Please don't blame me for your previous relationship, I did'nt hurt
you.

You are right. Shouldn't take it out on others. However, some wounds run deep

I wouldn't blame you for what another man did but you can't blame me for being more cautious moving onward and upward into new times, new guys

caution is fine I feel you TwoChoosey

girls generalize men way to much after the get their heart broken

Men do the same thing, Okami. But yes, I agree with the OP. If the person is assuming everyone is going to be like their ex, they are probably not ready to start dating yet.

Oh REALLY and I suppose guys never genralize and say stuff like - oh (whiny tone) girls always....blah blah, complain

lol you are correct but I dont hate on girls and not commit because I got cheated on

I am not afraid of intimacy and love its so rare you only experience it when you get it and i dont pass it up because i am afraid to get hurt like a lot of women do

Passing up a good thing because they're afraid of getting hurt is not just a woman thing. Too many people do it, though. I don't have the patience to deal with those who have been so hurt that they cannot get past it.

It's a two way street, we've all been hurt before. I believe that I shouldn't have to ask if you've gotten over your ex!!!

And a woman shouldn't have to say no more than once but **** happens......

Then don't ask brother..........

Yeap, **** happens, but I also learned to look for signs!!!

Here's your sign....

Thanx for the signs Seakolony!!

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I don't blame anyone the past is the past and should be dealt with before moving on to the future......

I don't carry my past with me,But I do carry the weakness I had verses the new strengths I want to CARRY...

We have ALL been there with our bads and break-ups of every kind imaginible,,,but,,as for ME HERE,,,lol,,it does seem to be an epidemic of lies,,,,in THE WOMEN I PICK,,so I HAVE THE ISSUE,,not the women I pick....because really,,,,WE are in-charge of our minds
abilities to know their differences...as for me,,I WANT TO-HARD to OVER-LOOK what my inner self and mind clearly see's and knows..
Because their expressions of heart and passions, cloud my WANT-TO BELIEVE their NOT being truthful,,,,,,"TRUTHS"....lol
Maybe THIS all comes from getting OLDER,,,lol,,and feeling LESS a
desire through a woman's eyes and mind??

It's still your fault

I used to tell women that I was just like their ex. But you know how they like to argue.

So if one were to give it another go with an ex...can she still blame him for what he did before?

JK, I wouldn't do that, but just had to ask!