If your spouse should leave for someone else and later come to you back when heart broken by the man,will still take her back?

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Don't think i would , because he did it once there is a possibility of him doing it again ....

go with your heart , we can't make this decision for you ..

NOPE....should have consider that before they played around....sorry 'bout ya!

ditto

everyone deserves a second chance. just remember, fool me once/shame on you, fool me twice/shame on me. (don't fall for it after the second time)

I think it depends upon the relationship & the nature of the break up

if it was on friendly terms - mutually agreed upon (and perhaps she wasn't the only one "looking around" - which is often enough the case) - If u r on friendly terms & wanna give it a try - why not

just be aware that there is a pretty good chance that it won't last forever - those second time around with EX things seldom last long

tho - I can think if a few instances - one with one of my best friends, actaully, where it went well....as in 20 years well - about 5 or 6 years into it they separated - about 6-7 mos later got back together and have been together somewhere between 17-20 yrs

it gave them time to decide if they could live w/out each other...gues the answer was "no"

GOOD Valentine's Day storY!!!

I've never much liked the term love affair. Isn't it really a non-love affair? It's sort of a misnomer like Social Services. Shouldn't it really be called Anti-social services?


And no, I wouldn't take her back.

You broke up for a reason, the only thing that has changed is she does not have her other guy now. I played that second chance once before, the first break up was civil and we stayed friends...the second time was terrible! I would say do not do it but some people have to learn for them self...

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Thanks to all your response,but the problem is that she letft you as a virgin but when coming back after her heart break by the other guy,she was no longer a virgin...This is the girl that you swore to protect at all time and that was why you acepted her plea to you then not to disvirgin her untill shes ready.. Can you really take this???

SURE,,,
THEN,,,you can just wait ANOTHER 6 months for her to LEAVE YOU AGAIN...


Even God won't give YOU a second chance to get it right...When you DIE,,,,YOUR DEAD,,,

When SHE LEFT YA,,,,,SHE WOULD'VE BEEN DEAD TO ME....


Once a cheat,,ALWAYS a cheat...THAT HOLD'S VERY TRUE man..

Basically my rule, "If they pull something on you once, there's no reason why they wouldn't do it again."

So no, absolutely not.

"One a cheater, always a cheater." Is my firm belief.

I agree with her ^

I've seen proof over, and over in relationships when a person leaves for a reason, leaving the other broken and depressed, and then they come back with the, "Oh we'll make it work this time!" That it really doesn't.

Wow, I sound very bitter. XD;

But it's just a simple matter of logic, to me, at least.

Nope, they are an 'ex' for a reason...they stay that way.


Lunali, you have mail.

this is acctually happening to me right now. and no i didnt take her back. if she does it once whos to say she wont do it again

Had that happen forgave That gave her permossoion to do ir. Again which she did sgess some people arnt happy till there diapied hated to a kerse

If it was a mutual breakup before they screwed around, then no.

If it was an affair while still dating and then breaking up, Hel no! and he'd be lucky to get away without being castrated!!

ohhh really

yupp thats right , i completely agree with u