Well, you know I love you kiddo, but since we're on the subject.

It's not the drugs that bug me, it's that your toes are curved. I've been meaning say something to you about that. You see if your toes were nice and straight like mine it would make it much easier for me to accept you. I don't know how people can be friends with others if they have different types of toes. This seems completely unreasonable to me. I'm even thinking that it may have been the former drug use that caused your toes to curve. If you could show me evidence that your toes have always been curved and it was not from the use of drugs I will feel so much better.

Oh and about the guy who doesn't want those who have used drugs to contact him, well. I heard he passes nasty gas and snores. It's true! I didn't want to bring it up but I feel that I have been pushed to my limit on this issue and I can no longer keep silent. Well I guess neither can he (get it gas, silent).

So I'm changing my profile also. Anyone who passes nasty gas in my direction please do not email me. I do understand that there is an occasional drift factor that may apply but I'd rather play it safe and say all nasty gas passers.

love you

I wish they had an applause smiley here!! I would hit it like 20 times. Your awesome! Thank you brother!

you are over reacting because you read a random profile.

if you had established a relationship that would be different.


there seems to be different worlds. those who use drugs or have used drugs and those who have not.

You can not get angry at them for not understanding, those of us who are not or have never been junkies will never understand. Because we have to battle through life, and all the pains without a crutch.

There is no sympathy for those who say "I am in recovery". they will always relapse and the sober people will always have to pick them up and have their hearts broken.



I will always run away from a junkie so my world is not ruined, my heart not broken again. some things are not forgiven EVER.

Junkies choose their path..and have no right and can not ever relocate blame.

I just read a really disturbing profile.

This man said that if you have EVER used drugs in your lifetime, DONT MAIL ME.

I was shocked to read this!

If you read my profile, I am very honest, and open,(like always)about the fact that I smoked meth, for a long time.In fact, I had no one, and no programs, so the Minglers were my only support system, and of course they were always there for me, cheering me on in my journey.

I quit cold turkey, just one day said "ive had enough of this", and stopped. I have been clean now for 4 years, and im never going back to that lifestyle again.

PEOPLE DO CHANGE! I quit, I found God, I am a completely different, and reborn person.Ive even been rebabtised! But that man will never know the kind of person that I am now.And I like who I am now, ive grown tremendously!

I remember when I quit, thinking that it was wonderful, that I would be able to date a whole different group of men now. The ones who are clean, and dont use drugs. But this man will never know me, and who ive become...and it makes me feel dirty and sad.

Am I over-reacting, just because of my past??? Whats your take on this??

I don't even know where to start here without being uncivil......

Are you saying that everybody who's used drugs is a junkie???? Maybe you grew up in a cave or something because the majority of the people I know at least smoked marijuana once in their life. Are they a junky? My Dad's even told me straight out that he smoked in the past (as well as took LSD). He's FAR from a junky. He spent a good part of his adult life even carrying a badge! An Uncle from the other side of the family tells me stories about his past 'drug use' in his high school and college days. Those days are long gone and now has a VERY lucrative business. At one time even had top security access for the government somewhere in the desert (I won't tell more, unless you want me to shoot you). Another close, younger relative used to do drugs and has now been a cop for around the last 15 years. None of these people touch drugs anymore. I could go on and on and on and on and on...... Sure, they smoked weed. Maybe a few hits of acid here and there, possibly snorted a little heroin, but, they're not junkies. That's like calling somebody who used to 'drink till they dropped' in college an alcoholic. Then there's people like Roberta (luv2roknroll), who really WAS a junky. She smoked meth for 30 years. Then one day said "F**k this" and quit. She's been sober for close to 4 years now (largely in part to her Mingle family here, but she does enough of that promotion for herself). She's NOT going back to that crap! That's all I'll say there..... I am also an addict. In my case alcohol. In the 80's-mid/late 90's I did PLENTY of drugs. Weed, heroin, coke, crack, opium, LSD, PCP, you name it, I was doing it. During that time my self motto was "Eat this, drink this, smoke this, lie down". If somebody put it in front of me, I took it! Half of the time I had no idea what is was (still don't)! If it was in a bowl, I smoked it. If it was a pill, just swallow it. I didn't ask questions. All of the drugs though, I was able to quit. No problem. I got a gf who 'frowned upon' that sort of thing and I just quit. I started drinking hard in high school (late 80's). Every night after school a few of my friends and I would get a couple cases or a couple of 5ths and drink up (along with a nice poke'a dope and/or the flavor of the day). I was still under 21 while in college, so alcohol was sometimes hit or miss, but weed was RAMPANT! The woes of graduating high school at 17 and getting your first degree at 20. Anyway, back to alcohol. That's been my adversary for almost 20 years. For half of that time I was drinking half a case++++ of beer a day every day. Then one day I though to myself......WTF? I'm spending HOW much on beer a week? And my business is slacking cause I'm buzzed? This gotta stop. So I did. I realized I was an alcoholic and knew what I had to do. I was sober for 2 years. Then I screwed up..... I met a chick online who's an alcoholic (I didn't know that at the time). Good story, but left for another thread, she moved in the day I met her in person. Well.....I ended up getting drunk that first night and that's all she wrote...... Off the wagon I was.... Her poison was usually vodka straight.... half a 1/5 per day and she was only around 130 lb....... A little after a year later I thought to myself "WOAH!". I'm going back down this path again..... So I quit again and tried urging her to do the same. She promised she would.....She didn't... I still stayed sober. She's gone now.......

