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| Topic: Location Location..... would you move for a relationship? | |
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Oh! I get it. You are "ujGearhead". I bet you never give the above advice when you have a beautiful girlfriend to her He does not describe me as beautiful. He says im "not bad", and thats the best hes gonna give me. 
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Hills? In Pittsburgh? NAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH. Don't know why ANYBODY would think that....Unless......they hear places like Scenery Hill, Squirrel Hill, Pleasant Hills, Blaine Hill, Penn Hills, the Hill District, South Hills, Jefferson Hills...... Nope. Not ONE hill here. :laughing smiley: :rolling laughing smiley: Haha! Can you imagine my surprise when I went once to a convention in PB, and took a hotel outside of town, and HAD PACKED MY BICYCLE to use it coz the convention was only about seven miles away from the hotel. The bicycle stayed in the box that whole time, damit. I took the bus every day!! I was the laughing stock of my friends and fellow conventioneers there. Awwww, C'mon now. A little exercise is good for ya. You just have to know how to change gears.  Normally. I agree. But was 55 then, 70 lbs overweight, a heart patient, having had coronary artery dilatitative surgery. I am just saying. I don't think my excuses are good, or adequate, but they are better than nothing. You know, better than leaving your objection unanswered, and just sitting here, stewing in my potty full of shame. ---- Sorry!!! I did not mean to make this sound negative or bitter, much less accusative. It just came out this way. You know, people have moods, and I have them too. About 80 an hour. I apologize. I did not mean to be offensive. One of my faults is that I rile myself into things, into moods, by my own words. My own words make my moods more accented and to last longer. It makes me into a good writer, but a terrible person for getting along with. I am not self-depracating myself. It's true. Just think. If you woulda went to more conventions here you mighta been 70 lbs underweight and had the heart of a 20 y/o. Offensive?  The only thing you offended was hills and I don't think they really mind. 
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..I was the last of 13 girls. Yeah I said ALL GIRLS! Im the baby. I am the second of 12. Have not met them all either :-( |
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..I was the last of 13 girls. Yeah I said ALL GIRLS! Im the baby. I am the second of 12. Have not met them all either :-( Having relatives you dont even know. |
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Awwww, C'mon now. A little exercise is good for ya. You just have to know how to change gears. Oh! I get it. You are "ujGearhead". I bet you never give the above advice when you have a beautiful girlfriend to her. you know how it is when you have a new girlfriend and you want to so badly impress her. It's like not changing gears, ever, on your bicycle, and therefore you wind up either having to pedal very hard, or else spinning out like crazy. This was metaphorical. I honestly admit, I don't know what the meaning of it is, if somebody nailed me to having to explain the metaphor, but it sure does sound good, don't it. Actually, no. I don't know how it is (first hand, anyway) about impressing a new girlfriend. I never try to impress anybody! I know all about not changing gears. My derailer's been busted for decades and I only have 21st gear. Shhhh.....You shouldn't say that you don't know what the meaning is. You're supposed to make it sound all philosophical and have them figure it out while letting 'em think you're some sort of genius. |
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Oh! I get it. You are "ujGearhead". I bet you never give the above advice when you have a beautiful girlfriend to her He does not describe me as beautiful. He says im "not bad", and thats the best hes gonna give me. Potato, potahto....tomato, tomahto..... 
