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Topic: First cut
humuh's photo
Fri 09/23/11 11:04 PM
I m going out this woman in my life,we are sinking deep in our relationship and have plans to settle down.What bugs me is this,she is not a virgin.They say "first cut is the deepest",will she ever forget the person she lost her virginity to?

muziclvr's photo
Fri 09/23/11 11:05 PM
Make her forget ...my friend!!

no photo
Fri 09/23/11 11:07 PM
no, she will never forget her first, but you could make it so she doesn't remember as often

catchme_ifucan's photo
Sat 09/24/11 12:08 AM
Your 40 yrs old! it's not like your high school kids.

You can't expect women to stay virgins forever.

I'm sure you've lived life, so shall she.
This isn't the dark ages.

Just enjoy life & share your love

ujGearhead's photo
Sat 09/24/11 12:09 AM
You're 40 and have concerns because she's not a virgin? I'm 38 and I'd be concerned if anybody I dated still IS!

joy4gud's photo
Sat 09/24/11 12:15 AM

I m going out this woman in my life,we are sinking deep in our relationship and have plans to settle down.What bugs me is this,she is not a virgin.They say "first cut is the deepest",will she ever forget the person she lost her virginity to?

laugh
are you a virgin, or will you ever forget your first experance?

joy4gud's photo
Sat 09/24/11 12:17 AM

I m going out this woman in my life,we are sinking deep in our relationship and have plans to settle down.What bugs me is this,she is not a virgin.They say "first cut is the deepest",will she ever forget the person she lost her virginity to?

laugh
are you a virgin, or will you ever forget your first experance?

msharmony's photo
Sat 09/24/11 02:19 AM

I m going out this woman in my life,we are sinking deep in our relationship and have plans to settle down.What bugs me is this,she is not a virgin.They say "first cut is the deepest",will she ever forget the person she lost her virginity to?



Is this woman out of high school? why would it be troublesome that she is not a virgin if she is in your own age range?

Have you forgotten who you lost your virginity to? I doubt most people forget, but it doesnt mean that they obsess over it or let it run the rest of their life.

Often, that first one, broke their heart the deepest,,,and the best we can do is make new memories for each time we start a new relationship, there is no guarantee of a mind flush for our partner just because we come into their life

ybcat1's photo
Sat 09/24/11 03:21 AM

Make her forget ...my friend!!


OOOh, I like that answer. This is a man with confidence. :thumbsup:

s1owhand's photo
Sat 09/24/11 03:49 AM
The true test is not if she has had one other lover. The true test
is when she has had many many lovers and would be lovers and still
she cannot resist and only has eyes for you. She will remember you
forever and in a way which no other suitor can ever match.

bigsmile

soufiehere's photo
Sat 09/24/11 03:54 AM
No.
She will never forget.
But she probabaly thinks less
about it than you do.

joy4gud's photo
Sat 09/24/11 04:26 AM

No.
She will never forget.
But she probabaly thinks less
about it than you do.

:thumbsup:

humuh's photo
Sat 09/24/11 04:35 AM


I m going out this woman in my life,we are sinking deep in our relationship and have plans to settle down.What bugs me is this,she is not a virgin.They say "first cut is the deepest",will she ever forget the person she lost her virginity to?

laugh
are you a virgin, or will you ever forget your first experance?
I m not virgin but you see the situation with woman can be a bit tricky in this respect-women takes a bit longer to commit themselves in a relationship also equally do not let go easily.So with sensitive issues like that i am not sure how it goes about

s1owhand's photo
Sat 09/24/11 04:43 AM
Virginity is overrated

laugh

krupa's photo
Sat 09/24/11 05:50 AM
First off...who is "They"?

Secondly...virginity is NOT a good thing.

Getting a virgin is like getting a puppy....they don't know they are doing. You gotta tell them the same thing over and over and swat em with a rolled up news paper when they pee on the floor. Virgins have no point of reference so they got no idea how to please thier partner. Virgins make for the lamest, least exciting sex possible.

I prefer a woman who knows hat they are doing and truly enjoys sex instead of fumbling around until someone accidentally orgasms.

navygirl's photo
Sat 09/24/11 07:52 AM

I m going out this woman in my life,we are sinking deep in our relationship and have plans to settle down.What bugs me is this,she is not a virgin.They say "first cut is the deepest",will she ever forget the person she lost her virginity to?


Of course she will forget the person she lost her viriginity to as when you become an adult; these things are trivial. It would be differnt if she was still a teenager as that is a big deal at such a young age.

Sandelwood4's photo
Sat 09/24/11 09:54 AM
Is this a cultural or personal concern?

I don't think it's a problem but if it bothers you a lot it may become a problem in your relationship down the line.

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 09/24/11 10:00 AM
The first isn't near as important as the last.:wink:

msharmony's photo
Sat 09/24/11 12:02 PM

The first isn't near as important as the last.:wink:



Good answer. I wish they had sex ed for adults, seriously.

I have to keep pointing out my philosophy that sex is not some stale, stagnant, innate ability. A sexual partner is good because they know how to COMMUNICATE and PAY ATTENTION. They are also good because each new partner is taken as a NEW experience, with a NEW body to explore and get to know. A person may be a great lover their very first time if they know how to do these things and EVERY experience after with whatever partner will be just as exciting,


SO, I think ,physically, anyone can be a great lover, whether its their first time or their 100th. However, I think its less likely for someone on their 100th experience will have as much 'excitment' or 'anticipation' about it as the one who is just on their first or eigth time around.

At the end of the day, dont WORRY about it,, TALK about it(with your partner). Youd be amazed how well it works....

no photo
Sat 09/24/11 12:08 PM
Meh... The vast majority of women I know (on any level) say that the first time sucked anyway.

What's important is that you treat every time you're with her like the first... (Except for the 2 minute part :) )

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