I wish i have a loving husband.

loving, husband,,??,,how about just trying to find a loving guy who might make a lovable hubby,,lol,,

You got to tone it down on the marriage hungry thing. Like anything it will come in time but only at its pace and not yours. Besides, most men, at least most REAL men don't want to jump into marriage. Being in a rush is like fighting a river current and the harder you struggle the faster you tire out and the easier it is for the current to carry you further down stream. Better to pace yourself and eventually you will find what you are looking for.

In all honesty a lot of working and functional relationships are with people who are not married.

Hmmm ... maybe you should go for a single guy and leave the husbands alone.

Seriously, though, I agree with pdxdad and (gasp!) AndyBgood; slow down a little, cultivate some friendships and see where it goes from there. If you're meant to be with someone, it'll happen. But trying so hard might chase guys away. And a marriage license does not guarantee a loving relationship - I can tell you from experience.

Good luck.

ooh, is this the wish thread


I wish Publishers Clearing House would hurry up and knock on my door already,,,

In that case, may I make a wish too? I wish I could win the lottery ... I'm not greedy. Just enough to pay my debts and buy a small place of my own.

Why such the urgency to get married? Relax and enjoy life a little. It'll come soon enough.

i wish i have a loving wife

Awww, Ese ... if I get to visit you TX Minglers, I'm gonna give you the biggest hug you've ever had in your life.

Be careful what you wish for, guys


Nice lady... meet ese. Ese meet Nicelady. Now you two are on your own

*note: this has nothing to do with Niceladyrealy, just on axl's matchmaking skills