Topic: Should u tell men straight out u hav kids?
SheNerd's photo
Thu 07/26/07 02:25 PM
That's understandable. You need a child of your own to carry on the proud name of Hitler. :)

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Thu 07/26/07 02:28 PM
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Thu 07/26/07 02:30 PM
This post kills me. of course she should tell him. cmon. the only reason not to would be for a free dinner date under false pretenses.

mckeachie's photo
Thu 07/26/07 02:37 PM
free dinner now your thanking...good advice lol

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Thu 07/26/07 03:20 PM
ok....i have a question....why is it so hard for a man to accept another mans children..??
Im not a man....but I accepted another womans child...but now because ive made that choice....i cant find someone to love me....why does it seem so unfair.....??

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Thu 07/26/07 03:23 PM
im raising someone elses child because he needed to be taken care of....nobody else was stepping up to the plate.....
but i do love him..and he always will be my son

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Thu 07/26/07 04:56 PM
If a man can't accept your children then he isn't truely accepting you. Until they are grown and out of the house it does matter that he accepts them. The right man will love them and you with no questions.

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Fri 07/27/07 12:12 AM
I might be going out with a girl that has teen's and there twin girl's, i don't mind that part, but how come i wasn't told the frist time that i did talk to her??..
She also has there dad there in the home and she want's him out, and a new leas on life with me to be with her.
What do you people think about this??...:smile:

Native_Grl39's photo
Fri 07/27/07 03:52 AM
I wouldn't be going anywhere until he is out of the house...If she wants a new lease on life...Let her get him out of the house first...That's the best thing before moving on to a new relationship...I wouldn't get caught in the middle of it personally!!!!!!!!!

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oldsage's photo
Fri 07/27/07 04:33 AM
Vegas, I see big warning signs. Your rather young to be jumping that far. What is she doing talking like that, while he is still there? What would you call a guy doing the same thing? Take a hard look at all the facts. Be careful.

rivame's photo
Fri 07/27/07 05:52 AM
Hey listen up every one....

I got Kids...:smile:

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Fri 07/27/07 06:03 AM
Vegas she is playing you for a fool.If she wanted him out,he would be out.Run like the wind.

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Fri 07/27/07 11:35 AM
Im rather leary telling anyone, especially on the net that I have a child. Not because I think it will scare him away or anything like that. I am quite paranoid of the child molestors out there.

In fact, I will never put a pic of my child on the net or tell anyone his name either.

If I find that I am comfortable enough with someone, I will let them know....

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Fri 07/27/07 11:39 AM
I tell everybody I have kids, they are part of me...besides my son is 6'5" and would kick the butt of anybody who tried to mess with him, his sister AND me...

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Fri 07/27/07 11:43 AM
Im not saying I am embarrassed....in real life my co workers etc know I have one.....Im just too freaked out by the crazies out there. Mine is 6 ft tall right now and growing.

trueokie2's photo
Fri 07/27/07 12:31 PM
I did not say I don't tell men I have kids.. I do.. cuz Im proud of my kids... I didn't want everyone to get bent out of shape over it:angry: ... I know if a man can't except my kids he is not worth it... but it still makes me mad when the issue comes up...:angry: that was all I was sayin... I did mean for anyone to get nasty about the whole thing... was just wantin to see what everyones veiw was about that type of situation... Im sorry if I made someone mad or upset... flowerforyou

TJ_777's photo
Fri 07/27/07 12:50 PM
Is this really a valid question.... I would think if it's a package deal...everyone would want to get off on the right foot....be it man or woman?

Katertots37's photo
Fri 07/27/07 01:36 PM
BTW all you men, I HAVE KIDS!!!laugh

Easyboy's photo
Fri 07/27/07 01:40 PM
hey kate..wanna have more..laugh laugh laugh devil

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Fri 07/27/07 01:41 PM
laugh Sorry hun, but i've been fixedlaugh