Community > Dating & Relationships

Previous 1 2 Next

Topic: To have a choice
desire22 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 22	Wed 01/18/12 08:30 AM
Is it wrong to have a good choice? To want to be comfortable?

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45345	Wed 01/18/12 08:37 AM
Uh. Yes. Wait.. No. Uh. Definitively..maybe.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/18/12 08:42 AM
A good choice of what?

desire22 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 22	Wed 01/18/12 08:52 AM
A good choice of being happy,to desire to have good things like love,money,a handsome man and others.is it wrong?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/18/12 08:55 AM
A good choice of being happy,to desire to have good things like love,money,a handsome man and others.is it wrong? What's keeping you from choosing to be happy?

desire22 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 22	Wed 01/18/12 09:03 AM
Maybe because i want to achieve so much in life.to have it all.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/18/12 09:04 AM
So you can't be happy unless you have everything you want?

desire22 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 22	Wed 01/18/12 09:12 AM
No bt i want to achieve something.

Ruth34611 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 32402	Wed 01/18/12 09:13 AM
Happiness IS the choice. Everything else is temporary.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Wed 01/18/12 09:19 AM
Why would it be wrong to want things that make you happy? Something is missing from your question.

desire22 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 22	Wed 01/18/12 09:26 AM
Am i asking for too much? When i want my man to be God fearing,caring,loving.faithful,rich, handsome n other things.pls tel me

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45345	Wed 01/18/12 09:35 AM
Am i asking for too much? When i want my man to be God fearing,caring,loving.faithful,rich, handsome n other things.pls tel me I think expectations of yourself, are always valid. Of others, not so much.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 01/18/12 09:48 AM
Am i asking for too much? When i want my man to be God fearing,caring,loving.faithful,rich, handsome n other things.pls tel me I think expectations of yourself, are always valid. Of others, not so much. I hear this. Lower your expectations a little. No one person is going to get ALL they dreamed of in someone. I think actual dreams/aspirations are different. We can always strive to reach higher in what we acheive. People are too different to measure up to such standards. Then again we are all flawed in some way so asking for perfection is moot.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Wed 01/18/12 11:11 AM
Baby steps... Rome wasn't built in a day. Sometimes if you heap too many expectations on yourself particularly if your expectations are unrealistic, you're setting yourself up to fail. Take a good look inside before reaching for the sky!

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Wed 01/18/12 11:17 AM
Sometimes we'll never get everything we want, but that's life. There isn't always much you can do about it. However, you can choose to not let it frustrate you. Life won't always go the way you want it to go. Things just happen for whatever reason. I do hope you DO get everything you wish for, though :)

desire22 Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 22	Fri 01/20/12 08:51 AM
Thank u all.am grateful 4 ur advice

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Fri 01/20/12 08:57 AM
Well you had me until you said "god fearing" Good luck to you

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Fri 01/20/12 09:08 AM
Well you had me until you said "god fearing" Good luck to you Heathen!

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45345	Fri 01/20/12 10:36 AM
Well you had me until you said "god fearing" Good luck to you Heathen! We could burn him at the stake. But he is Canadian. He will probably think it is a moose BBQ.

Bushidobillyclub Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 5689	Fri 01/20/12 10:46 AM
I would say it is the only real purpose to life.