Yep buddy, if it hasn't happened by now, or not gonna happen, what's the use???????? Just not for me, as bad as i want it, just not for me. Love hurts too bad, too many games, too many lies, too many cheaters... so i feel i should just go out and be a 'get around girl', might as well...everyone else is doing it, just don't want to feel anything.

Don't give up! that's like giving up on yourself! :o

There is so much going inside and outside for you. Make sure you value all your qualitys :)

i hate standing still for seem like years!!! All i have is family, i mean i'm suppose to have God too, but ughh this is so frustrating having to just SIT IN THE SAME POSITION seems like forever. I'm going to school to better myself, so maybe that will keep me busy in the future. But right now, my life is going nowhere and FAST.
ppl say oh u don't need a man to be happy and so forth, it is nice to have that companionship by ur side and do things together as a family. just being honest.

don't give up yet, your not alone..
need more patient, it will come in a perfect time..

well heck, i'll be an old lady by then. lol but i guess if u say so!!! tired of sitn around waitn.

Ahh yes, but is giving up going to make the situation any better or get you any closer to happiness?

hey, mzcat, do what works for you. giving up never worked for me but do what works for you.

Following the herd will bring you to water.
But it never guarantees you a drink.

YOU are not OLD(Hell I got a few years on you). There are plenty of fish in the sea (like the saying goes) You haven't been here long, give it a chance, look for someone who interests you and message them, at the most your out a few minutes and a couple of words. Just relax and don;t be so impatient.

Been here a long time...just not expecting anything oh well

<------ The key to true happiness is to enjoy everyday. Have plenty of good friends, and to love all the good people in your life. Whistle, sing, and dance everyday, <------ just like this guy!

I don't know how to respond to giving up.

I don't give up on myself, others or what I want. What I want is more important than not finding it.

Advice: raise your standards and review what you really want.

GOOD POINT

OH NO, I DON'T MEAN ON THIS WEBSITE, I MEANT IN GENERAL PERIOD LOL.

don't have friends, can't trust ppl, too wishy washy...but i'll try to keep myself busy

i see giving up as impatient. so i will not advice such to any friend because i have never give up.

wow if u have been thru what i've been thru over and over 20x or more, then it not work, ya get tired after while. just saying

20x or more? hey, one or two or even a few could be a matter of bad luck and finding all the wrong guys but 20x or more and i'd look into my own behaviors, attitudes and habits. maybe you should give it up until you can look within. i mean really look. just saying too.

BUT.............. But .................. Holly?
I thought we had something special?

You know I love ya girl and I'm right there with ya in the cougar cave!!

i mean, i was being sarcastic about how many times, but it's been a lot. it's like every one i run into, are all on games. but as far as attitude, yea i have one, because if u doing wrong, U DOING WRONG and i'ma call u out on it. i will tell a guy, that's rude for u to have me over, but u out on the porch hangn and smoking and drinkn wit ur buds. basically like i'm null and void. and sitn up texting back and forth with ppl REALLY.................yea i'ma have an attitude about that. then they get mad if i leave..........WOW!!!

but i said all this, cause guys play too many head games, think they can get one over on a girl. but yea, maybe i should just spend some time BY MYSELF, cause i don't deserve that.