you are over reacting because you read a random profile.

if you had established a relationship that would be different.


there seems to be different worlds. those who use drugs or have used drugs and those who have not.

You can not get angry at them for not understanding, those of us who are not or have never been junkies will never understand. Because we have to battle through life, and all the pains without a crutch.

There is no sympathy for those who say "I am in recovery". they will always relapse and the sober people will always have to pick them up and have their hearts broken.



I will always run away from a junkie so my world is not ruined, my heart not broken again. some things are not forgiven EVER.

Junkies choose their path..and have no right and can not ever relocate blame.

I second that.

First of all, im not a junkie! Got that? Second, you seem like a bitter and angry woman, that I should pay no attenion to, but hopefully I can teach you something here. I have to say that you are SOOOO WRONG, and totally ignorant for saying"There is no sympathy for those who say,"im in recovery", they will always relapse, and the sober people will have to pick them up and have their hearts broken".SAY WHAT??

HOW DARE YOU!

That is the most ignorant thing ive heard in a long time."I" am not, or was not ever trying to relocate blame! "I" will never relapse, this is for sure! "I" did not ever, and still do not "ruin peoples lives and break their hearts!"I" am not, and never was a junkie(thank you)! "I" dont ruin peoples worlds, and never did! "I" have never had to be picked up by sober people! And "YOU" say you can never forgive, EVER. You say you wanna run from "junkies" well sister, when you do, you need to run straight for God!And if the king of all kings, who created all that is, can forgive, than who are you to say "some things are not forgiven EVER?". "I" never asked for yours or anyone elses forgiveness, ever except God, when I was saved!And he doesnt care about then, he cares about now. "I" never sinned to support my habit anyways.And "I" forgive you, for the ignorance you have written here, because you are my sister in God, and therefore "I" love you.

May you find God, and may he bless you, and warm your cold heart. "I" will pray for you sister!



The voice of reason speaks, Thank you Winterblue! I think you handled it a bit more calmly than I did, but I did the best I could.

There are A--holes where ever you go.

Sometimes you just have to hand them a roll of T.P. and let them go on their way.

we luv ya babe

luv2roknroll*taking a deep breath*

And thats all that matters!

Time to get out the "big stick" ???????

I just read a really disturbing profile.

This man said that if you have EVER used drugs in your lifetime, DONT MAIL ME.

I was shocked to read this!

If you read my profile, I am very honest, and open,(like always)about the fact that I smoked meth, for a long time.In fact, I had no one, and no programs, so the Minglers were my only support system, and of course they were always there for me, cheering me on in my journey.

I quit cold turkey, just one day said "ive had enough of this", and stopped. I have been clean now for 4 years, and im never going back to that lifestyle again.

PEOPLE DO CHANGE! I quit, I found God, I am a completely different, and reborn person.Ive even been rebabtised! But that man will never know the kind of person that I am now.And I like who I am now, ive grown tremendously!

I remember when I quit, thinking that it was wonderful, that I would be able to date a whole different group of men now. The ones who are clean, and dont use drugs. But this man will never know me, and who ive become...and it makes me feel dirty and sad.

Am I over-reacting, just because of my past??? Whats your take on this??

we luv ya babe

Come into MY house, and talk to me like that!!!

I dont think so!

Here is how I would think of it. Maybe it will help you.

I would consider that he has a reason for being so vehement about no drugs or anything drug related in his life. Maybe he grew up with a mom who died of it or something painful like that.

It really isn't personal to us, it is personal to him.

Does that help you?

I prefer that they put as much information about their hang ups on their profile, it saves from being broadsided later.