Topic: how do one know when a man is in love?
Myrddin27's photo
Fri 01/06/12 02:09 AM
This is a hard question to answer as it also depends on what the indivdual percieves love to be.
Some on here say that he is in love when he stops sleeping with other women, but that cant be true as i have known many guys who have been 'true' to their girlfriends in that sense but dont actually LOVE them.
It depends on the person and what love means to them.
For some guys its only sleeping with that one girl, for others its the one you see spending the rest of your life with and for others its the one you do everything with.
Once you know what your partner sees as love then you will be able to understand when he is showing his love.
in all honesty if your unsure about a particular person and how they feel why not just ask them "hey if you loved someone how would you show them that you love them without actually saying it?"

s1owhand's photo
Fri 01/06/12 04:32 AM

i have ask myself this question countless times,women falls inlove with men easily.how do one know when a man is in love?what are the signs?


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Fri 01/06/12 05:22 AM


i have ask myself this question countless times,women falls inlove with men easily.how do one know when a man is in love?what are the signs?


The turkey thermometer pops up when it is done to delectable perfection!




BUT...It only pops out if you have inserted it correctly...

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Fri 01/06/12 06:27 AM




When he allows you to hold the remote. Or he lets you drive his sweet ride.

But in all seriousness....when he lets you be who you are. Mind, body, soul and heart. I think when a man is fearless...undeterred by the past....he can truly be open and not be so closed off....this is a clear sign. But I believe a lot of it has to do with how good of a person he is. Deep-rooted friendship plays a huge part I think. But honestly...few of the men I was deeply in love with never knew it. A lot of men are scared to dare to be that vulnerable.


Like this answer a lot Mariah....not only when he "lets" you be just who you are, but when he embraces it!!!:heart:


I was just thinking about this the other day since I write love songs...I think if he is heart is open, then he's able to do anything. There's too many that never truly accept you. The one that will is the one for you. I really believe that. I think there's always someone for everyone, the other half of you.


Yeah, even a few failed relationships has not changed my mind about this....I too believe the other half of one is found in another...Sometimes we have to go through the failed relationships to become wise enough to recognize this person when we do find them (or they find us)..I am a total romantic!:heart: :heart: :heart:


I really like what you and mariah are saying here - it expands nicely on the topic - where I am among the few who thinks the answer to the OP is pretty simple & obvious - finding that person is something we really have no control over - the timing of it- so those of us who are a little older I believe we recognize those moments as chances that are possibly once in a lifetime partly because as you have said - we have been thru some failed relationships - we've learned to discern , and I like what mariah is saying about the heart being open - one of the saddest things if finding someone and their heart is closed - for whatever reason - usually the reason has nothing to do with you but you suffer for it....like what if you find the right one and he or she is with someone else. we just have to bury that I guess

MariahsFantasy's photo
Fri 01/06/12 09:38 AM





When he allows you to hold the remote. Or he lets you drive his sweet ride.

But in all seriousness....when he lets you be who you are. Mind, body, soul and heart. I think when a man is fearless...undeterred by the past....he can truly be open and not be so closed off....this is a clear sign. But I believe a lot of it has to do with how good of a person he is. Deep-rooted friendship plays a huge part I think. But honestly...few of the men I was deeply in love with never knew it. A lot of men are scared to dare to be that vulnerable.


Like this answer a lot Mariah....not only when he "lets" you be just who you are, but when he embraces it!!!:heart:


I was just thinking about this the other day since I write love songs...I think if he is heart is open, then he's able to do anything. There's too many that never truly accept you. The one that will is the one for you. I really believe that. I think there's always someone for everyone, the other half of you.


Yeah, even a few failed relationships has not changed my mind about this....I too believe the other half of one is found in another...Sometimes we have to go through the failed relationships to become wise enough to recognize this person when we do find them (or they find us)..I am a total romantic!:heart: :heart: :heart:


I really like what you and mariah are saying here - it expands nicely on the topic - where I am among the few who thinks the answer to the OP is pretty simple & obvious - finding that person is something we really have no control over - the timing of it- so those of us who are a little older I believe we recognize those moments as chances that are possibly once in a lifetime partly because as you have said - we have been thru some failed relationships - we've learned to discern , and I like what mariah is saying about the heart being open - one of the saddest things if finding someone and their heart is closed - for whatever reason - usually the reason has nothing to do with you but you suffer for it....like what if you find the right one and he or she is with someone else. we just have to bury that I guess



There is no worse fate than falling for a closed heart. ohwell

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Fri 01/06/12 10:04 AM

He stops sleeping with other women. LOL.



drinker right..