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Oh! I get it. You are "ujGearhead". I bet you never give the above advice when you have a beautiful girlfriend to her He does not describe me as beautiful. He says im "not bad", and thats the best hes gonna give me. Potato, potahto....tomato, tomahto..... but not im mine homeboy! |
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Edited by
wux
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Fri 11/18/11 07:12 PM
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Oh! I get it. You are "ujGearhead". I bet you never give the above advice when you have a beautiful girlfriend to her He does not describe me as beautiful. He says im "not bad", and thats the best hes gonna give me. Potato, potahto....tomato, tomahto..... Throw her a bone, man. if it kills you to call her beautiful, then at least call her... I don't know... Tasty. Rampant. Obliferotineous. Dortomelaranian. Plart. (I am applying your advice how to sound philosophical and smart. I think it's working.) She needs it. She is not a guy (I am sure you hadn't expected that) so maybe you could give her... a... box of chocolates? Or a new pillow. Or a movie with Paldrow. Or new batteries for her d-d-d-d-DVD player. |
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only if he's cute
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Oh! I get it. You are "ujGearhead". I bet you never give the above advice when you have a beautiful girlfriend to her He does not describe me as beautiful. He says im "not bad", and thats the best hes gonna give me. Potato, potahto....tomato, tomahto..... Throw her a bone, man. if it kills you to call her beautiful, then at least call her... I don't know... Tasty. Rampant. Obliferotineous. Dortomelaranian. Plart. (I am applying your advice how to sound philosophical and smart. I think it's working.) She needs it. She is not a guy (I am sure you hadn't expected that) so maybe you could give her... a... box of chocolates? Or a new pillow. Or a movie with Paldrow. Or new batteries for her d-d-d-d-DVD player. Plart? Ummmmmm....... I'm not exactly sure that's better..... I'm not sure she's talking to me now, so maybe I should go with the new batteries........ |
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I'd move anyplace, in a heartbeat, if there was any way to manage it. But not for a relationship. Because I know that, five minutes after I get there, I'm gonna start hearing "I NEED A BAY-BEE!" Sorry, I can't help with that one. Then stop falling for women who want Bay-bees. There aren't any who don't....!! Wow I know a lot of women who don't want a kid. It seems like you could just ask. |
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I agree but Ive been taught that relationships are 50/50...meaning if we had feelings about moving in together in my/her home, then we would be ok with it. If she move here with me, I'm good and I would do the same for her! But we have different opinions, so Im just telling y'all about how I see it, thats all Superhero88 Relationships are usually never 50/50. A 50/50 relationship would be a total battleground unless the couple agreed on everything. Compromise is the name of the game. You are a babe in the woods.  I think both should give 100 % to the relationship, though this rarely happens but when one falters the other is willing to go the extra mile to help hold it together ... it's a partnership, it's an adventure, it can be work, it can be a fairy tale, It's bliss, it's hurt, and it's everything in between.... never lose hope. I know i haven't .... might be the hopeless romantic in me, but failed relationship, after failed relationship are just stepping stones to finding the woman i desire. the one i can wake up to in the morning and know that everything will be alright..... just my perspective |
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If he asks, my house goes up for rent...
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I'd move anyplace, in a heartbeat, if there was any way to manage it. But not for a relationship. Because I know that, five minutes after I get there, I'm gonna start hearing "I NEED A BAY-BEE!" Sorry, I can't help with that one. Then stop falling for women who want Bay-bees. There aren't any who don't....!! Wow I know a lot of women who don't want a kid. It seems like you could just ask. It's one of the first things that comes up. They always lie and say they don't want kids. Three months later, it's mandatory that they have to have one. Every freaking time but one. |
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If he asks, my house goes up for rent... I used to feel that way too I don't have a house actually
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I'd move anyplace, in a heartbeat, if there was any way to manage it. But not for a relationship. Because I know that, five minutes after I get there, I'm gonna start hearing "I NEED A BAY-BEE!" Sorry, I can't help with that one. Then stop falling for women who want Bay-bees. There aren't any who don't....!! Wow I know a lot of women who don't want a kid. It seems like you could just ask. It's one of the first things that comes up. They always lie and say they don't want kids. Three months later, it's mandatory that they have to have one. Every freaking time but one. Geez...had my tubes tied at 25 with no kids. We don't ALL want them. |
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Edited by
mssilverfox
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Fri 12/23/11 07:34 PM
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Since I'm retired and my kids are spread out (one in PA, one in Co. and 2 here, 2 gsons here but grown and a gdaughter in DC) I would move in a minute.. I don't care to move to Florida but would love to go back out west where the weather is milder in the winter...
And I hate driving in Pittsburg...its a crazy place! lol |
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Let's say my house would be rent with option. Option for me to come back, lol.
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I'd move anyplace, in a heartbeat, if there was any way to manage it. But not for a relationship. Because I know that, five minutes after I get there, I'm gonna start hearing "I NEED A BAY-BEE!" Sorry, I can't help with that one. Then stop falling for women who want Bay-bees. There aren't any who don't....!! Wow I know a lot of women who don't want a kid. It seems like you could just ask. It's one of the first things that comes up. They always lie and say they don't want kids. Three months later, it's mandatory that they have to have one. Every freaking time but one. Geez...had my tubes tied at 25 with no kids. We don't ALL want them. I keep hearing people say that. I think of it as the ultimate urban legend. |
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I was having a conversation with my mum about this subject, just the other day. I don't get the ones who don't spend time researching their partners background, before simply just fleeing off to a strange country, where everything is completely new to you. And also, there'd be new laws to contend with. I'm talking about these types you see who say "Well i met him while on holiday, then three weeks later, i moved in with him". Errr......how rational and sensible. Not. I don't think i could. I feel way too connected to my family, and my roots, to ever wanna move to another country. Don't think my mind would adapt to it. Then there's money worries and my pets to consider.
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