least we can all see you you are. Have some respect or STFU


Jay.. sorry but I feel this is a tad too unjustly directed at GravelRidgeBoy.. GRB has been on this site for a very long time and although I do my best to respect everyone's opinion, in this you were, IMO, far too harsh..

from what I've experienced with my interactions with him and reading thru some of his comments over the years, he usually is quite 'middle of the road' on many subjects but often makes "light", in a funny kind of sarcastic way, of certain shall we say "delicate" topics.. and if you re-read his post... you'll realize that he was in NO way suggesting a cork belongs in a womans mouth..

just sayin..

forgot to add: GRB.. you're a grown man and sorry, I am in no way suggesting that you can't defend yourself.. you are more than capable.. I simply believe you were unjustly attacked and felt the need to say something.. just as I've done for others in the past..flowerforyou
Zena, thanks but this Jay Dunn character seems to have too many problems to worry about what he is trying to say. I noticed he is trying to attack me and PeterB for the jokes at the beginning of this thread. I know humor is hard to convey in text form here, but when you are an angry person it must be even harder to figure out...lol So if he can not see humor in what people write then I would be wasting my time trying to speak to him and I will move on. Maybe his little attacks are what make him feel better about himself so he can go one...lol

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Sat 03/28/26 07:29 PM
It is funny that they are censoring words when it looks like the removed the porn filters for profile pictures...lol

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Fri 03/27/26 12:49 PM

Is as hard for everyone as it is for me to find a potential or am missing something. If you are finding it difficult making a connection how are you dealing with it?
This site is full of fake profiles, the forum here seems to have more actual people so come back here and join in the conversations to let people know that you are real and get to know you. Good Luck

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Fri 03/27/26 12:46 PM

I love the way I look, I love my piercings, all I can say is if men are scared then its a good job im bi. Im a very content and happy person, and I dont want anybody that judges me on the picture alone. Plus the men that are doing the judging are not exactly in a position to judge Anybody.
Stay who you are, piercings and all. I don't know if you are talking about in person or just online but your online profile talks about looking for a woman so that is going to tell most guys that you are not interested in them. I would suggest to update your page if you are bi to let the guys know they have a chance also...lol
Good Luck

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Wed 03/25/26 11:09 AM

Well some young women are mature too
That seems to be the consensus of this thread...showing how limited of a mindset the original poster has...lol Age and maturity are not something that has to go together, there are a few younger people who are mature just like there are older people who still have not matured...lol

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Tue 03/24/26 02:18 PM

Kind of curious what picture I should make my profile picture
Post up the picture of you normally. If you dress more conservative then that should be the main picture. Personally I do not like the main pictures with the head cut off...lol So I would save your workout clothes one for when people actually click on your profile and have the main picture one that focuses on your face.

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Mon 03/23/26 08:16 PM

How do you balance your personal freedom and independence within a relationship? What should you expect or accept from your partner?
I think this is going to be an individual case by case thing as everyone is different. But I would also say this type of question might be better for couples who have been together for a long time and not a bunch of single people...lol

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Mon 03/23/26 03:53 PM

Anybody try it, or any of the other brands of "infused" flavored seltzers now out?
I have not tried that one but I have tried a few different ones and I have not found one that I liked. I will stick with a regular beer...

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Mon 03/23/26 03:51 PM

i click 'send message' and it does nothing .did i get in trouble
I think you are limited to the number of messages you can send a day, so if you sent a bunch already then you might have to wait.

The other thing is the programmers for this site are not very good, so the lower part of the screen where the reCAPTCHA thing is and on over is like a dead zone. So if the send button is in that area you will need to scroll up a little bit more to get it to work.

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Sun 03/22/26 02:07 PM
These all sound like songs that SHOULD be played at funerals...lol You can add in a country one, 'Prop Me Up Beside the Jukebox' by Joe Diffie (1993)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMiEFyTuuh8

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Sun 03/22/26 02:05 PM
I have dug up a lot of different stuff in my backyard, but it seems to be random junk...lol But my aunt bought a house when I was a kid, it had this large hillside in the back of it that we would play on. On day sliding down it we hit an old rusty metal fender. We started digging it out (as kids do) to find the complete old Model A truck that got buried. It was to far gone but cool enough for yard art.

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