1SOPHIAIUX's photo
Sat 01/07/12 10:31 AM
Edited by 1SOPHIAIUX on Sat 01/07/12 10:33 AM
When he won't admit it! smooched
blushing blushing love noway happy but his ways show the opposite!

It would be a fun,serious, mushy and hands-on-approach list...its personal!drinker drinker
:banana: drool drinks blushing glasses glasses :heart:


s1owhand's photo
Sat 01/07/12 11:06 AM
He lets you use the remote whenever you like. smitten

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sat 01/07/12 04:12 PM

He lets you use the remote whenever you like. smitten


I've had a date literally shove it in his trousers.

What da hail is he especting me to do? pitchfork

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Sat 01/07/12 04:19 PM
Well......The song says....."it's in His Kiss"
But some might say it's a little....
Lower.
But if he starts blowing off his Bro's, so he can be with you....
I'd bet the farm he's ......Smitten!!!

Lottierose's photo
Mon 01/09/12 01:31 PM
Ive never been loved but i guess how he touches you ,he has your pic as a screensaver had that ounce my ex had my pic as his screensaver.
How long he stays. if you argue he want see you again he tells you he misses you when your apart cant wait see you will drop everything for you how he looks at you if he actually says the words had that of two of my bfs ;-( if he takes you on nice dates byes you flowers

Lottierose's photo
Mon 01/09/12 01:37 PM
If he puts slushy comments on your facebook wall hes proud hes in love.i never had that of a guy i was dating ;-(

Lottierose's photo
Mon 01/09/12 01:52 PM
I know im in love when hes on my mind every second i have his picture as my screensaver all i want do is see him again.when ill do anything see him when i keep speaking see him after arguing. When you forgive it all hope the guy knows bye how i look at him,hold him and when i talk mushy to him so i guess guys do same type of things as yourself when your in love <3

Lottierose's photo
Mon 01/09/12 01:53 PM
Edited by Lottierose on Mon 01/09/12 01:59 PM
Just another thought how can a guy tell a girl loves him or on a first date that she enjoyed the date and wants a second what is the guy looking for to discover the answers what signs??

Goofball73's photo
Mon 01/09/12 03:15 PM
Men can do different things to show their love for a woman. Maybe they take her on a romantic getaway. Maybe he buys her something so silly and simple (but it means so much to her cause it has a special meaning). Their are many things.

But when a man is so in love with a woman you can tell in one way. His eyes will give it away. She will enter a room, and he can't take his eyes away from her. Oh he can hide it from time to time. But if you pay close attention, his eyes will always show what his heart feels. Yeah. He can look at other women. He can see them. But when a man loves a woman, he will only "see" her. This may sound corny, and a lot of guys will try to deny that this is truth. But it simply is the truth. When a man is in love, his eyes will give him away.

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Mon 01/09/12 03:49 PM
When he leaves you notes that you find throughout the day

Lays on your side of the bed to warm it up before you get in it

Does all the chores around the house that you hate doing

Gets up in the middle of the night from a sound sleep to check the house because you heard a strange noise

Rubs your feet after a long day without you having to ask

Looks into your beautiful eyes like he did when you first met

Laughs at and loves your goofiness


ladyliz1417's photo
Mon 01/09/12 03:52 PM

When he leaves you notes that you find throughout the day

Lays on your side of the bed to warm it up before you get in it

Does all the chores around the house that you hate doing

Gets up in the middle of the night from a sound sleep to check the house because you heard a strange noise

Rubs your feet after a long day without you having to ask

Looks into your beautiful eyes like he did when you first met

Laughs at and loves your goofiness


smitten love

teadipper's photo
Mon 01/09/12 03:53 PM

When he leaves you notes that you find throughout the day

Lays on your side of the bed to warm it up before you get in it

Does all the chores around the house that you hate doing

Gets up in the middle of the night from a sound sleep to check the house because you heard a strange noise

Rubs your feet after a long day without you having to ask

Looks into your beautiful eyes like he did when you first met

Laughs at and loves your goofiness




All my guy friends said any guy good enough for me could afford paper cups and plates and a maid, the guy I am with now says, for everything I do and how much he cares about me, he has no problem cleaning or putting away the laundry. : ) I think my friends are going to be very happy with him.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 01/09/12 05:50 PM

: ) I think my friends are going to be very happy with him.


Are you going to pass him around at parties?

andrewzooms's photo
Mon 01/09/12 05:53 PM

your picture is his screensaver

when you call he steps away from his friends to talk

he starts buying buy one get one free items and gives you one

and most importantly, you meet his momma


This is so true.