...via e-mail from somebody I haven't talked to in over 20 years.....

"Hi! Remember me? Just want you to know that I HATE you and I hope yr life is miserable!"

Isn't that GREAT!?

Aww how sweet. Ex lover? LOL

Not at all. She was just the ex-of an old friend. I barely even knew her really.

Well, you certainly left an impression on her. LOL

wow u telling our emails agian lol

wow, i hope you replied 'nope, sorry, don't remember you or that ugly dress you wore that time'

I guess so. I'm wondering what I did to her to leave such a lasting impression. I mean....is she harboring a resentment? I'm sure she spent a lot of time finding me just to give me her message......

Love makes us do crazy things sometimes. LOL

I actually kinda' admired it! I thought it was soooo funny. I still have no idea what I did though. I can barely even re-call her. I remember she was a serious b!otch though. That obviously hasn't changed.....

Needless to say....I didn't bother to reply.......

why not lol

Now, do you see why you get such messages? LOL

I would leave that situation right where it's been for the last 20 years, with the sender. If this person has had these feelings for 20 years towards you and you have no idea for what, then this person obviously has bigger issues at hand. I think she's trying to ruffle your feathers, I personally would not respond which is exactly what she wants whether it's a positive or negative response.

Whats her e-mail... I'll write her for you!

You've never changed your email in over 20 years, wow, @greyhair.com

WELL,,,at least SHE'S STILL TALKING TO YOU!!!!

I actually had that happen, but in an opposite fashion.

You know that kid who is butt of everyone's jokes and is kind of pathetic because she just wanted everyone to like her, so she would fall for anything...that was me in Jr. High.

I made friends with a particular new girl who looked like the female equivalent of Steve Urkel. Apparently, she was the type to point out other people's flaws so no one would make fun of her.

We hung out for a little while (sleepovers, etc.), then the few friends I did have stopped talking to me and started separating to be with her. I was very alone the last two years I was there and made fun of constantly by the girls I grew up with.

When I moved to a new school, I was suicidal and refused to go. I ended up having to go to therapy. I became a better person for it, instead of a suicidal tradgedy. However, I still had a hard time with resentment.

When I was 22 I got a letter from one of the girls in that group about how she missed all the 'good' times she had with me...I don't know what she had been smoking.

I know it was petty, but I sent her a scorcher that I would prefer to be a memory to her, because for all intents and purposes, that girl is dead.

Five years later, we shared a few e-mails, a few apologies, and I grew up a little. We still chat occasionally.

I think it's a mutual match