I went out with this guy yesterday. He seemed nice. We made plans to make plans for Friday. He called me this morning and I returned his call. I said I was at work and he said call me later. I said okay. Well...bad day at work, pushed with my pt 2 1/2 hours, did not have a lunch break til 430pm...etc..
After work I had to stop and get batteries for my son. I got home at 9pm. Took a shower and got online. Before I knew it 10pm. He calls me. Asked when I got home and I told him. He said you were suppose to call me. I said the above...He asked me 5 more questions dealing with my time and why I did not call. I said you act like you do not believe me. He said he was having a hard time believing me. I said I do not need this--I had a hard f---ing day, find someone else--goodbye.
He called back 10 mins later and I answered. He said I did not expect you to answer. I said yeah, well this is my phone. He said he wanted to vent. When someone saids something they should keep their word. I said I did not specify a time. He said noone calls after 10pm. I said I am not 5 yrs old, I just met you and I do not need 50 questions. He said he was trying to get to know me and did I want to continue. I said I was interested up til the time I got asked 50 questions--goodbye.
Was I wrong? Did I act like a bi---?

hell no girl, you definetly did the right thing. you are your own woman, you always will be no matter what. tell him to chill out and quit being so insecure cause the more he acts like that, the more it turns you off!!!

No, you did right in my opinion, I would freak out too over 50 questions. That just goes to show if that went farther, there woulda been trust issues.

heh, you were nicer than i would have been...i'd've just hung up.

if he expects you to account for your time before you're even IN a relationship, that's a bit controlling.

good for you .you did the right thing

thank you---
i feel the same way.

u r finr joyce he is just a friend u just met
not a cop and u r not a criminal
friendship and love are based on freedom

i was going to suggest telling him you were making a little sculpture of him

I don't think you were a bytch at all! I think you were a bit nicer then I would have been. If he is feeling insecure already then something is not right with him. I don't understand why you have to give a time line, if you say I will call you later...later means until the time you go to bed! Now IF you would have said a certain time...then I could see why he might be upset....but still things happen!!
I say dump him, if hes getting that upset already...good bye!!

yeah make a little doll of him and poke needles in it. just kidding

well we could burn him at the stake if ya wanted us too...







not sure why.. but i seem to be obsesed with burning people at the stake this week....

You where right and he was wrong simple as that.

I hate when people don't belive you etc, makes me a bit angery even after a full hard day of work so I can some what relate but only in a different way.

That's to bad it didn't work out.

Oh well there are other people that won't hopefully ask you so many questions etc.

Okay I found your post. Now send me a private message on who it is so I don't fall for the same thing!

Really he just sounds very lonely. We have to try to be understanding with each other during our lonely moments.

Then again you are a hottie and he was probably just head over heals for you.

Thank you pink princess...but i am not
clothes hide a lot!!!

you are right with what you did,,, i hate 50 questions game period, like that, im an adult im gonna do what im gonna do, i mean you just met, if thats goin on that early just imagine what would go on later!!!

You are a hottie my sexy nurse

okay--scotty
you...I would have allowed to ask me 50 questions and get away with it!!! LOL

That guy sucks, he needs me to b*tch slap him

You were right ...
you are an independent woman and certainly do not need an idiot second guessing you along the way......

thank you misty