Topic: what am i doing wrong ?
Dominick67's photo
Sun 05/15/11 05:43 AM
i have been on for a while and i aint getting anywere what am i doing wrong or am i just but ugly !!!!!

fireflysgirl's photo
Sun 05/15/11 07:00 AM
I don't think it has anything to do with your looks, these things just take time. Try posting in the forums and get to know people! Good luck flowerforyou




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Sun 05/15/11 11:19 AM
Maybe you just need to contact some women in your area and just say Hi.Some women don't like to make the first move.

Cinderella75's photo
Mon 05/16/11 02:43 PM
Edited by Cinderella75 on Mon 05/16/11 02:43 PM
I dunno.. but I am gonna be honest here. I looked at your profile, and while I am not suggesting that you are any of those things, looking at your profile pictures I get the impression of drinker and couch potato. Maybe you should take those pics down. Just trying to help ya out. And yes, contact the ladies you are interested in. I personally never really initiate contact with anyone on this site. I don't feel that I need to. Good Luck.

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Wed 05/18/11 07:49 PM
:smile: what is long?? perhaps you are impatient, unfortunately people have strange expections, most guys want anelina joli girls brad pitt, sadly both are cardbord cutoutsglasses

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Thu 05/19/11 06:40 AM
welcome and best wishes...like the ink.drinker flowers

soufiehere's photo
Thu 05/19/11 09:01 AM

i have been on for a while and i
aint getting anywere what am i doing
wrong or am i just but ugly !!!!!

We could explore what you have been 'on'.

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Thu 05/19/11 09:14 AM

i have been on for a while and i aint getting anywere what am i doing wrong or am i just but ugly !!!!!


I think you should be IN the car to get anywhere. :)

RKISIT's photo
Thu 05/19/11 11:06 AM

i have been on for a while and i aint getting anywere what am i doing wrong or am i just but ugly !!!!!
love give to me your leather,take from me my lacelove

Totage's photo
Thu 05/19/11 11:14 AM


i have been on for a while and i aint getting anywere what am i doing wrong or am i just but ugly !!!!!


I think you should be IN the car to get anywhere. :)


I'm thinking you're right. You get IN not ON a car.

Dominick67's photo
Tue 06/21/11 07:22 AM
Edited by Dominick67 on Tue 06/21/11 07:25 AM

I dunno.. but I am gonna be honest here. I looked at your profile, and while I am not suggesting that you are any of those things, looking at your profile pictures I get the impression of drinker and couch potato. Maybe you should take those pics down. Just trying to help ya out. And yes, contact the ladies you are interested in. I personally never really initiate contact with anyone on this site. I don't feel that I need to. Good Luck.










thanks for the heads up cinders ...i aint a couch potato and i dont drink that much ....i just dont get a lot of time to relax and get out with my job most days i work 16 hour shifts so when i do get time off i try and cramm as much in as i can and having to buy another crosser out here and all the gear took time and a lot of money ...but it was worth it again thanks to all who posted

Lunali's photo
Wed 06/22/11 02:51 PM
Personally, I'd get that last picture rotated correctly, and I think it's overall a pretty good profile, you just need to wait, take your time, post on the forums, and just have fun.

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Wed 06/22/11 09:23 PM
Edited by iam4u on Wed 06/22/11 09:25 PM
OK man,,this is how the Net works,,,YOU have to be seen and red by MANY,,just to have ONE except an email from you,,THEY have to feel they know a little about you?
So that means you need to start posting or replying on here in the forums..because this Net is not just a place to post a pic or two of yourself and write out your nice,,,,,,and expect ten women to fall in love with you or THAT..
WE our a body of togetherness in the sense that we have all seen each other on here,,read what the other have said in their posts and we learn their minds and hearts through all that..
I mean SURE,,IF YOU looked like Keno Reeves or Brad Pitt,,,MAYBE
But US more common looking folks have to relay on more WHO WE ARE AS A PERSON,,than what we LOOK LIKE AS A PERSON...tofind our FIT.
You need to find YOUR FIT,,,are you Funny?
Ar you SMART,,Are you GREAT at any One thing or MANY?
DO YOU HAVE A GIFT OF ANY KIND THAT MAKES YOU STAND OUT FROM OTHERS AROUND YOU?
IF so,,,USE THAT! And make your name and face on here,,someone who others feel they know....
It takes much time to be seen on here,,even posting two and three times a week?
Many people work different shifts,,so 1st, ND and 3rd TIMES OF THE DAY,,matter for some or all to see you here?
I you REALLY want THIS TO WORK,,,YOU HAVE TO WORK AT IT!

OK,,theres my insight of five years on here,,I hope it helps,,because it was a hell of a lot of typing,,,lol
have fun,be you , be real,,and see how far your go,,,good luck here

Dominick67's photo
Thu 06/23/11 01:05 AM

OK man,,this is how the Net works,,,YOU have to be seen and red by MANY,,just to have ONE except an email from you,,THEY have to feel they know a little about you?
So that means you need to start posting or replying on here in the forums..because this Net is not just a place to post a pic or two of yourself and write out your nice,,,,,,and expect ten women to fall in love with you or THAT..
WE our a body of togetherness in the sense that we have all seen each other on here,,read what the other have said in their posts and we learn their minds and hearts through all that..
I mean SURE,,IF YOU looked like Keno Reeves or Brad Pitt,,,MAYBE
But US more common looking folks have to relay on more WHO WE ARE AS A PERSON,,than what we LOOK LIKE AS A PERSON...tofind our FIT.
You need to find YOUR FIT,,,are you Funny?
Ar you SMART,,Are you GREAT at any One thing or MANY?
DO YOU HAVE A GIFT OF ANY KIND THAT MAKES YOU STAND OUT FROM OTHERS AROUND YOU?
IF so,,,USE THAT! And make your name and face on here,,someone who others feel they know....
It takes much time to be seen on here,,even posting two and three times a week?
Many people work different shifts,,so 1st, ND and 3rd TIMES OF THE DAY,,matter for some or all to see you here?
I you REALLY want THIS TO WORK,,,YOU HAVE TO WORK AT IT!

OK,,theres my insight of five years on here,,I hope it helps,,because it was a hell of a lot of typing,,,lol
have fun,be you , be real,,and see how far your go,,,good luck here

Cheers boss will give it a go i have only just noticed the community side of this site and as for what i can and cant do .....im good at my job thats why im in latvia working and not in the uk ..i got head hunted to come out here ...i can put a pc800 in places that would make most peopls s**t them selvs lol and the friend and people i know in the uk think im a right nutter cuz i will do anything for a laugh even if i put myself in danger ....i have a no fear attitude ...dont know if thats a good or bad thing but hey im still alive and kickin so im happy ...

netuserlla's photo
Fri 07/01/11 04:05 PM
Just hang in there. We all know that patience is a virtue.

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Sat 07/02/11 06:27 AM
You're profile is lookin a little plain.