Pucker up baby, here's a wet one!

Well,,Roberta,,Personally IF I was YOU,,,I would NEVER hold it against HIM.......MAYBE SHAKE IT IN FRONT OF HIM,,,MAYBE EVEN LET HIM SEE YOU HOLD IT AGAINST SOME OTHER DUDE,,,BUT NEVER SHOULD YOU HOLD "IT" AGAINST HIM.....
YOU have come a long way BABY,,and for THAT you should be proud,,and this dude is simply SPENT,,,gone,,ate-up with what ONE chick and him went through,,so NOW he hates all women who ever smoked a joint or tried a line.....
I have told many ladies that I didn't care WHAT THEIR PASTS WERE, EVEN if they had been a hooker,,,just as long as their life NOW,,is with their TRUTH to me......I could look over anything that one was,,as long as I was confident their were NOW,,,good with who they are,,and talked their truth not acted it....

I have had a very full life when I was young,,of sex, drugs and more sex,,,lol..and drinking much every weekend to party and have some sex...all the woman had to be was NOT INTO ME,,so I knew she wasn't an easy woman to sleep around,,,and I was INTERESTED THEN,,in her......lol,,,yes a male slauuuuuuuught,,,,,not proud of it,,but IT WAS ME THEN.....I to have become born-again about four years ago, here through this Net and a lady friend here....
I have seen many a profiles that have said they didn't want MANY THINGS in another person or THEY DIDN'T WANT TO KNOW THEM...
I just over-look their shallow selves and went on..

I wouldn't let this dude make YOU think anything about YOU,,,as HE HAS MUCH to find WITHIN HIM....and I think YOUR A BEAUTIFUL PERSON,,and a BEAUTIFUL LADY,even with one boob,,YOU ARE SEXY AS ALL GET OUT!!!!
I mean DAMN IT GIRL,,IF you had NO BOOBS,,I'd still love ya and date ya,,,and MATE YA,,,, ,,,,
does THAT make me seem CHEAP??? Well IF it does,,then,,HEY,,IM'REAL ABOUT ME BEING CHEAP....

I KNOW,,,YOU would STILL BE OPEN TO ME,,,IF I was missing any part of me,,because of WHO YOU ARE!!!
And THAT,,makes me know YOU,,Love YOU,,and call you my FRIEND!!

As my not the best Christian side of me would simply say here to this dude,,,,,fukkkkkkk HIM,,,,,

IF you ever need a real man who won't be-little you or your past,,I'm FREE,,,,and HERE,,,,,,so,,,THERE!

... but my poor ole' Ma sure would be, if she were to see me in this condition.

We often make mistakes probably out of ignorance.It really can be an insult to remind others of their bad past when they are busy tying to erase that

I am feeling like being NASTY today!

So who wants me to contribute to their delinquency?

I just read a really disturbing profile.

This man said that if you have EVER used drugs in your lifetime, DONT MAIL ME.

I was shocked to read this!

If you read my profile, I am very honest, and open,(like always)about the fact that I smoked meth, for a long time.In fact, I had no one, and no programs, so the Minglers were my only support system, and of course they were always there for me, cheering me on in my journey.

I quit cold turkey, just one day said "ive had enough of this", and stopped. I have been clean now for 4 years, and im never going back to that lifestyle again.

PEOPLE DO CHANGE! I quit, I found God, I am a completely different, and reborn person.Ive even been rebabtised! But that man will never know the kind of person that I am now.And I like who I am now, ive grown tremendously!

I remember when I quit, thinking that it was wonderful, that I would be able to date a whole different group of men now. The ones who are clean, and dont use drugs. But this man will never know me, and who ive become...and it makes me feel dirty and sad.

Am I over-reacting, just because of my past??? Whats your take on this??

You beat meth cold turkey, and have been clean for four years.
You beat breast cancer, shave your head to give your hair to charity. You found God and He's in your life now.
THIS SAYS AN AWEFUL (mispelled for a reason - awesome)LOT ABOUT YOUR CHARACTOR.
You're beautiful, blessed and to be admired. It's not who you were, it's who you are!

Ron

As long as you dont call me a "junkie"...

your on babe!

Sex Junkie just ruins the moment. I promise I won't!

Now calling you Beastly, is that acceptable?

Oh tell me I can still talk dirty dirty now!

Sex Junkie just ruins the moment. I promise I won't!

Now calling you Beastly, is that acceptable?

Oh tell me I can still talk dirty dirty now!